Men are visual creatures , simple as that. You want to see the BJ so you pull back her hair . What sensation do you feel in a BJ ? Not much , it is a visual thing
I do not think it is anything sub conscious like control etc
WHAT? No sensation? Either your nerve endings are shot or whomever is blowing you is garbage.
There's definitely a feeling but most guys need more than a rubbing sensation down below to turn them on and get them hard, hence the visual aspect. For others like myself, it can be hard to maintain while receiving so I tend to switch it up or move to mutual pleasure.
The OP sounds olded. Younger "blokes" are used to seeing facials in porn and are much more open-minded about it.
One has to wonder what the real intent of this thread is. Me thinks it's more to buttress the OP's personal beliefs that facials are "dirty" and "disgusting".
The "I don't get facials" thread comes up time and time again and it's always people who aren't into it asking why other people are. Which is a total waste of time because people have all sorts of different fetishes. I don't waste my time thinking about why some guys are into midgets (sorry, "little people"), it just is. People who question it are usually looking for like-minded/close-minded people who share and bolster their own beliefs so they don't think there's something wrong with THEM.
It's like when your grandfather says, "What's with all these kids getting tattoos these days?" You just groan and ignore it.
Has nothing to do with age. It's just curiosity and I once started a similar thread about CIM. I didn't understand why some guys insisted on it to the point of declaring a date was disappointing because it wasn't done. To me, taking a 1 or 2 hour date and dismissing it for a 2 min thing seemed nonsensical.
To each his own. I prefer CIM above anything else, but from time to time when you find a girl that is more than willing to take a facial I sometimes take them up on their offer. The few girls I have given a facial to tend to take control by keeping the tip close to their face so the load does not go into their eyes, hair etc. most want it close to mouth or cheeks, I think it makes clean up fast and easy for the girl. Plus I find the girls that allow facials tend to wear little to no make up...I am not a huge fan of heavy make up anyways, but thats another topic for another day.
Exactly. For me, I let the lady decide - I will take whatever.
For me, the appeal to COF is the look. Same with CIM, same with CIMSW. It's how the lady looks after. I think if she has a look of pleasure/satisfaction, that's the turn on factor. I think the willingness to have cum on you, in your mouth or even swallowing is a sign that she likes you and is willing to touch something that (for me) is kind of gross, even though it comes from me.
I see this in porn where the girl acts like she wants COF versus being a submissive that is almost looking away when getting COF and not smiling. The first is nice, the latter isn't.
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