Whats a girl to do?

[jessica_dark]

I recently had a client that didn't have enough money.
It went down something like this:
For an hour massage I turned him over halfway thru for the "fun bit". So we're exploring each other and the request comes for me to lay on him. I've done this with many clients before, so it's not a big deal. Well I'm up there and lightly kissing his chest, when the big bear hug comes and then HE cums. Now, I charge a fee for being cam on, so as clean up was taking place I mentioned to him that it was this much extra. His face nearly went white as he explained he didn't have anymore cash and apologized. I then suggested we end things as is (15-20 min were left).

Is this what the other ladies would do? He was very sorry and since nothing was going to come of it, I could only end our time together as is. I think he was embarrassed as he is new to the scene and confessed he never looked at my info before calling me to arrange a time. (I had asked him at time of booking if he had any other questions aside from the standard, he said NO).

I really feel it was an honest mistake, and if he had said he was cumming I would have easily pulled away to avoid the mess.

Thoughts?

 

[LKD]

did he cum in you? or his cum touched you? if the latter, i have to LOL at this thread!!! sorry

 

[jessica_dark]

I'm not FS ....cum doesn't bother me at all, thats why I offer the extras I do. You can LOL at this all you want, I'm sure the girls you see don't do what I do. My menu is limited, but most everyone here knows that. My point was that with nothing to pay with, did I handle it the correct way for both of us? I'm happy with what I did, just wanted the client's POV. ( btw the obvious is that I have my hands messy every day in cum...it was that he cam on my other parts that I charge for)

 

[Peter123]

cut him some slack

you gals do realize we don't have total control over this right?

He didn't specifically ask for COB, COF or anything you were just an innocent bystander to a premature come!

 

[Ibeefat]

totally agree

you gals do realize we don't have total control over this right?

He didn't specifically ask for COB, COF or anything you were just an innocent bystander to a premature come!

Most woman praise when they hold back, but really do they realize holding back is for there benifit only. When I ready to blow I wanna blow and most of the time with me animal instincts take over and I blow.

Let's face it holding back is for dating when you got something to prove and even so it's still takes practice. In my younger days sometimes all I had to do was just touch a woman and that was it.

 

[calloway]

when the big bear hug comes and then HE cums.

You must give a wicked bear hug.

 

[skypilot]

If he knew cumming on you cost extra then he shouldn't have cum without the money.
However if he didn't know it doesn't sound fair to charge him.
And he had no money anyway, so what were you going to do? Make him lick it up?

 

[Hurricane Hank]

Sounds like you handled it fine. He was embarassed, and you didn't have to work the whole hour. Fair enough.

 

[jessica_dark]

Yeah, I suggested since he's a new guy to this to READ my site before assuming things. Anyways, over and done with.

 

[Twinklegirl]

I have had men say they didn't have the full amount beforehand, and we have worked something out, but I let them know that it was for that one time only.

All buy one have been respectful of that. The other wants hours and hours for less than the half hour cost. wtf? I told him to call another SP and offer that and see what reaction he gets. lol. fart face jerk.

 

[the_house_3]

Either it was premature or the rules, costs and prices were ambiguous or not discussed prior. Sure, it is indeed his responsibility to research your menu, but I also believe that it is also your responsibility to inform him of your menu as well (people naturally tend to forget things and even more so in the "situation" he was in) LOL

 

[LKD]

i hope we never cross paths... i've been known to shoot LOADS. even girls who don't mind getting facials are turned off because of my large load

 

[panther1763]

Hey, he was wrong to do it, also before you climb on did you tell him " OK but dont cum on me, it's extra" you should have taken one, finished up and sent him on his way, he might have turned into the best customer you ever had

 

[jessica_dark]

Well he asked me to lay on him (like I said plenty of guys have done that before and not cum on me).
He then hugged me (again, not unusual). Then a huge sigh and it was done. NO warning, no mention of his plans to cum on me, he just did it. To me, cumming on a girl is like spitting on them. You just don't do it without a warning of any kind. After I realized what happened I tried to push up and he held me tight......so that was even more of a sign he was still in bliss.
I couldn't have jumped off as easily as you guys think. How would you feel if in the mind set that it's ok, you're cumming and the girl runs away?...not really fun. So I got off gently when he released his grip, and while cleaning up mentioned the cost for that. Thats when his eyes bugged out and I suggested he leave as I'm gonna take my loss at that point. Like I said, I wasn't upset or mad, the whole point of this thread was to ask girls if I handled it in a good way, or was there something else I could have done (like make him go to bank and get money (kind of stupid)).

I doubt he would be a regular like some of my other clients are. He said he would remember for next time.....but that's just talk. I also told him of ALL my options and prices, just a FYI kind of thing in case he does want to visit again.

 

[skypilot]

NO warning, no mention of his plans to cum on me, he just did it. To me, cumming on a girl is like spitting on them. You just don't do it without a warning of any kind.

How much extra do you charge for spitting on you? Do I have to mention my plans for spitting on you?

 

[jessica_dark]

Lol. I think it's better explained in PM

 

[jeckyl]

funny....

How much extra do you charge for spitting on you? Do I have to mention my plans for spitting on you?

Thats funny...

Funnier that she wants to explain it in a PM... so I guess she'll let you spit on her.... no I just scanned the thread, got this gist but not all the nuances so dont jump on me... It struck me a really funny (hence I wrote without thinking).

J

 

[Tea And Strumpets]

Still waiting for Dear Abby to chime in. Hopefully she'll also handle the one about the nails.

 

[lyla_01]

Well he asked me to lay on him (like I said plenty of guys have done that before and not cum on me).
He then hugged me (again, not unusual). Then a huge sigh and it was done. NO warning, no mention of his plans to cum on me, he just did it. To me, cumming on a girl is like spitting on them. You just don't do it without a warning of any kind. After I realized what happened I tried to push up and he held me tight......so that was even more of a sign he was still in bliss.
I couldn't have jumped off as easily as you guys think. How would you feel if in the mind set that it's ok, you're cumming and the girl runs away?...not really fun. So I got off gently when he released his grip, and while cleaning up mentioned the cost for that. Thats when his eyes bugged out and I suggested he leave as I'm gonna take my loss at that point. Like I said, I wasn't upset or mad, the whole point of this thread was to ask girls if I handled it in a good way, or was there something else I could have done (like make him go to bank and get money (kind of stupid)).I doubt he would be a regular like some of my other clients are. He said he would remember for next time.....but that's just talk. I also told him of ALL my options and prices, just a FYI kind of thing in case he does want to visit again.

I think that you handled it appropriate to what you offer and how your service charges apply. Personally, if it's a matter of saying something and losing the potenial regular or just pretending that you don't mind in order to have him visit me regularily, I'll take the regular visits, but knowing what he'll try to pull.
I used to have this regular that pulled an even worse stunt. He used to see me weekly for a body slide, and this went on for about 6 months with a usual tip of $200. Which was alwasy surprising to me, cause a body slide usualy is $100. Then the last time that I saw him he convinced me to do FS with him. Since he always tipped soo well I oblidged thinking I would still get the usual tip he always left. Nope, he was damnding and annoying (not usual for him) and left me $70. That is worse than spitting in my face. I felt like absolute shit. I even cried LOL cause he made me feel so degraded. He came back later that night and gave me another $80. And a few times after that he tried to come and see me, I wouldn't see him any more.
So you did handle this guy well, at least you didn't cry lol.
Xo Lyla

 

[jessica_dark]

Oh I've creied over assholes before. One guy was short of having him violently removed because of his actions. The benefit of never being alone

You charge $100 for bodyslides!?! I do mine free - it's included in the price