Regarding the pictures. Of course real life and photos will not compare. My issue mainly comes when it's night and day. Where they look so different that they have no business claiming that's them.
Dick consistency I meant performance wise, sometimes isnt the most cooperative, even if there is physically nothing wrong with oneself.
Of course I know they are people, I didn't mean they were aliens..but since I always see them as their SW identity, and I don't go into their personal life, I sometimes forget that they might have shitty days too since the expectation is there that they should be professional and please you.. and I only started to realize this when I got to know them a little better, it just became easier to understand and learn not to be so harsh and take it's personally when they have a bad attitude.
Thanks for sharing though anybody's point of view is always informative and helpful.
How often do you come across girls who's pics are totally different than reality? If it's often, then maybe you need to change where you're finding those girls.
I've honestly never had this problem, but I only book with agencies or indys that have been around for a long time, have a social media presence and have many reviews. That's obviously not a guarantee, but hopefully helps reduces this issue.
Thanks for clarifying what you meant about dick consistency. I honestly thought you were talking about the physical size
Sorry, but your comment about SW being "people" came across as crass to me. Thanks for clarifying that though. At the same time, it shouldn't be surprising that people have off days, bad attitudes, personal issues, etc. regardless if they're professionals and that they're in this industry. You've definitely come across people with bad attitudes, having bad days, etc. in your daily life.
You're totally right that though that we should try not to be so harsh on people or take things personally. That's not to say getting less than you wanted or outight scammed is a good thing, but we have to learn to let go and move on. It's just money at the end of the day.
If "not getting the money's worth" or losing it causes someone pain, stress or anxiety, then they need to re-evaluate their priorities.
