6. I'll respectfully disagree with that
4.our rates take into account so much more than just time spent face to face with clients. It adds up if you actually factor everything into the equation. (Including completely subjective things like what we personally are comfortable with charging/accepting for the services we provide.)
6.I’ll rephrase. It is a non-essential service that no one is entitled to. It is an important service. It is a valuable service. It is not an absolute necessity that everyone is entitled to under any conditions.
Investing in producing a calendar comes to mind. I cannot see the calendar being a success. How many would buy this? Put in where? Lol
The calendar is also available in PDF form and was not a project undertaken thoughtlessly. It is just one of the ways we try to fill our emergency fund so that we have the means to help our members when they need it.
Another thing I find strange is that there are some very vocal Ladies on this board, some of which are part of OIC I believe, yet they don't talk in this thread, are they being muzzled? Because we know they are talking in their PRIVATE chat platform.
So as I client, I will do what I've always done, stay away from OIC ladies. But as an escort, I wouldn't be paying the dragon's head(s) $100 PER MONTH for what ever OIC is about.
If OIC would be community of escorts that would be welcoming of others (like Amber/Kay), wouldn't be charging per month, would actually be transparent and provide constructive feedback, wouldn't be promoting screening/safe-services-only/rates-increase, then yes OIC would likely help improve the current escort scene in this city.
Shockingly not everyone wants to engage on here. I promise, members not participating in this board aren’t being muzzled. And yes we do talk in our private channels.... that’s what’s they’re there for. It’s a space for us to have conversations amongst ourselves away from prying eyes so people feel comfortable speaking openly. (And we have ways that we try to accommodate people sharing their thoughts privately if they feel unsafe speaking openly within those channels for any reason.)
No one is forced to (or even remotely pressured to) contribute $100/month for membership dues. This has been mentioned but it’s a sliding scale (with the suggested amount being under $50.) Anytime someone can’t afford their dues all they have to do is let the finance officer know and that’s the end of it. No consequences for not being able to pay. This has been said already but apparently it needed repeating.
We welcome people who share our values, but we’re also careful to try to cultivate a safe space. (Imperfect though it may be.) We are a not for profit group- without membership fees we would not be able to do ANY of what we do. No website, no emergency fund, no workshops, no members-only socials to help fight feeling isolated. Tell me, how do you suggest we accomplish those things without the small monthly contributions?
We are transparent- within our own spaces. We aren’t accountable to anyone else for every thing we do. We “promote” letting our members decide for themselves whether or not to screen, how to screen, what to charge, and what services to provide or not provide.... that’s kind of the whole point of it being a collective and not an agency. Each individual make those decisions for themselves.
Some of you seem content to skip over anything an OIC member says to address some of the concerns brought up in this thread. It would be nice if you.. you know... didn’t do that. It’s tiresome.
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