if you go to see a sp and find out she is not what you want? what i always said was, sorry you are not my type, and then the reaction i got was, YOU ARE FAWKING RUDE. was it rude to say you are not my type to a sp if i don't want to proceed the service? what should i say in a proper way or what would you say?
what would you say......?
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some independent sp's have no reviews of any sorts. all they have are some deceiving ads that can misinform everyone. also some sp's look younger and skinner on the photos but in the reality, they are old than their age and have a big tummy. Raven, you didn't quite answer my question yet. is it rude to say,"sorry, you are not my type to a sp?" what should i say exactly under that kinda situation? sorry wrong door? i left my wallet in the car?
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I agree with both Sheik and Siobhan with regards to doing one's research. I would like to say that I know of a way to turn down a lady at the door, but I never done it.
Thanks to boards like this though you get accurate information and are capable of making an informed decision.
I need advice on this subject as well since I have a hard time turning down a lady at the door. Now not as much as b4,
but if I run into the situation I would like a polite way to say it.
Do you have to pay the driver if she's an agency girl????
I agree with both Sheik and Siobhan with regards to doing one's research. I would like to say that I know of a way to turn down a lady at the door, but I never done it.
Thanks to boards like this though you get accurate information and are capable of making an informed decision.
I need advice on this subject as well since I have a hard time turning down a lady at the door. Now not as much as b4,
but if I run into the situation I would like a polite way to say it.
Do you have to pay the driver if she's an agency girl????
Sioban....
Just a question out of ignorance.
Why, when you work as an independant and have a choice, do you use a driver and lose some of the money. I can take a few guesses but would like to know the truth.
My guesses:
!) Security.
2) If you were to partake in some alchoholic beverages, you have
a DD.
3) It is just a lot easier as perhaps if you are running late you
could get partially ready in his/her vehicle.
PM me if you don't want the truth on public view.
Just a question out of ignorance.
Why, when you work as an independant and have a choice, do you use a driver and lose some of the money. I can take a few guesses but would like to know the truth.
My guesses:
!) Security.
2) If you were to partake in some alchoholic beverages, you have
a DD.
3) It is just a lot easier as perhaps if you are running late you
could get partially ready in his/her vehicle.
PM me if you don't want the truth on public view.
siobhan
i guess that's called quality service. i can't remember how many times i got door slammed on my way outta an agency. one fairly old sp even asked me to pay 20 for her prepare otherwise she wouldn't let me out. what a scam. you probably have heard an agency called Classy Lady in victoria bc. it is the biggest agency of all in town. since they hired too many ladies, the service has gone down. once at a lonely midnight, i called them to see if anyone would like to offer a head, a chicka didn't say anything and hung up on me. then i called her up to clarify the situation. guess what she said to me, "you were rude" i wouldn't call sp a bi*ch but some out there really don't deserve any respect from us.
i guess that's called quality service. i can't remember how many times i got door slammed on my way outta an agency. one fairly old sp even asked me to pay 20 for her prepare otherwise she wouldn't let me out. what a scam. you probably have heard an agency called Classy Lady in victoria bc. it is the biggest agency of all in town. since they hired too many ladies, the service has gone down. once at a lonely midnight, i called them to see if anyone would like to offer a head, a chicka didn't say anything and hung up on me. then i called her up to clarify the situation. guess what she said to me, "you were rude" i wouldn't call sp a bi*ch but some out there really don't deserve any respect from us.
graceful exit
I think most girls will agree that if the agency misrepresented the girl (you wanted a red head they sent a blonde) you shouldn't have to pay anything. Simply tell the girl that you have a specific fantasy and wanted something else. Though a tip may be appreciated, it is not neccesary. One thing the clients should be aware of is that often you did not talk to the girl directly, therefore she is not to blame for the miscommunication.Don't take it out on her. Simply make a plausible excuse and say thanks but no thanks. If the girl is an independant then respect the fact that she may view herself as she described (attractive and blonde, you see unatractive and light brown), just say thanks for coming, but I wanted someone with really bleach blonde hair, or something to that effect and thanks but no thanks. It is simple and you are polite she should also be. With independants though please remember that they pay out of their own pocket for their transportation, I am sure a small tip would go a long way to ease an uncomfortable situation.
I think most girls will agree that if the agency misrepresented the girl (you wanted a red head they sent a blonde) you shouldn't have to pay anything. Simply tell the girl that you have a specific fantasy and wanted something else. Though a tip may be appreciated, it is not neccesary. One thing the clients should be aware of is that often you did not talk to the girl directly, therefore she is not to blame for the miscommunication.Don't take it out on her. Simply make a plausible excuse and say thanks but no thanks. If the girl is an independant then respect the fact that she may view herself as she described (attractive and blonde, you see unatractive and light brown), just say thanks for coming, but I wanted someone with really bleach blonde hair, or something to that effect and thanks but no thanks. It is simple and you are polite she should also be. With independants though please remember that they pay out of their own pocket for their transportation, I am sure a small tip would go a long way to ease an uncomfortable situation.
What would you say...
I agree with Vanessa and Kerri in terms of how to handle a situation without being indelicate or insensitive. Most ladies who work in this business have thick skin (figuratively speaking) as a necessity for protecting themselves. If you diplomatic, non-insulting and courtesy there shouldn't be any problem. I think telling a lady you left your wallet in the car and you'll be right back is downright silly though! We aren't stupid, but more to the point, if you're pretending you're coming back she might hold that space open for you. Don't waste her time or yours. As for Peter, I agree wholeheartedly with Vanessa. I think you have a major personality problem. Any agency or independent lady for that matter is not going to answer sexually explicit comments on the telephone. As for you thinking that some ladies are deserving of your misogynistic attitude, it sounds to me like you are creating an unpleasant, discourteous and disrespectful atmosphere, one that wouldn't be pleasant to be a part of. Any lady in this business is going to pick up on this in a second. You are creating the unpleasantness for yourself. Frankly, you sound like a powder keg ready to blow (no pun intended).
I agree with Vanessa and Kerri in terms of how to handle a situation without being indelicate or insensitive. Most ladies who work in this business have thick skin (figuratively speaking) as a necessity for protecting themselves. If you diplomatic, non-insulting and courtesy there shouldn't be any problem. I think telling a lady you left your wallet in the car and you'll be right back is downright silly though! We aren't stupid, but more to the point, if you're pretending you're coming back she might hold that space open for you. Don't waste her time or yours. As for Peter, I agree wholeheartedly with Vanessa. I think you have a major personality problem. Any agency or independent lady for that matter is not going to answer sexually explicit comments on the telephone. As for you thinking that some ladies are deserving of your misogynistic attitude, it sounds to me like you are creating an unpleasant, discourteous and disrespectful atmosphere, one that wouldn't be pleasant to be a part of. Any lady in this business is going to pick up on this in a second. You are creating the unpleasantness for yourself. Frankly, you sound like a powder keg ready to blow (no pun intended).
In My opinon it doesn;t matter if the ladies independant If they misrepresented themselves or the services they provide I say no thanks you aren;t as described etc.. and thank them for there time and close the door or if they are inside offer the use of the phone to contact their ride. but i terminate the call with much haste.. Unless of course its a pleasant surprise.
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