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When exactly do you send a deposit?

whitmore

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I understand that, but blanket statements that ALL escorts who request deposit are scams can’t be made either. That is like saying ALL client who insist on text apps want to harm sex workers.

SOME escorts are scams, not ALL. That is my point. You can choose not to send deposits, that is fine but I personally won’t sit back and just let blanket statements be made without calling them out for what they are.
I didn’t say all escort’s deposits are scams. I said too many deposits are potential scams.

At the beginning of this thread I said never give a deposit unless you are prepared to loose it.
 
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I didn’t say all escort’s deposits are scams. I said too many deposits are potential scams.

At the beginning of this thread I said never give a deposit unless you are prepared to loose it.
But you quoted me when I was only commenting to someone else who was making blanket statements.
 

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I’d do it if it’s someone I really really wanted to see like Sonia Von Sacher, Katrina Vianna and Dalia Sage. And I had a great time, but references have worked pretty well for me so far. I won’t do ID, though. In fact only one SP knows my name, and I know I can trust her with that.
 

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Never because the are more scammers than honorable/reputable ones especially in this economy so the odds are not in your favor.

The so called "reputable" ones have been on this board where they did not return deposits only for threads to be deleted.
 

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Never because the are more scammers than honorable/reputable ones especially in this economy so the odds are not in your favor.

The so called "reputable" ones have been on this board where they did not return deposits only for threads to be deleted.
It's why I never do deposits. Once they have your money they aren't going to give it back.
 

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Anything over $100 is big no. Any SP with no reviews is a big no. So don’t send anything over $100 to SPs with no reviews
 
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J Smoove

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You set the date first before sending the deposit.

I have sent deposits without issues. I have also had deposits returned to me without issues. That being said, make sure you thoroughly vet the SP you are interested in seeing. Look for online profiles and reviews. It's not 100% foolproof, but it will mitigate the risk of being scammed.
 
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TauCeti

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Great. Doesn't negate what I have said. Contractors, lawyers, web designers, photographers, hairdressers, etc use the deposit system, and it is standard 25%.

I have paid a deposit for surgeries, I have paid a deposit for large mechanical repairs, I have paid a deposit for all my renovations, I paid deposits on vehicle purchases, websites, photography. Just because you haven't, doesn't mean anything.
Every single business you quoted is a LEGITIMATE business. LEGITIMATE businesses can be sued if they do not do the work you paid for.

Prostitution is an ILLEGAL business. How on earth are you going to sue a prostitute in a legitimate court?

Never ever send a deposit to an escort. Hundreds if not thousands of escorts out there that DO NOT require a deposit.
 

superman2006

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Big red flag when they ask you to send anything over $100, I had some Montreal girl touring asking to send $800 in gift cards, like no thx
 
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Every single business you quoted is a LEGITIMATE business. LEGITIMATE businesses can be sued if they do not do the work you paid for.

Prostitution is an ILLEGAL business. How on earth are you going to sue a prostitute in a legitimate court?

Never ever send a deposit to an escort. Hundreds if not thousands of escorts out there that DO NOT require a deposit.
Illegal for you. Not for me. I am doing legal work. I pay taxes for this.

I don't request deposits myself but the standard for those that do is 25%.
 
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