At the end of a good (not great) session with an SP we are making small talk. She asks me if I am a member of a board such as terb. I'm taken aback at the question but I say "yes". Then she asks me if I would write a review of her. I thought it an odd request at the time and upon looking back on it I'm now in a quandry. This lady is certainly not lacking for reviews and most of them are glowing. So my question to you is two-fold ... at the end of a session has an SP ever requested that you write a review; and am I alone in finding this an odd request.
What would you do?
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I don't think it's a terribly odd request.
I think it would be more odd if she asked you not to review her.
Advertising is advertising.
I think it would be more odd if she asked you not to review her.
Advertising is advertising.
It is odd in the sense that she's putting you on the spot, assuming that you will write a positive review of her in hopes of winning more business.
I have had conversations about being a member of TERB and a girl will say, "Feel free to write a review". To that, I will say it's personally not my thing and that I don't kiss and tell. It's not the truth but what else can you say at the moment?
If you only had a 'good' session, there's really not much point in writing a review anyways. If she has good cred already, one mediocre report won't affect that and it's not worth your time...might have just been a case of chemistry or mood you were in.
Now if she was bad, that's a different story. Some girls provide great service to start and then mail it in after due to either apathy, or bad experiences providing certain things. That's when you need to refresh the earlier reviews with an up to date status.
I saw one girl twice, a year apart. The first time she was awesome...BBBJ, DFK, and really into it. 12 months later it was CBJ, no kissing at all and she offered greek (which wasn't on the menu before), but wouldn't go there that night. She was marketing herself as 'no restrictions' but had much more restrictions than she did the first time I was with her. It was disappointing and you could tell that her time in the business had hardened her.
Sometimes though, mediocre service isn't enough to write a bad review. There's some nice girls out there that are just ok, so not writing a review at all can seem like the best thing to do.
I have had conversations about being a member of TERB and a girl will say, "Feel free to write a review". To that, I will say it's personally not my thing and that I don't kiss and tell. It's not the truth but what else can you say at the moment?
If you only had a 'good' session, there's really not much point in writing a review anyways. If she has good cred already, one mediocre report won't affect that and it's not worth your time...might have just been a case of chemistry or mood you were in.
Now if she was bad, that's a different story. Some girls provide great service to start and then mail it in after due to either apathy, or bad experiences providing certain things. That's when you need to refresh the earlier reviews with an up to date status.
I saw one girl twice, a year apart. The first time she was awesome...BBBJ, DFK, and really into it. 12 months later it was CBJ, no kissing at all and she offered greek (which wasn't on the menu before), but wouldn't go there that night. She was marketing herself as 'no restrictions' but had much more restrictions than she did the first time I was with her. It was disappointing and you could tell that her time in the business had hardened her.
Sometimes though, mediocre service isn't enough to write a bad review. There's some nice girls out there that are just ok, so not writing a review at all can seem like the best thing to do.
Interesting, are you sure she was asking for a review or was she asking if you would be writing a review. It's a tough call if as you say your session was good rather than great.
I never admit to being the cowboy going into a session as it may change the dynamic of the session the lady may offer or perform differently in the hopes of a good review. If I've had a great session I will advise the provider of my identity and of course ask if I may post a review.
I never admit to being the cowboy going into a session as it may change the dynamic of the session the lady may offer or perform differently in the hopes of a good review. If I've had a great session I will advise the provider of my identity and of course ask if I may post a review.
I'm sure she feels that a recent review would increase her business or why would she have requested that I write a review? I certainly gave no indication to her that I was part of a review board and I'd never give out my handle to an SP.Roamantic said:Just wondering if any SP's find that recent reviews increase potential business opportunities?
I know in the past this board seemed to have the "unwritten rule" that you never give out your "handle"... at least that's what I thought as a past member years ago... please correct me if I'm "out to lunch". Always thought if you gave out your username the "SHILL" thing could apply
Anyways it's seems the "status quo" to give out your "handle/username" on the other board.. wondering if this is a good thing or a bad thing?
Roam
Yes, I would figure that the chemistry wasn't there for us. She is a beautiful woman and the services she offered were more than satisfactory but certainly not enough for me to write a rave review. That said, I'll probably skip the review this time and be better prepared should a similar question/request come up in the future.o-dog said:
Yep, she definitely asked me to write a review. To me the request not only made me uncomfortable but certainly put a business spin on the end of our session. Not exactly what I hope to have done as we are saying our goodbyes. Anyway, no big thing. I just wondered if any other guys had had similar experiences. And I thank one and all for contributing to the thread.Cowboy Kenny said:
One made the request....
She said, you seem to really like me, would you do a review to counteract the bad ones I have been getting? I was not on boards at the time so I wrote out something and she said she'd ask some other guy to post it. Last I heard of it.
She has retired now but one girl I really liked had been getting some bad reviews that she felt here based on guys trying to get more than she offered and were pissed that they didn't get a service they expected at her price.insidevoice said:
She said, you seem to really like me, would you do a review to counteract the bad ones I have been getting? I was not on boards at the time so I wrote out something and she said she'd ask some other guy to post it. Last I heard of it.
