While Rocco's desires aren't my cup of tea lets not lump him in with guys who unexpectedly violently assault the ladies. There is a BIG difference
Let me tell you a story.
Last summer I met a new girl to the industry. Very sweet, very one that is into pleasing and one who enjoys being submissive in the sense she enjoys a man taking his pleasure from her.
Saw her twice and had a wonderful time and left on Cloud Nine.
A few weeks later I saw her agin and she was a completely changed person. To make a long story short she broke down and told me that the that the day after she had seen me, she had seen a client who asked if she was "submissive" as they were having sex. She said she was and he then spit in her face, slapped her and asked "how submissive?" and "do you like that?".
Ghomeshi-style.
She said she was paralyzed with fear and scared to death and couldn't speak. She actually feared for her life. She simply couldn't speak and then he choked her. She really thought he was going to kill her.. He proceeded to slap her and spit on her and choke her and she felt he took her lack of protest as tacit permission. He finished, smiled, got up and acted all normal and said thanks.
He left and she cried for hours not knowing what to do.
She asked not to work at the airport area and her agency agreed.
In any case, she said she later realized that the guy meant no actual harm but she says it demoralized her so much to think that there were actually people who enjoyed hurting and degrading other people.
Her story actually brought tears to my eyes. I couldn't go through with the "appointment" and wished there was some way that I could have helped her more in terms of helping her understand people.
I'm rambling but I have other stories that I really can't bring myself to tell but suffice to say that like mass murderers who tortured animals as kids, men who get sexually aroused at the prospect or by acts of degradation and violence really have a diseased mind. And I don't mean that in a pejorative sense. I mean it in the same way that I might describe a schizophrenic or someone with autism etc.
It must be an awful life to have to live to derive pleasure from someone else's pain.
