What's your status?

Where are you on the relationship spectrum?

  • Single & never had a wife or long term relationship (LTR)

    Votes: 43 37.4%
  • Have a girlfriend but we do not live together

    Votes: 5 4.3%
  • Have a wife/LTR and we live together.

    Votes: 39 33.9%
  • Separated

    Votes: 3 2.6%
  • First marriage/LTR ended. Now single.

    Votes: 14 12.2%
  • Marriage/LTR has ended. Now with a new woman. Do not live together.

    Votes: 3 2.6%
  • In my second marriage or LTR. We live together.

    Votes: 4 3.5%
  • Separated from my second wife/partner

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Second marriage/LTR has ended. Single again.

    Votes: 1 0.9%
  • In my third marriage/LTR. (Three's a charm)

    Votes: 3 2.6%

  • Total voters
    115

thirdcup

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Where are you on the relationship spectrum?
 
Happily married. I enjoy sex much more than my wife does.

Exactly my situation, happily married to my high school spinner girlfriend for >45 years, 2 kids n 6 grandkids. My wife still looks hot n dresses sexy, was a sexual dynamo until menopause, but is pretty much doing it now to please me. I'm hornier than ever, besides which I like chilling with girls much more than guys. The more I have sex, the happier I am :thumb:
 
The 5th one down, just that my divorce was longer than my marriage. :embarassed:

I'm told nothing depletes your financial net worth more than a nice divorce LOL !
I really like my $$ net worth, so have avoided big time !! :D
 
I'm told nothing depletes your financial net worth more than a nice divorce LOL !
I really like my $$ net worth, so have avoided big time !! :D

You know, even though there was relatively little assets, and the marriage was quite short, I still went through hell and it cost me, plus stunted my growth. I lost a disproportionate amount of my liquid and invested assets to her and legal fees. I even paid spousal support on top of a fucking equalization payment. It was a disproportionate amount when you add it all up. To make matters worse, at the time, my EX was able to get Legal Aid!!!!!!! The State financed her feminist lawyer against poor me. I believe they don't get involved in divorce cases like they used to.
 
None of the above.
I have never been married but have had two serious relationships one was very long term a few years but didn't workout, the other was shorter term and I almost married her but decided against it before it was too late. I was 35 and she was 20, we were dating for almost a year, we still talk and have casual sex from time to time.
Now I am in my late 30's single, date often and could not be happier. Do not see myself getting married anytime soon either but if I do she is signing a pre nup.
 
I've got about 4 dozen part time boyfriends ;)

Slut! :p :D

As for me, first LTR was 6 years, we were just youngsters though, she wanted to get married, I didn't.

Second LTR lasted 18 yrs. We had 3 kids together, but it ended and we are still friends. Even stops by for a conjugal every once in awhile! ;)

Currently have 3 FWB's but nothing serious.
 
You know, even though there was relatively little assets, and the marriage was quite short, I still went through hell and it cost me, plus stunted my growth. I lost a disproportionate amount of my liquid and invested assets to her and legal fees. I even paid spousal support on top of a fucking equalization payment. It was a disproportionate amount when you add it all up. To make matters worse, at the time, my EX was able to get Legal Aid!!!!!!! The State financed her feminist lawyer against poor me. I believe they don't get involved in divorce cases like they used to.

That sounds terrible and like you do not feel that judgment was fair. Did you appeal?
 
You know, even though there was relatively little assets, and the marriage was quite short, I still went through hell and it cost me, plus stunted my growth. I lost a disproportionate amount of my liquid and invested assets to her and legal fees. I even paid spousal support on top of a fucking equalization payment. It was a disproportionate amount when you add it all up. To make matters worse, at the time, my EX was able to get Legal Aid!!!!!!! The State financed her feminist lawyer against poor me. I believe they don't get involved in divorce cases like they used to.

I'm really not sure why you voiced this, Its really nobodies business, but your own.
 
You know, even though there was relatively little assets, and the marriage was quite short, I still went through hell and it cost me, plus stunted my growth. I lost a disproportionate amount of my liquid and invested assets to her and legal fees. I even paid spousal support on top of a fucking equalization payment. It was a disproportionate amount when you add it all up. To make matters worse, at the time, my EX was able to get Legal Aid!!!!!!! The State financed her feminist lawyer against poor me. I believe they don't get involved in divorce cases like they used to.

Kinda makes me think there's an underlying reason for such a lopsided judgement.

Just saying...
 
Slut! :p :D

As for me, first LTR was 6 years, we were just youngsters though, she wanted to get married, I didn't.

Second LTR lasted 18 yrs. We had 3 kids together, but it ended and we are still friends. Even stops by for a conjugal every once in awhile! ;)

Currently have 3 FWB's but nothing serious.

I sure hope you pay big time child support, or she deserves to shake you down for 50% of everything you got. I have no time for any guy that doesn't fully pay his share to support any child he fosters into this world through University . If you have children, you are 100% responsible to provide them with every "opportunity" for a satisfying, successful life. period !
 
I sure hope you pay big time child support, or she deserves to shake you down for 50% of everything you got. I have no time for any guy that doesn't fully pay his share to support any child he fosters into this world through University . If you have children, you are 100% responsible to provide them with every "opportunity" for a satisfying, successful life. period !

Just because you got away with it, doesn't make him a lesser man. Case closed !!!!!!!!!!!!