Story time.
I don't know about other SP's but I don't like to book without knowing which rate, requests and more importantly, what time the person will be arriving. I always get the type of text "Hey, are you free right now?" When the answer is "yes", I always ask the gent to give me a time frame of arrival, because a) If it's a first time meeting, you don't know my location b) traffic can be an issue (Construction season!) and c) Unless you are 1min away from my place, you won't arrive "right now."
If you take a minute to read my ad you will see that I do require a rate and a time to book, I won't meet anyone that after I give the rates, shows up at my location without giving a heads up.
So today this happened: A guy (he's such a whack job that I refuse to call him a client) texted asking if I was free "right now" and what my hh rates were, I said yes and gave the rates - I have two hh rates, you can pick the one that best fits you and they are very descriptive, which helps me knowing what you are looking for. He then asked for the location, I gave him a general location followed by a reference point, so he could have an idea where I am - I only give the exact address once a booking has been placed. His following text was: "What is the exact address, I will message you when I'm close," now here is my point, I have zero information about this person, where is he coming from? Kanata? Downtown? South End? Orleans? Not to mention he said "right now" before even knowing where I was located. So, being reasonable, I texted back asking for him to give me which hh rate he wanted and what exact time he wanted to book for.
Using his words: "I asked if you were available noe [sic], you said yes. Then I asked what your hh is." Keep in mind that this conversation had been going for 20-25 min, so right now was 25 minutes later from his first message, enough time for me to have booked someone else.
I texted back saying:
"Yes.But you won't teleport here, right? haha. I need to know what time you would be arriving and which hh rate you want!." Then the bs festival started.
"You know what, forget it. I don't like your attitude. You seem very stuck up", "You are no special snowflake. There are plenty of girls out there who are pleasant to talk to and sarcastic."
For one last time I tried to explain, since I don't think I gave him an attitude.
"Lol. It's not an attitude. Dunno what type of girls you have been booking but the professional ones need to know what time you plan to book for. Depending where you are it can take 20min or so to get here. Not to mention traffic... If you think that requesting a time so I can prepare myself is giving an "attitude" I am more than pleased to never meet you. Good luck"
I thought it was done there, but he kept going:
"You should get that chip on your shoulder checked, you have issues..." "You don't know how to talk to people. Do you even have people who give a shit [sic] about you?"
Now here is the thing, I don't tend to argue back but he again, kept on texting non stop. So I told him to stop texting me, cuz I wasn't his mother. Yeah yeah, I know. But I've had enough.
His last words to me "Get cancer lady, and die slowly"
Back to my question. Is that giving an attitude? Because from the bottom of my heart, I don't think so. I don't understand why people see escorting as "less" than something. It is still a business, and I run it as professionally as I can: No meeting up without a booking, without the person knowing the do's and donts and no "bending the rules" because you are clean, good looking, rich etc. Therefore if you are being vague about something, I will want it as clear as possible, so there ano surprises later on.
But if I'm wrong, let me know. I won't agree or argue back, but at least I will be able to see another P.O.V.
I don't know about other SP's but I don't like to book without knowing which rate, requests and more importantly, what time the person will be arriving. I always get the type of text "Hey, are you free right now?" When the answer is "yes", I always ask the gent to give me a time frame of arrival, because a) If it's a first time meeting, you don't know my location b) traffic can be an issue (Construction season!) and c) Unless you are 1min away from my place, you won't arrive "right now."
If you take a minute to read my ad you will see that I do require a rate and a time to book, I won't meet anyone that after I give the rates, shows up at my location without giving a heads up.
So today this happened: A guy (he's such a whack job that I refuse to call him a client) texted asking if I was free "right now" and what my hh rates were, I said yes and gave the rates - I have two hh rates, you can pick the one that best fits you and they are very descriptive, which helps me knowing what you are looking for. He then asked for the location, I gave him a general location followed by a reference point, so he could have an idea where I am - I only give the exact address once a booking has been placed. His following text was: "What is the exact address, I will message you when I'm close," now here is my point, I have zero information about this person, where is he coming from? Kanata? Downtown? South End? Orleans? Not to mention he said "right now" before even knowing where I was located. So, being reasonable, I texted back asking for him to give me which hh rate he wanted and what exact time he wanted to book for.
Using his words: "I asked if you were available noe [sic], you said yes. Then I asked what your hh is." Keep in mind that this conversation had been going for 20-25 min, so right now was 25 minutes later from his first message, enough time for me to have booked someone else.
I texted back saying:
"Yes.But you won't teleport here, right? haha. I need to know what time you would be arriving and which hh rate you want!." Then the bs festival started.
"You know what, forget it. I don't like your attitude. You seem very stuck up", "You are no special snowflake. There are plenty of girls out there who are pleasant to talk to and sarcastic."
For one last time I tried to explain, since I don't think I gave him an attitude.
"Lol. It's not an attitude. Dunno what type of girls you have been booking but the professional ones need to know what time you plan to book for. Depending where you are it can take 20min or so to get here. Not to mention traffic... If you think that requesting a time so I can prepare myself is giving an "attitude" I am more than pleased to never meet you. Good luck"
I thought it was done there, but he kept going:
"You should get that chip on your shoulder checked, you have issues..." "You don't know how to talk to people. Do you even have people who give a shit [sic] about you?"
Now here is the thing, I don't tend to argue back but he again, kept on texting non stop. So I told him to stop texting me, cuz I wasn't his mother. Yeah yeah, I know. But I've had enough.
His last words to me "Get cancer lady, and die slowly"
Back to my question. Is that giving an attitude? Because from the bottom of my heart, I don't think so. I don't understand why people see escorting as "less" than something. It is still a business, and I run it as professionally as I can: No meeting up without a booking, without the person knowing the do's and donts and no "bending the rules" because you are clean, good looking, rich etc. Therefore if you are being vague about something, I will want it as clear as possible, so there ano surprises later on.
But if I'm wrong, let me know. I won't agree or argue back, but at least I will be able to see another P.O.V.
