So to follow up...i kept the appointment like i said however the agency unexpectedly accommodated me...the civvy wanted to meet up for the 4pm games and the initial appt with the sp was at 1..to avoid running late and to give some buffer time i wanted a 12pm or earlier appt...so i called the agency and asked again if i can move the appt..they asked to what time..i asked for anything earlier..he said 12..i agreed...confused, i asked what the "big talk" yesterday was for...he seemed genuinely confused...i explained..he said he was not on the phones in the evening but will find out..apparently the phone guy at the time thought i was someone else by my voice who has been warned already about his cancellations..didnt quite buy that explanation but i didnt want to make anything of it as i got what i wanted...appt kept...review will follow (it will be a bunch so the agency wont be revealed..no sense in harming their business for a mixup that was straightened out) as for the civvy..got my full body massage (clothes on) with 2 bjs, yes swallow (half time of the 4pm and sunday niter)...but no sex...she said not yet maybe next week if im good..looking forward to next wknd...she really is into football and actually wanted to watch the games..ordered pizza and wings..with all her pools and point spread tix laid out on the table...will let you all know how FS goes..lol
As for the suggestions i received, thank you terbnation!