What has hobbying taught you about yourself?

[GeeBee]

I have more varied sexual tastes than I thought I would.
The body type I thought I would be into doesn’t really do it for me in person.
The most beautiful woman is not always the best lover. (The teenage me wishes I’d known that one)
Personality trumps everything else when it comes to a sexual experience.
I will gladly pay more than I ever thought I would for a great sexual experience.
Repeating with a great SP is often better than experimenting with someone new.

I have to add one more to my list.

Hobbying has taught me about the sex industry and the world of escorts. For many years had the widely held view that it was a sleazy industry dominated by pimps and girls who were desperate. An industry that I wanted no part of for a whole list of reasons.

Well was I ever wrong!! By chance several years ago I stumbled across Twitter accounts and websites that looked anything but my image of sex workers. Professional providers who are strong independent women with small business acumen and who love what they do! Legitimate agencies with happy and well adjusted girls using the industry to put themselves through University debt free or as a side hustle from a boring 9-5 job! Fuck me who knew??

Now I'm happy to be a part of it and better off for it.

Thanks Ladies!!

 

[xix]

People are people in or out of this industry. I can list pro and cons of the industry but we all know them. If a person is a scammer in civic life they are mostly likely at work also, seen it to many times.

I least I had the pleasure of doing women of all walks of life which I had a low chance in civic life. Now I know I could have some unique ladies in civic life but that meant marriage or fata attraction situations, which I don't want to go through that again. The narcissist are the worst.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

During my nearly 5 years of being in the hobby, I have learned quite a lot about myself and SPs:

1 - Hobbying is expensive, especially at the beginning, because you need to spend money to find out what you want and what you really like
2 - Although an hour is a good enough time for each encounter, sometimes it is really good to treat an SP to fine dining, clothes shopping and/or stimulating conversation
3 - Genuinely and thoroughly satisfying a woman sexually is the real aphrodisiac for me
4 - Getting an SP to wear a dress or skirt can be difficult, especially in winter
5 - A woman's orgasm takes many forms and sounds
6 - A SP really likes it when you listen to her afterwards
7 - Some women have no interest in sex and are only there for the money
8 - I can make friends more easily with SPs than with most "regular" women
9 - I prefer cumming with a woman than masturbating to porn
10 - I can be totally relaxed when naked with strangers, even within a group...and that's a good thing
11 - Duos aren't always worth the money