What the heck is going on?

[cwk]

Boys how is it hard to distinguish? under each girls profile "about me" if they are an SP they say it.....if they are an MA they say it LOL.....but as far as making seperate MP & SP advertising for Ottawa it is currently in the works...it definately will help organize the site better So a win/win to avoid confusion!

yes but you have to click on each girl to determine that, pretty time consuming if you ask me. And not sure if every girl fills that out.

Having a separate section for ma and sp is a good idea, hope it comes soon.

Cheers.

 

[LikeRedHeads]

This is great. People are discussing the organization of the pink board on TERB. Don't get me wrong, from my perspective, people can discuss anything on a forum. But that tells you a lot about the nazi ambiance over the pink board. People are afraid to discuss a legitimate issue on that board for fear of being attacked by the few vocal SPs or of being banned by overly sp-friendly moderators.

 

[blackram]

This is great. People are discussing the organization of the pink board on TERB. Don't get me wrong, from my perspective, people can discuss anything on a forum. But that tells you a lot about the nazi ambiance over the pink board. People are afraid to discuss a legitimate issue on that board for fear of being attacked by the few vocal SPs or of being banned by overly sp-friendly moderators.

No, I think they're talking about the reorganization of this board itself. The pink board already has separate sections for MP's and SP's.

To an extent, I think Ottawa is a big enough topic that it deserves separate sections for MP's and SP's here, and even for strip clubs. But sometimes, it's easier just to find everything in one forum location.

 

[blackram]

Boys how is it hard to distinguish? under each girls profile "about me" if they are an SP they say it.....if they are an MA they say it LOL.....but as far as making seperate MP & SP advertising for Ottawa it is currently in the works...it definately will help organize the site better So a win/win to avoid confusion!

I think you'll need to read between my lines a bit harder, Angie.

Oh wait, that's sounds dirty.

 

[Paradise Spa & Angel's Touch]

MMMMMMMMMM I love when you talk dirty blackram as you well know. wink wink. Do you need a spanking? I was referring to the pink board actually I should of been more specific sorry... to clarify there will soon be two announcement sections for Ottawa to make things more organized for the hobbiest to screen ads.

I think you'll need to read between my lines a bit harder, Angie.

Oh wait, that's sounds dirty.

 

[Bethany Westbrooke]

Having a separate section for ma and sp is a good idea, hope it comes soon.

Considering this board doesn't even have a separate section for Kingston, I highly doubt a separate section for Massage is coming anytime soon...

 

[nyce001]

Considering this board doesn't even have a separate section for Kingston, I highly doubt a separate section for Massage is coming anytime soon...

I think they're talking about cerb adding an Mp advertising section.

 

[cwk]

Considering this board doesn't even have a separate section for Kingston, I highly doubt a separate section for Massage is coming anytime soon...

Hi Bethany...nice to see you posting over here too

Ya, I was referring to Cerb and not Terb about having separate sp and ma sections.

But, they should divide up Ottawa and Kingston in two separte threads.

Cheers.

 

[Bethany Westbrooke]

Boys how is it hard to distinguish? under each girls profile "about me" if they are an SP they say it.....if they are an MA they say it LOL....

I agree with this, you should do your homework boys, regardless of the extra legwork, after a while you will begin to know the different providers and will only need to research the newest providers. What kind of hobby would it be if you just jumped in all willy-nilly? An often-disappointing one, methinks! I would think one of the best parts of hobbying would be the "research" involved- the hunt?

People are afraid to discuss a legitimate issue on that board for fear of being attacked by the few vocal SPs or of being banned by overly sp-friendly moderators.

I don't think bringing this topic up on the other board would be an issue, most things posted there (if done so courteously) are kosher, and it's flourished in part due to the rose-coloured glasses--gotta take the good with the bad, no? About the Mod being biased towards us ladies- Sorry, I just don't agree with that... He has a tough job as all mods do and is pretty fair. I know of many situations where he's been as tough on us ladies as he has on the gents, if not more so!

Hi Bethany...nice to see you posting over here too
Ya, I was referring to Cerb and not Terb about having separate sp and ma sections.
But, they should divide up Ottawa and Kingston in two separte threads.
Cheers.

Lol, I was so excited to post I didn't even read the last few posts, and thanks for the encouragement, TBH this board scares me, lol! Will try to take part more often...

@Angie, thanks for keeping us all in the know! Looking forward to the new pink sections! Xoxox

 

[OnTheWayOut]

TBH this board scares me, lol! Will try to take part more often...

