What do you think?

chongqing

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What is more attractive to a potential girlfriend, money or body type?. When I say money I mean a multi- millionaire ($6-8 million liquid) vs a guy who is buffed. I realize that that the guy with the money could easily hire a personal trainer to get in shape whereas it would be a lot harder for the buffed guy to become a multi-millionaire.

I would like to add that I realize personality is or should be #1, however, I only want to compare the above two attributes and how they should rank on the priority list for attracting females for relationships.

If I could only have one and not both attributes, which one would you focus on achieving (wealth vs body type) and why?. BTW this also assumes the wealthy guy is not fat/obese, bald or short.

Thanks for your input guys

Cheers - Chongqing
 
Looks might get you noticed but you need something to keep them interested. And for many women, money is more interesting than wit or intelligence.


Of course if you're that wealthy, you should have lots of time to work on your looks.
 
Money. End of story.
 
I think it depends on the age of the girl, 18-25 prolly wanna shag a hot guy and don't care about money. After 25 the girl might start looking long term, what kind of life can this shmuck give me if I'm preggo regularly the next 4-8 years.
 
I think men on TERB in particular over emphasize 'money' WAYYY too much.

I think that when it comes to more than a one night stand, or booty calls, it ultimately comes down to chemistry (which evolves), heat (which often fades), basic compatibility, and the ability to be interesting and do interesting thing together. Beyond that it comes down to reliably offering a fixed basket of 'tangibles'. OK, money can be the thing there, but ultimately it's probably more important to be consistent (without being boring) and quantifiable. You should have some idea what you actually bring to the relationship, and, you know, actually bring something to a relationship.
 
As someone who at different stages of his life has had both, I would say that long term money would carry the day... provided that a basic minimum attractiveness of the whole person is present: No woman that I could be interested in, by way of example, would consider a relationship with Mr. Trump, regardless of his wealth. For those of us not lucky enough to be be born rich or accumulate wealth while young, the best conceivable pattern is to have good looks as a lad and then accumulate the money as one's looks decline with age. I say all this with regret, having misspent my youth resisting the notion that women are that shallow, and having therefore lost a decade or two before buckling down to accumulate assets. Probably it was ever thus... the best hunters in the village were (and are) rewarded with sex, which was (and is) executive incentive pay of a kind not disclosed in any proxy circular.
 
I suggest that it is all relative - all things being equal looks wins it hands down. I know a lot of beautiful women will not admit to being just as superficial as men but from the high school to the pick up bar - witty conversation will not win against good looks - ever.

Money is the equaliser - the uglier you are - the more money it will take to be with that hot chick you crave.

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Money is the equaliser - the uglier you are - the more money it will take to be with that hot chick you crave.

And the more easy the hot chick is to succumb to sexual frustration
of having to pretend she is satisfied in the bed. Think Lady Chatterley
and her lover.
 
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'Nuff said.
 
I can't answer the question on whether its money or body type, They are both superficial.
 
Wit and intelligence takes precedence for me
I've swung both ways in my past but at this age I really appreciate a guy who can hold a conversation, and has the ability to mind fuck me as well between the sheets. Usually of he's intelligent he will have a decent job and if he has a decnt job he cares about his appearance and is most likely good looking.
Just speaking from experience.

You talking about me again. :eyebrows:
 
its more about what you want, try thinking along those lines instead.

Money=larger selection of women of a particular money hungry type
Looks=they fade
 
Based on your shallow assumptions (sorry but they are) any guy who is not a multimillionaire or buffed should be worried that their SO is going to be looking around? I don't think a guy needs to be a multimillionaire, but should have control over their financial lives regardless if he has a girlfriend or not.
 
Based on your shallow assumptions (sorry but they are) any guy who is not a multimillionaire or buffed should be worried that their SO is going to be looking around? I don't think a guy needs to be a multimillionaire, but should have control over their financial lives regardless if he has a girlfriend or not.

I'm not following you ???????