When do you bareback?
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I seem to recall seeing something like this in an old Nazi cult film. Elsa, She-Wolf of the SS was boiling her men-folk alive or something sick...genintoronto said:
Gen, you aren't German are you? I think Elsa was wearing an outfit a bit like the one in your sig-pic!
As for BB... Used to do it all the time back in the olden days, when sex wasn't fatal. In the past 15 years or so... ex wife, g/f's and 2 SPs when we got carried away. (Both were indy, and very selective in who they saw.) I've been tested numerous times since... all good!
Hahaha. No, I'm not German, and boiling my men-toys alive is a little too hardcore, even for me.Dougal Short said:
Guys, really, BBFS with an SP? I had an SP tell me once she makes the assumption if the guy is asking for BBFS, he's already infected and doesn't care, so he not only gets turned down, but shown the door. I have to say that is a very good working assumption to make.
I've also never heard of a civi doing a CBJ, so I would agree BJ's in civilian life are overwhelmingly BB. As to FS, it's been so long since I have dated in civilian life, my answer would be absolutely meaningless, but having grown up with AIDS in the background (I just started High School when it was clearly identified as an epidemic), condoms with strange girls were always a must. With regular girlfriends, I have to admit that there were times when they fell by the way side back then (I was a horny kid, after all), but the biggest concern was pregnancy.
Again, I don't understand how anybody would want to go bare back with someone who he knows is having sex elsewhere... if she'll bare back with you, she'll bare back with others as well (and vice versa), so beware!
I've also never heard of a civi doing a CBJ, so I would agree BJ's in civilian life are overwhelmingly BB. As to FS, it's been so long since I have dated in civilian life, my answer would be absolutely meaningless, but having grown up with AIDS in the background (I just started High School when it was clearly identified as an epidemic), condoms with strange girls were always a must. With regular girlfriends, I have to admit that there were times when they fell by the way side back then (I was a horny kid, after all), but the biggest concern was pregnancy.
Again, I don't understand how anybody would want to go bare back with someone who he knows is having sex elsewhere... if she'll bare back with you, she'll bare back with others as well (and vice versa), so beware!
From my personal experience the feeling and "time to refill" didn't change from before or after the surgery. The ejaculate appears to be a little more "runny" than before but I've done no empirical testing to support that belief. <grin>Ivan said:
Since I don't want kids, sex post surgery (with or without a condom) has been better because there is no little voice in my head going "what if she gets pregnant".
A LOT of b.s. flying around here !!!!!!!!!!
I got 2 friends in the biz. First is 28, not an escort for 4 years now. Was 1 from 18 -24. She says less than 10% ask for b.b.f.s. Yes she did it with 6 of them over the years & NO, not everyone that asked. Good hygene & some attraction went a long way with these regulars. & NO she never caught anything & YES, has been tested. Now the other girl we are both friends with .... is ALL TOO COMMON in the industry. She, like most, will never go b.b.f.s. ..... REAL REASON.... creates a barrier that makes it biz. & seperate from her personal life. Also like most..... she b.b.f.s. ALL her black boyfriends ( of course , she is white). Never had a boyfriend for more than 4 months ..... most just 1-2 months & lots of 1 niters ..... ALL never covered......... THEN , she is upset when she finds out she has genital herpes. WTF: Ya.!! You bang how many "hommies"" uncovered over the years. THE TRUTH: most are not staying covered with the "custies" due to health reasons. Very few guys actually ask for uncovered. It is TRUE, an escort may go b.b.f.s. with a select few & thus not throw all caution to the wind & do everyone. ........ still looking.
I got 2 friends in the biz. First is 28, not an escort for 4 years now. Was 1 from 18 -24. She says less than 10% ask for b.b.f.s. Yes she did it with 6 of them over the years & NO, not everyone that asked. Good hygene & some attraction went a long way with these regulars. & NO she never caught anything & YES, has been tested. Now the other girl we are both friends with .... is ALL TOO COMMON in the industry. She, like most, will never go b.b.f.s. ..... REAL REASON.... creates a barrier that makes it biz. & seperate from her personal life. Also like most..... she b.b.f.s. ALL her black boyfriends ( of course , she is white). Never had a boyfriend for more than 4 months ..... most just 1-2 months & lots of 1 niters ..... ALL never covered......... THEN , she is upset when she finds out she has genital herpes. WTF: Ya.!! You bang how many "hommies"" uncovered over the years.