Yeah, the honesty here is kind of unsettling to those from the rosy board, it takes some getting used to

 

[LikeRedHeads]

About the Mod being biased towards us ladies- Sorry, I just don't agree with that... He has a tough job as all mods do and is pretty fair.

May be you don't know about the mods on the pink board because you are not a hobbyist and you haven't been banned several times for expressing your view. If you are a hobbyist and post something that doesn't please their Highnesses (read the few vocal SPs), then you just prepare yourself to be banned. It happened to a lot of us here. Actually the pink board scares me also and I rarely visit, unless I am looking for an SP that adverstizes only over there. The popularity of the pink board has declined among hobbyists and continues to do so. It's only a matter of time before it becomes an SP-only board, and then vanishes, because without hobbyists this business can't exist.
To survive, the pink board has to get rid of the few vocal men-haters SPs, but this is impossible since they are the ones who are running the show...

 

[Paradise Spa & Angel's Touch]

Very true! Everyone is entitled to their opinion and if hobbiests share their opinion and it is coming from the right place we can always be self improving for our clients!

Yeah, the honesty here is kind of unsettling to those from the rosy board, it takes some getting used to

 

[blackram]

I don't think bringing this topic up on the other board would be an issue, most things posted there (if done so courteously) are kosher, and it's flourished in part due to the rose-coloured glasses--gotta take the good with the bad, no? About the Mod being biased towards us ladies- Sorry, I just don't agree with that... He has a tough job as all mods do and is pretty fair. I know of many situations where he's been as tough on us ladies as he has on the gents, if not more so!

For the most part, when the mod over there is harsh on a girl, it's because she's having a dispute with another girl, or she's done something to go against the advertising rules over there. And it's usually handled privately. There's never a situation where a dispute between a guy and a girl will go against a girl.

 

[Bethany Westbrooke]

For the most part, when the mod over there is harsh on a girl, it's because she's having a dispute with another girl, or she's done something to go against the advertising rules over there. And it's usually handled privately. There's never a situation where a dispute between a guy and a girl will go against a girl.

I agree that for manyissues with the ladies it is, as you said, a dispute with another lady or advertising rules, but about the disputes between the guys and gals I don't think the women are given preferential treatment, women just tend to be right! I generally don't pay too much attention to the drama that goes on, but from what I have seen each conflict tends to be resolved pretty fairly and don't forget there is the town council/elite section that decides some of the outcomes of these situations- comprised of hobbyists and providers...

@Slurp, it isn't the honesty that is unsettling here, it is the negativity in so many of the posts. It seems even though hobbyists have carte blanche on what they can say here, more of the reviews are negative than positive, not fun reading for me- if I wanted to hear complaints I'd work at Bell, lol! While the other board does seem to cater to providers more than hobbyists- it also promotes a more respectful environment and while I am sure the recommendation only aspect is biased in some ways towards providers, it is great in others- if nothing good is said that says a lot too, no?

 

[Cowboy Kenny]

if I wanted to hear complaints I'd work at Bell

LOL, ZZZingggggggg!

 

[blackram]

@Slurp, it isn't the honesty that is unsettling here, it is the negativity in so many of the posts. It seems even though hobbyists have carte blanche on what they can say here, more of the reviews are negative than positive, not fun reading for me- if I wanted to hear complaints I'd work at Bell, lol! While the other board does seem to cater to providers more than hobbyists- it also promotes a more respectful environment and while I am sure the recommendation only aspect is biased in some ways towards providers, it is great in others- if nothing good is said that says a lot too, no?

I don't disagree, I'd say some negative reviews are simply ill-mannered and boorish on this board. There's simply no need to describe every problem in graphic detail, it just makes arguments more extreme. If people want more details about a problem, then they can take it to PM. On one board I used to read in another city, they had strict rules about mentioning any sort of specific services in the public review area, you could describe the lady, describe her place, describe her attitude, but could not mention what sort of acts she does, or how much it cost. There were more private forum sections where more details could be described.

 

[LikeRedHeads]

. There were more private forum sections where more details could be described.

But those private forums are like TERB; the only difference is that you either have to pay to access them or you have to provide a review to access their content.
I am not sure we should restrict the type of detail, since for some of us this is what we are looking for. If I really need a BBBJ and that can't be described, then I will have to TOFTT to find out that it is not provided and then be disappointed. What's the point of being a member of a Forum, if it is not saving me money, time and/or protecting my safety?

 

[Paradise Spa & Angel's Touch]

Update Terbies on the rose coloured board we now have our 2 seperate advertising sections in Ottawa to make it easier for you all to get around

 

[ixlr82]

There we go..Things do happen for those that wait