Having read this thread in depth......
It's not the same as potentially getting chicken pox or a virus by being in close proximity of someone. In order to get STI's you have to do very specific things in order to get them. Specifics like bare genital touching.
Gohnorrhea is now a superbug in the U.K. The issue with some STI's is you need antibiotics, and when they are used often enough you develop a resistance and cause a stronger strain.
http://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/arg/
http://www.healthmap.org/site/disea...bug-meet-antibiotic-resistant-gonorrhea-52913
http://www.cnbc.com/2015/12/30/gonorrhea-super-strain-becoming-untreatable.html
Syphilis can also be transmitted through genital to genital touching. Is no one worried about tertiary syphilis and dementia when you are older?
Sadly pussyslides are used to try and 'slip one in' very frequently. Girls have also complained about this adnauseum. I had experienced that when I was "eager and new". I'm also telling you I was uncomfortable with it but did not want to complain to the agency because it was repeatedly stated that " I could do whatever I wanted, but I would lose clients". The same with BBBJ.
If you can't respect that your 'little bit of extra fun' can destroy my business, sex life, and destroy my potential relationships in the future because I got herpes form letting people rub their bare genitals all over mine despite knowing it's a direct cause....
It's funny, there is so much slut shamming on terb and comments about girls turning out high client rates as being "unclassy", or being "dirty", or 'getting vibes' off a provider to tell if she is 'clean or not" e.t.c e.t.c
Then we look on threads and people seem to get huffy at ladies who want to stay safe. Who are knowledgeable about STI', who haven't gotten any despite 'law of statistics', and who advocate safe sex.
And we get called buzzkills....
And people PM each other to look for MA's and Sp's who will do very high risk activities....
and then people get STD"s.
And then people wonder why society hates escorts, and clients.
And then people complain about Bill- C36....
If people aren't playing safe, and are taking advantage of girls who don't know any better, are being pressured to keep clients by competition, clients, or agencies... and are being callous towards providers personal limitations, limitations based solely on safety...
You can't really complain about there being a lack of good providers in the area then.
Attractive people who take pride in their business, appearance, health, and personal lives do not want to engage in extremely high risk activities and they do not want their lives ruined. They do not want to be put out of business due to a permanent STI either.
If a girl feels like she is being pressured, taken advantage of, disrespected, or put in a high risk scenario, she is not going to be warm. Her services are going to be mechanical. She is going to be drunk or high off her ass to cope.
I have seen this time and time again with other girls. I experienced a bit of this personally when I was new.
Shame on people here blaming girls connections for putting a damper on services. That Sp may very well have gotten an STD, and thankfully nothing permanent. That girl may have more respect for herself and not want to do it now. That girl may not be pressured by an agency. She may now have enough clients that she does not want need to do it.That girl may actually understand the risks. Preying on ignorance, and especially young, isolated women is nothing short of vile.
For those who complain so much, and want so many high risk activities, and to pay less than what has ever been charged in this industry...
Give your head a shake.
You reap what you sow.
I say this, not to change anyones current mind- if you downplay the risks, pressure girls for BBFS, pussy slides, and BBBJ- if they are very very uncomfortable with it , then you are already very stuck on this idea. You are also not thinking about the SP, her future, or your future outside this hobby. You will continue to do what you do.
I say this in the hope that new clients, who are just getting to be a part of this subculture, actually think about what their actions can do to themselves, their future relationships, and their Sp's body and future relationships. They should also look at how you can ruin an industry too.
It's very easy to have a lot of fun in this industry. It's very easy to find an Sp who gives you a great time, and it's easy enough to prevent STI's. I really hope newcomers look at this and feel a bit of empathy and consideration for all involved, and think with their big head, not the little one.
( it's a great photo though!!) it also eats up a lot of screen space for those viewing on a mobile device.
