Ok, so I haven't read the whole thread, but here goes...
Forget the stip clubs, massage par;ours etc.
Forget the Metrosexual, being here for her, supportive BS(let her girlfriends do that part).
Just be yourself, don't argue about anything but the most important things, listen, do your job(s) as well as you can possibly do them, surprise her frequently and unexpectedly with things that make her happy, do everything that concerns her as best as you possibly can, compliment her, romance her, touch her frequently (without wanting sex in return)...remember, she says when (not you), you say how.
It's hard work, but it works.
Forget the stip clubs, massage par;ours etc.
Forget the Metrosexual, being here for her, supportive BS(let her girlfriends do that part).
Just be yourself, don't argue about anything but the most important things, listen, do your job(s) as well as you can possibly do them, surprise her frequently and unexpectedly with things that make her happy, do everything that concerns her as best as you possibly can, compliment her, romance her, touch her frequently (without wanting sex in return)...remember, she says when (not you), you say how.
It's hard work, but it works.