What is putting you off in a session ? What is trigger you on ?

[john.who.lee]

put downs:
"Please finish"...
evil/dark & tattoos.
smoke smell...
watching the tv or closing the eyes

unreliable/inpatient booker or SP or both.
fake website pics.

triggers:
anything which looks like she is into the act.

 

[sempel]

ON:
Kisses anywhere pretty much gets me going
Nice perfume/lotion/soap/natural smell
Dirty Talk
A woman taking control and ordering me to do exactly what she wants me to do (to her)
Rough passion


OFF:
A whiff of something unpleasant
Insincere compliments just being used to boost ego
Fake moans
Ultra-sensitivity when starting (different after lady cums)
getting frisky with my nipples
blowing on the little guy

Edit:
And by far the worst thing - BAD ATTITUDE

 

[SirWanker]

Put downs: none so far

Triggers: kissing and nibbling my nipples

 

[malata]

put downs:

BAD ATTITUDE

cummy cummy chameleon:

FUCK ME LONG TIME ATTITUDE

 

[renuck]

Turn offs:
fake moans/orgasms
mechanical sex

Turn ons:
when the lady is gunuinely into the sex
an honest and friendly attitude

 

[|2 /-\ | /|/]

Turn offs:
fake moans/orgasms
mechanical sex

Turn ons:
when the lady is gunuinely into the sex
an honest and friendly attitude

All this plus the biggest turn off is the smell of SMOKE. At least tell us you smoke in your profiles so we know. You can’t hide this and some people are extremely sensitive to this that we get nauseous. Have some consideration please.

 

[IFUSEEKAMY]

Top 3 Turn-Ons:
1) Being dressed a certain way and keeping some of it on while we play
2) Playing in different locations other than in bed/under the covers
3) Being vocal and expressive
I have a section of my site where I talk a little more in depth about my turn-ons.

Turn-Offs:
1) Zero eye-contact
2) Smelling of smoke
3) Spitting

 

[corp]

ON:
General touching, I love when a lady touches/rubs me and I don't mean just the obvious places.
Dirty talk
Sincerity
Caressing the now more obvious place while kissing (in any position really)

OFF:
Fake compliments
Closing eyes
Mechanical sessions
Running off was seems like a script

 

[Mr Bret]

For context, all my hobbying is done on the massage side of the business.

One big turn on for me is getting some great teasing (intentional or accidental) or even some basic services at a place that's 99% legit.
The tabooness of that situation is a huge turn on for me.

 

[stiffbizkit]

off:
upcharging while i'm trying to get off
can't pull hair
nasty smelling puss

on:
talking during sex
moaning..if it's not real make it convincing
kissing

 

[stiffbizkit]

How long did you want to stay for "HUN"?


I fucking hate bullshit terms of endearment....

and babe. in screening you now practically have to give these girls your legal name and the name your grandmother called you and they will still use neither wtf

 

[sempel]

How long did you want to stay for "HUN"?


I fucking hate bullshit terms of endearment....

and babe. in screening you now practically have to give these girls your legal name and the name your grandmother called you and they will still use neither wtf

"Hon" and "Babe" definitely make me cringe. I've actually told a few regulars (MPA's) don't call me either one. Interestingly, one girl called me "Sempel" and I did not like it so I put an end to that.

Call me a bit of a glutton for punishment but I don't mind being sworn at, being called anything derogatory as long as it's not personal. I'm good with "bitch" or POS - I think it's a turn on. But don't humiliate me by calling me fat or anything that has to do with physical appearance - that's just mean.

 

[Occasionally]

ON:
- Hot
- Gets into it
- Wide open menu
- Smells nice, clean and fresh
- Dresses nice
- Great to chat with

OFF:
- Blatant photoshopped BS pics
- Gross looking and totally misleading appearance... looks, weight, bio stats (see photoshop point)
- Zero effort in appearance.... comes dressed in everyday clothes like an afternoon buying groceries... track pants, sneakers, boring top. No make up (see photoshop point)
- Too many tattoos
- Has braces, but the website never said so
- Bad smells... bad breath and BO
- Dumb piercings (such as rodeo clown nose ring)
- Zero personality (says almost nothing, blank stares, dead fish)
- Totally fake moaning and groaning
- After round 1 is done and I freshen up, I return from the bathroom and she's half dressed, packing up and ready to leave even though there's still 20 or so minutes left
- Although kind of funny, spends most of the chat time complaining about home life, other SPs, and any other "outright mood killing downer topics"

Tip to clients: When you chat with the SP, try to get some info about other SPs she knows. For example, ask her about the agency, other SPs she knows there etc.... and try to find out (assuming you think she isn't lying)... who the great SPs she knows are (good looking, down to earth, nice to chat with), and which ones to avoid (weird, or a druggy). I find SPs have no issue telling you what they feel, as the good ones don't want you to feel ripped off either.