When do you bareback?

BB - with wife when married (she was on the pill).

With GFs before marriage - they were on the pill

Never when first being with someone or a one night stand.

With current GF - I did the Big V.

After the Big V, sex is better as I don't need to think about the possibility of a baby, so takes away any worries
 
needinit said:
BB - with wife when married (she was on the pill).

With GFs before marriage - they were on the pill

Never when first being with someone or a one night stand.

With current GF - I did the Big V.

After the Big V, sex is better as I don't need to think about the possibility of a baby, so takes away any worries


done all and it was good:p
 
moresex4me said:
The only issue with condoms is actually getting the thing on without losing the moment. Once you get past that (and I've had some very interesting help), the rest is just in your head.

My only caveat is a BJ... the sensations you feel are more delicate, so a cover detracts from that. As to FS, and despite the talent in the GTA, I don't believe anyone has got a tongue down there... it's more about friction... friction... friction...

LOL this SO reminds me of a scene from seinfeld: George was saying something like, hell, I'm done just putting the rubber ON, what do I need her for? lol.

For me: (and it's been years) I don't go BB with a GF until 12 months into the relationship and we've both been tested at 3 months and 12. Nowadays I hear you can find out immediately if you have it or not.
 
I onyl have BB with my SO. Did it eons ago with some cheerleaders when I was in highschool but i dont thing rubbers were around back then lol
 
GotGusto said:
So you've never done BB at all? You've never experienced your cock in a pussy in all its glory?

Yep, dont want kids (now), i've heard horror stories of those pills failing.

So yea i wonder how does a real pussy feel :(
 
Whenever I'm dating someone - it's always BB.

I've dated allot of women over the years and I can only think of 1 that insisted on condom usage and that didn't last very long (and that was a big part of the reason I dropped her). Most women drop the condom requirement the second or third time you're in bed together and never go back, hell, most don't even ask the first time you are in bed. I've also dated a couple of women who also despise condoms as much as me, even more so.

I don't worry about pregnancy because if I know that they're not on the pill, I pull out. If a pregnancy were to occur, I'm not worried about that either. Part of me would be very much ok having a kid.

I hate condoms and only use them for casual sex.
 
Never, from reading Terb and watching daytime TV I know everyone fucks around on their mate.
It's funny to hear the words "committed relationship" on here. :rolleyes:
 
It's been so long since I did bare back, I've forgotten what it feels like...:(
 
drlove said:
It's been so long since I did bare back, I've forgotten what it feels like...:(

It's the best.

On a scale of sexual pleasure, bareback is a 10, wearing a condom is a 3. You still come (maybe) but I always feel like something is holding me back.
 
Brill said:
Never, from reading Terb and watching daytime TV I know everyone fucks around on their mate.
It's funny to hear the words "committed relationship" on here. :rolleyes:
Why is it funny? There are many people who are monogamous in relationships, myself included.
 
Only with my dog. He can't stand condoms.
 
I've only had two partners with whom I was fluid bonded, in both cases we got tested first, and we trusted each other to respect our commitment to practice safer sex with other partners.

Nowadays, I have bareback penis-in-vagina sex only with sillicone cocks since they can be sterilized by boiling them. It's a shame the same can't be done with bio-cocks. ;)
 
Ivan said:
i've always wondered if shooting blanks would feel as good as ejaculation?? does it mean you can do multiple times without having to wait for refill? did you get it done surgically or natural aging??

Wouldn't count on aging...most men have a decline in sperm count over time...but few become completely sterile. You don't want a child once you are over 80...hard to teach the kid how to play baseball.
 
My sex with 'fluidy orifices' is overwhelmingly civi-side minus the odd helping hand. To use the TERB lingo BBBJ 'always' because civi girls just don't cover that shit... BBFS after we've had the monogamous chat, the sexual history chat, and we both feel secure in the 'fundamental' honesty of our sexual histories. At this point by the time a woman gets through the above 3 chats pregnancy would just be something to deal with if it happened. Planned, unplanned, or aborted I'd survive... I also get tested once a year.

To a previous poster, it's not so much that the pill doesn't work as that sometimes they quietly fall into toilets, or a woman may have an 'unexpected' chemical reaction because of some medication. Always remember no BBFS unless you are utterly comfortable with ALL of the potential consequences.