What is the best way to get hard again after 1st SOG ?

[Not getting younger]

This is one of those things where I think everyone is different. When I was in my teens, I could cum. And stay hard…today, not so much.

for me, it depends on who I’m having fun with. How strong the attraction/magnetism is. Yasmina had me hard via BBJ in no time. Others SPs no amount of time would have gotten me there.

I prefer 45-60 minutes of fun time. Roughly 15 min of foreplay, or pillow talk. I find the experience far better, and certainly the orgasm more intense. Don’t understand why so many want/need msog

 

[Not getting younger]

I expect you have great pelvic floor muscles (see Kegel exercises) and edging control that allow you to do this. This is discussed in the book "How to Make Love All Night" by Barbara Keesling.

That is part of it. Sometimes I have to utilize Kegel excercise, sometimes I don’t. Just depends. On magnestism/chemistry, when I did the blind date with Amari-Lee Kegel excerises were needed. Numerous other SPs not at all.

And I will say. If you want an insane intense edging experience that will test your control. Go see Sultry Sophia. Book 90 minutes.

on the flip side. A few SPs I’ve talked with, prefer sessions where guys don’t want msog. Not sure if it has anything to do with their enjoyment (pleasure) . But studies have found most women like 20-30min of fun time.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

This helps