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what would you sacrifice in a woman???

kirknewton

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Hi guys,
what would you sacrifice when dating a woman?
would you go out with a woman that had a "but her face"....(everything is good but her face)

or would you rather go out with a girl that was very good looking facially but her body not so much?

and ladies if you want to chime in on what you prefer in a man that would be great.

thanks.
 

pablice

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Her attitude and wit is the most important and needs to be some level cute. If she is a little fat it's ok but needs to care about her body and try to be healthy or put some effort in living a healthy lifestyle for me to wanna go out with her.

I can never fall in love for a girl or wanna date her just on looks alone. I admit if I see a nice ass walking down the street I would think about tapping it good but if she don't connect with me on our glance fuck that I don't care how socially hot she may be.

So brains and personality is the most important...after that I can fall for her body or develop the feelings even though it may not be eye candy. For hot chicks and ass tapping I just turn to this industry.

You gotta beleive that eventually you will get sick of her body and if you can not connect mentally it will never last.
 

GPIDEAL

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What pablice said is true with the mental and spiritual connection for the long run, however, there are thick chicks that are sexually attractive too.
 

Titalian

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Hi guys,
what would you sacrifice when dating a woman?
would you go out with a woman that had a "but her face"....(everything is good but her face)

or would you rather go out with a girl that was very good looking facially but her body not so much?

and ladies if you want to chime in on what you prefer in a man that would be great.

thanks.
Not sure about this question?? I believe the chemistry between you and her is the most important. Which rules out face or body.
 

MadonnaLove

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Hi guys,
what would you sacrifice when dating a woman?
would you go out with a woman that had a "but her face"....(everything is good but her face)

or would you rather go out with a girl that was very good looking facially but her body not so much?

and ladies if you want to chime in on what you prefer in a man that would be great.

thanks.
I used to go for looks when I was in my 20s, then I matured, and now I go for personality over looks. Some of my favourite clients have the best personalities and it makes sex so passionate when you can connect during that time. I love respectful Men they make the world go round.
 

demien2k5

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We are all a blended package of looks, brains, personality and physicality. I my mind, I either find you attractive the way you are, or I don't. No one thing outweighs another on the whole, although there are definitely certain attributes I do deliberately look for in terms of personal preferences.
 

rhuarc29

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I thought this was going to be a looks versus personality thread, but apparently it's just a looks versus look thing.

For me a great body is a plus, but I'll take a pretty face any day.
 

Jacklyn7

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As long as he is funny and super smart, and just makes me feel good to be around him, I don't give a crap what he looks like, but nice eyes are a plus, I like to be able to get lost in a man's eyes for hours and hours.... yum.
 

Marla

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Give me a guy with an irreverent sense of humor who can make me laugh at myself, and I don't care if he is over weight or not. That is the most important things to me. I love to be laughing.
 

james t kirk

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Consider yourself fortunate if you find someone who loves you and you her.

Sure, there's some things you can't get past - substance abuse, mean, liar, close minded, judgemental, smokers.

On the physically side - unclean, obese (I'm not talking 20 or 30 or 40 pounds, but 100 and up.).

I find it funny the number of women I meet who think that they are entitled to have a guy with everything, yet are very average themselves.

Men are more superficial (as I can see from the posts above), it's all about the looks and not much else. I guess that's simpler than women (who tend to be looking for the JFK Jr. type.)
 

kirknewton

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let's face it men are visual creatures......that is why we watch porn because it turns us on....men who see sp or go to massage parlors don't say let me see ugliest fates girl you have....we go for the prettiest face and the great body.

and for the women who say i just want a guy with a good personality or someone who can make me laugh.....if you were at a bar and a ugly guy came up to you, you would not give him the time of day.
even though he has the personality that you seek you would never find that out.
 

MadonnaLove

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and for the women who say i just want a guy with a good personality or someone who can make me laugh.....if you were at a bar and a ugly guy came up to you, you would not give him the time of day.
even though he has the personality that you seek you would never find that out.
You don't know me…… I'm not a shallow person I look for whats inside the shell thats what attracts me to someone. They either have a good soul or they don't. Looks are deciving.
 

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Hmmmm.... off the top of my head, I consider these things important in a woman. Visuals are always the most important thing at first because that's all you have to go by. But then when you meet and get to know them, the non-visual stuff is important.

At first
Face
Body
Teeth/smile
Hygiene (Nothing kills a meeting at the office or hanging out with friends than someone with terrible bad breath speaking two feet from your face. Everyone should keep a pack of minty gum on them just in case)

Then after you know them
Smarts
Fun
Career
Good heart
Sexual appeal
No addictions (big time gambler, spender, smoker, druggie etc...)
Reasonable age range

Things like ethnicity, height, how well they dress, how good or bad their home or car is, hair, skin I don't really care.... mind you, everything within reason. And I'm someone who will never look at a person's feet so feel free to wear the cheapest shoes you can find. I never understood why some people focus on people's shoes so much. I guess it's just me, but when I want to look or speak to someone, I prefer to look at them and not look down at their feet. lol
 

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There may be some people who truly don't care what someone looks like, but IMO they are very very few. Complicating the matter is that everyone has a different set of standards or ranges that are acceptable to them. Call me shallow, but for me I'm just not attracted to midgets, women with shaved heads like Sinead O'Conner, ones with bad teeth, and ones who consistently have bad breath or weird smells to them.
 

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Although oddly my higher standards involve girls that other guys find unattractive so go figure.
Yeah, funny how everyone is different. Sometimes I go to the strippers with friends or coworkers and it seems we all like different women. I like blondes, one guy prefers lean brunettes and his buddy likes seeing curvier dancers (a bit of junk in the trunk). Good thing is we never have to fight for the same girl!
 

MadonnaLove

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You say this. You may even believe this. Although there is no way you would say any different in public all things considered.
However I'd bet the shell counts for something. Unless you have so little to offer to a guy that you have to settle for an uggo to get a good personality I'd bet you would hold out for at least a decent looking chap with the same personality.

Myself. It is what is on the inside that counts. I once fell in love with a girl because she had the cutest Pancreas. She was ugly on the outside but oh man if you saw that Pancreas you would understand.
I had tickets to the Stanley Cup game 7 but I told my friends I had to see about a girl. They saw the look in my face they didn't even try to stop me, they just knew. Once they saw MRI's of her Pancreas they understood. True story.

I've had many good-looking boyfriends in my life and looks don't mean a thing …………… i still get really good looking clients too. However I also look for good hygiene ,humour ,intelligence, and mental stability. (sorry that i left that out )

I can still get very attractive men at age 39 intact i have hot 20 something guys after my ass, but I've changed in the way i pick men in my personal life. He doesn't have to be a hunk to turn me on.

He just has to be respectful and good natured and clean that makes him sexy. He might be ugly to you yet i find him sexy. I'm actually not settling I'm going for whats important to me. I

have lots to offer but i still think looks are deciving.
 

bestman007

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TEETH. If she had no teeth & had everything else I would certainly be willing to overlook this!
 
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