What is your opinion if a sp does not to want to orgasm with a client?

Parker@TDL

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I always LOL when SPs fake it, cause it tends to be a lot more obvious than they think.

I once saw an SP (who was great in every other way) but started with the pornstar moaning and screaming "OMG I'M CUMMING" when I was like, max, five thrusts into penetration. I'm good but not that good.

Now, I'm sure there are some women who could (and have) act out an orgasm in a way that fools me but there's nothing quite like a genuine squirting and/or squirming orgasm where the vagina is contracting around your dick. So when it really happens I think you know.
I can cum really easy and fast and if I'm worked up just a penis going in my vagina will make me cum. I cant help it, my vagina is just crazy sensitive to sexual touch. It loves penis and just looses it when its got one in it. So I'm sure there are some who think I'm faking but I'm just not that good of an actress.
 

luckyme101

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How do you know they actually came?
That pussy be yanking
There are many tell-tale signs. One lady I used to see would push my head away and closed her legs after she cummed on daty. Before that, you could tell she was really into it with all kinds of hip movements. After cumming on penetration, again she would ask me to withdraw immediately but slowly because it became very sensitive for her. If I wanted to stay a bit longer inside her after, she would ask me to withdraw cautiously due to the sensitivity. And this was a very low-volume lady since she saw only a handful of regulars. I could imagine why a higher volume lady would not want to come with every client. She would become very sensitive, drained and not perform well.

That said, if a lady makes weird movements to prevent from orgasming, I'd find it off putting for sure.
 

autumn96

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I can cum really easy and fast and if I'm worked up just a penis going in my vagina will make me cum. I cant help it, my vagina is just crazy sensitive to sexual touch. It loves penis and just looses it when its got one in it. So I'm sure there are some who think I'm faking but I'm just not that good of an actress.
Interesting, I guess every woman really is different. I hope to meet you soon, you sound like you genuinely enjoy your work, which always makes it more fun for us gents! :)
 

Jasmine Raine

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I can cum really easy and fast and if I'm worked up just a penis going in my vagina will make me cum. I cant help it, my vagina is just crazy sensitive to sexual touch. It loves penis and just looses it when its got one in it. So I'm sure there are some who think I'm faking but I'm just not that good of an actress.
I'm the same. Very responsive. If I didn't want to cum I would never be able to do this job.
 

Parker@TDL

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Interesting, I guess every woman really is different. I hope to meet you soon, you sound like you genuinely enjoy your work, which always makes it more fun for us gents! :)
We really are!! Every pussy has it's own personality:). And I do genuinely enjoy my work. It's honestly the perfect job for me and I've never been this happy, or even close to, in my work life ever before. It's pretty sweet!!

I'm the same. Very responsive. If I didn't want to cum I would never be able to do this job.
The only way I'm not going to cum is if I don't like you /you've crossed some of my boundaries. In that case my brain will actually shut down any possibility of feeling pleasure. If I decide to disengage there is no way the person can get me off. It's quite spiteful lol.
 

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Yes, they can do what they want with their body. Her choices are 100% perfectly fine. I will assume that you didn’t use the correct words and communicate your message properly here lol

As far as the client, if I felt she was holding back I probably would not want to come back and waste my future sessions because I get off when I see the girl getting off and/or convincing me she enjoys it even if fake lol. If I picked that up and felt her doing that I probably would lose my erection and/or wouldn’t cum. Some guys don’t give a shit and say a pussy is a pussy and its made to be fucked lol

I guess only consequence is that it could affect her popularity and/or business if other clients were bothered by it.
 

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There was this sp who I recently saw, and half way through the session I started to fuck her in missionary. She was moving her hips extremely weird on me. She was also slightly pushing back on me. I was concerned so asked her what was wrong. She said nothing was and I continued. It kept happening multiple times and I always asked if there was a problem. Eventually I was fed up and I needed a answer. She finally gave in and told me she was trying not to orgasm. She told me she doesn't like to orgasm with clients and was trying to save it until she got home and masterbates.

She could tell I was not pleased. We had a small discussion and continued. I eventually got her to orgasm and it was awesome to behold. She was extremely loud and violent(squeezing the hell out of my neck).

Do you think it is alright for a sp to not to want to orgasm with a client?

For me, I like mutual sessions. I have never repeated with a sp who did not orgasm with me (or who I felt weren't real). Does that make me weird? Does that make me selfish?
This has got to be one of the stranger questions I've seen on the board - no offense!