THE TRUTH: most are not staying covered with the "custies" due to health reasons. Very few guys actually ask for uncovered. It is TRUE, an escort may go b.b.f.s. with a select few & thus not throw all caution to the wind & do everyone. ........ still looking.Free willy!!!!
Never been a condom user. Before marriage, never had intercourse just oral BB give and take with gfs. Always BB with SO ...maybe explains 5 pregnancies Actually all five were planned, otherwise she was on pill until the big V took care of everything.
Hobbying, never FS (MP kinda guy normally as my terb name suggests) so not an issue that way. Only intercourse with SO (mental boundary I have rationalized for myself - I can always use the Bill Clinton defence).
For oral it is BB for BJ or DATY (no condoms or barriers). Tried with CBJ a couple of times and I agree with those that say BB is a 10 and cover is a 3. So now if only cbj is offered I say no thanx, enjoy everything else offered (esp DATY) and keep the cbj money in my pocket to help finance another MP visit. CBJ does nothing for me, so I presume the same would be true for intercourse with condom.
I have heard story that a latex barrier or mebrance allows covered DATY, but don't know if that is just a myth. I imagine that covered DATY might also rate only a three on the 10-point scale, whereas I find uncovered DATY is almost always an 11!!!
MF
Never been a condom user. Before marriage, never had intercourse just oral BB give and take with gfs. Always BB with SO ...maybe explains 5 pregnancies
Actually all five were planned, otherwise she was on pill until the big V took care of everything. Hobbying, never FS (MP kinda guy normally as my terb name suggests) so not an issue that way. Only intercourse with SO (mental boundary I have rationalized for myself - I can always use the Bill Clinton defence).
For oral it is BB for BJ or DATY (no condoms or barriers). Tried with CBJ a couple of times and I agree with those that say BB is a 10 and cover is a 3. So now if only cbj is offered I say no thanx, enjoy everything else offered (esp DATY) and keep the cbj money in my pocket to help finance another MP visit. CBJ does nothing for me, so I presume the same would be true for intercourse with condom.
I have heard story that a latex barrier or mebrance allows covered DATY, but don't know if that is just a myth. I imagine that covered DATY might also rate only a three on the 10-point scale, whereas I find uncovered DATY is almost always an 11!!!
MF
They are called dams or dental dams, and they are definitely not a myth.massagefan said:
Can be found and purchased in most sex shops, such as Come as You Are.
Well whaddaya know! Thanx Gen.
I actually have had that stuff stretched across mouth at dentist with clamps and everything. I can't imagine it being much fun for giver or receiver. Where would you put the clamps? Last thing I want to be reminded of at that special time is my last trip to the dentist.
I actually have had that stuff stretched across mouth at dentist with clamps and everything. I can't imagine it being much fun for giver or receiver. Where would you put the clamps? Last thing I want to be reminded of at that special time is my last trip to the dentist.
You don't need clamps. From the link provided above:massagefan said:
"[FONT=Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, san-serif]The partner performing oral sex will hold the dam against the vulva or anus of the receiving partner. You can opt to apply a lubricant on the vulva or anus before using the dam. The lubricant can help increase the sensation for the recipient. Just make sure the lubricant is a water-based lube because oil-based lubes and lotions can degrade the latex and decrease the dam's effectiveness.[/FONT][FONT=Geneva, Arial, Helvetica, san-serif]"
I have to admit that I'm not a big fan of using dams when going down on a girl: so much of the experience (smell, taste, texture) is lost when using them. But they are the next best thing for those who want to minimize the risk of infections. I don't mind them as much when being on the receiving end: the sensation is definitely different, but not necessarily in a bad way.
They are also great for those who are into rimming but are concerned about the high level risk of bacterial and STDs infection with this particular activity. In this case too, I find them more annoying from the giver perspective -- from the receiving end, the sensation is different, but not unpleasingly so.
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i don't at this point.
its just too risky.
i've grown used to condoms anyway.
recently discovered SKYN brand condoms and im pretty happy with them...
its just too risky.
i've grown used to condoms anyway.
recently discovered SKYN brand condoms and im pretty happy with them...
