I'm not following you ???????
Should have written that post better. I agree with you that being buff or wealthy is a superficial way of looking at attractiveness. A guy can pursue so many things in life including wealth or physical beauty and still not be attractive to women if he is an ass. There are plenty of examples of guys that are not buff nor wealthy yet are in happy and committed relationships. There are also plenty of examples of guys i.e. celebrities that are wealthy and buff that have been through numerous relationships.
To the OP, it doesn't matter what you pursue in life: wealth, physical beauty, etc., but make sure to develop some character too. That IMO is universally attractive.