IMO, a provider does not OWE a client her orgasm (again, so weird those words required uttering) and it's perfectly OK for her to not want to go there. She owes that client her best efforts to provide him/her with a maximal enjoyable experience, which more often than not results in the client experiencing an orgasm. If part of that client's preferred experience is a mutual orgasm then perhaps one could argue that an attempt should be made but never at the expense of the provider's comfort or preferences. A provider's orgasm is certainly not owed nor guaranteed. If a reasonable facsimile of one is required to enhance the client's experience than it should be attempted. Guys, this is a hobby is meant to fulfill fantasies that are otherwise untenable in civilian life but that requires us clients to play along. Let's not confuse it with actual reality.
 

mongol2011

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I agree on the mutual sensuality of the session. An SP once told me that she had a very hard time having an orgasm because of how often she saw men. While I still was not happy that she did not cum I could not dismiss
her claim. How would I know whether she does or not. Many SPs have told me that they enjoyed seeing my orgasm just as much or more than cumming themselves. Could be.

If we both enjoy ourselves that is good enough for me. It counts even more if she enjoys seeing me when she opens the door.
 

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orgasm is like art where an Emmy is in order. Some do it better than others, some are just meh


 

itd131

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I would suggest to not over think this. She's an SP. Not your wife or girlfriend. She provides a fantasy. Enjoy it for what it is.
 
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She made believe she likes you. You can make believe she came.
 

Shooter75

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Personally I could care less if my SP cums or not. I'm the one paying, I'm concerned with my orgasm not hers.
Concern for your partners pleasure in only important in your personal life, not your fantasy life.

-Shooter75
 

Jasmine Raine

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I'm like that and would take it VERY personally. It would bother me for the rest of the day and into the next day. I would think about it on and off for a week. Definitely would never forget it.

I just know myself and to me it would be hugely insulting. You are telling me that I'm not someone you would ever want to be with unless of course I gave you money.

I'm sure that a great many men would feel the same way as me. Just put on your website, "note to clients, please don't try to make me cum, I will move in such a way that I will never cum with you" and see what effect it has. I can assure you that a large percentage of men (not all) will never opt for such an SP. (There are lots of guys who could care less about the whole intimacy side of things and just want to fuck a good looking woman for the sake of themselves. They won't care.)

But then there are guys like me that are indeed looking for intimacy and a connection (as deluded as that probably is) and yes, the ego boost, and knowing that she is behaving in such a way is a form of not only rejection of me, but a rejection of intimacy. The whole thing is just reduced to a zipless fuck. I / we don't like that one bit. I'm not 19 any more and just being with a naked woman is not enough to thrill me anymore.

As I said, do what you want not to cum if that's what you need to do to preserve you own state of well being. Just make sure that I don't know you're doing it. Not even a hint. If I try every play in the book to make you cum and you don't, oh well, I chalk that up to the way it goes as many women are like this. (Sad but true.) That's not my fault per say.

But moving in such a manner as to not orgasm with ME, well, I can't see how anyone would take it any differently than as an insult.
But you assume she doesn't want to cum because of youi, not because of her own reasons. Maybe she has a BF and only wants to cum for him so she can keep the job seperate from personal pleasure.

If anything you shouldn't be insulted but flattered that you can bring her to that point that she has to try and stop it.

There is no evidence that she thinks you are a pig, like you said, so that is why she doesn't want to cum.

Don't get me wrong, I like cumming. I like my partner at the time to cum as well. So to me it make no sense personally based on what I like, but to each their own. I learned pretty fast on TERB that not everyone is like me, but they have just as many valid reasons to not be like me as I have. I would just try not to take it so personally. That is all. But thanks for the explaination.
 

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She made believe she likes you. You can make believe she came.
I agree slurp! We pay an sp to have our fantasies satisfied and as mentioned elsewhere on this thread, the bottom line is we pay to have her make us cum in one way or the other. I understand there's a new trend emerging where men pay to have "plastic/silicon dolls" satisfy their fantasies, and in this case, these men's ultimate goal is somehow to have these dolls make them cum. Don't think these dolls can comply with the requirement to cum for their clients ( may be in some future versions).

It's a moment of make-believe whether you are with a live sp or a "doll" isn't it?:very_drunk:
 

cowslinger

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I certainly wouldn't be angry about her not cumming, but to be honest it would enhance the experience. Yes, part of it is ego, but mainly because I am a pleaser and there is nothing hotter than driving a woman to the edge and pushing her off. I get off on watching that. Feeds my wish to please as well as the voyeur in me.
 
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