What to do?!?

[freestuff]

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=261273
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=261210

I fully understand the need for privacy. Rumors can be devastating especially if they are untrue. However, if Terbites have information that would be pertinent to other Terbites (i.e. SP has HIV, SP is mentally unstable), should they not disclose it? I mean, isn`t the purpose of TERB to be able to share "pertinent" and "relevant" information about the hobby and SPs with other Terbites. Or are we suppose to hope that the SPs have enough common sense to step away from the business if they have HIV or are mentally unstable/abuse drugs? But if they did, shouldn`t they already have? Maybe they need a gentle push? Thoughts?

 

[alexmst]

Good point.

One would think that if one discovers an SP has a STD one should post it to warn off other Terbites. The board doesn't look favourably on this however. In fairness, if STD rumour postings were allowed, who is to say it is legit? Someone might want to ruin the career of a rival and might post a rumour that the rival has an STD. We have no way of checking.

I think the best course of action if one sees an SP that one thinks has an STD is to tell the agency owner. Agency owners don't want a typhoid Mary on staff as clients cycle through the girls and it could infect other girls and clients both. I heard from SPs I know that one girl had a session with a client and he noticed she had what he thought was a STD and he told her and ended the session and phoned the agency owner, who requested the SP get tested at a clinic and bring a clean bill of health certificate to the owner before being allowed to work again. So, if you think an agency SP has an STD, tell her and the agency owner as this helps all Terbites without falsely ruining the Sp's career through the rumour mill. IMHO anyway. Of course if she does have an STD and the agency fires her for it, I think a notice of such should be posted so anyone who saw her can get tested, and to prevent her springing up at another agency under a new name.