What To Do When The Novelty Wears Off...

[PHNINE]

PHNINE, the reason I got into this hobby is because my line of work does not afford me the time. I work continuously, 6 sometimes 7 days a week. I suppose I am a bit of a workaholic; as such, I don't have time to chase civilian ladies.

DrLove, come on buddy, you know that I am also in this hobby for the same reasons you are. When I am in Toronto I barely have time to socialize as well, but this doesn't mean actually going to a club or bar and picking up girls. This can be done anywhere. Waitresses, cashiers, girl you see in your building. My point is just try it. I dunno, but don't get me wrong cause I too have very little time.

 

[drlove]

DrLove, come on buddy, you know that I am also in this hobby for the same reasons you are. When I am in Toronto I barely have time to socialize as well, but this doesn't mean actually going to a club or bar and picking up girls. This can be done anywhere. Waitresses, cashiers, girl you see in your building. My point is just try it. I dunno, but don't get me wrong cause I too have very little time.

Thanks for the advice, PHNINE - much appreciated. I'm just in a bit of a slump with the whole hobbying thing right now, that's all. I'll figure it out.

 

[drlove]

It's all about the rush.

Exactly. Now, while the rush has diminished somewhat for me, I still enjoy it, so I don't want to give it up, or even take a break from it. What I am really missing and trying to recapture is that feeling each of us got when we first entered the world of hobbying: I.e. the moment of realization that we could have sex with a variety of gorgeous women anytime we pleased for only "x" amount of dollars, and then going ahead and doing it.

 

[bund]

What To Do When The Novelty Wears Off?

Fall in love again. When it's over, you'll be back to hobbying with a vengence!

 

[frankcastle]

For a while I lost my mojo as well. I wasn't interested or as excited as I sued to be about the whole MP scene.

For me all it took was a break, a failed relationship, and some new perspectives of what I enjoy the most in a session.

 

[canucklehead]

I feel or lack of feeling Love .... only one Sp interest me of late........ and even then i enjoy talking to her as much as our sessions...... i got to into the whole hobby after my wife died and i wanted what i wanted but no commitment or effort needed...... I even feel guilt at times..... not sure what to make of it but my kids and work are taking up most of my time of late.

 

[booboobear]

I don't have any real good suggestions, but this post reminds me of an interview once with the old westler "Jake (the snake) Roberts" He is old and washed up now. beaten up after years of wrestling and drug addiction (he freely admits to it) But a very honest guy in recovery.


"Unfortunately speaking from experience Alcohol druga and dancers and sp's are all additictive but it's hard to afford all 3 and you can't get enough or sometimes you get t oo much.