What do you think about when you encounter your more-significant exes later in life? Not the short-term relationships, casual encounters, etc., but the long-term relationships?
For me, I find it interesting for all sorts of reasons:
1. What weird odds that I even see them again (eg. different City on one and bizarre 6-Degrees of separation on another)?,
2. One is a pure her-mom version of herself (funny as they 'despised' one another),
3. One had a kid (vowed that she would never),
4. One, who I was supposed to marry, is following her life-plan exactly, except her fitness goals (and that I find CRAZY as she was a model),
5. While I see their aging, but I don't really see them that way. I see them as the younger versions, as they were. (that was interesting...).
While I'm sure they are still thinking of my epic penis and how it felt so good, I sort of wonder myself as to what else they thought... In these cases, these are ladies who know me deep-down. They could call bullshit and even hurt me. What do they think of the years tacked onto me or the changes that have occurred?
No judgement really as decades go by quickly. I'm surprised the encounters even happened - none of them with my wife and kids in tow either...
Just thought I'd throw it out there for some different discussion.
For me, I find it interesting for all sorts of reasons:
1. What weird odds that I even see them again (eg. different City on one and bizarre 6-Degrees of separation on another)?,
2. One is a pure her-mom version of herself (funny as they 'despised' one another),
3. One had a kid (vowed that she would never),
4. One, who I was supposed to marry, is following her life-plan exactly, except her fitness goals (and that I find CRAZY as she was a model),
5. While I see their aging, but I don't really see them that way. I see them as the younger versions, as they were. (that was interesting...).
While I'm sure they are still thinking of my epic penis and how it felt so good, I sort of wonder myself as to what else they thought... In these cases, these are ladies who know me deep-down. They could call bullshit and even hurt me. What do they think of the years tacked onto me or the changes that have occurred?
No judgement really as decades go by quickly. I'm surprised the encounters even happened - none of them with my wife and kids in tow either...
Just thought I'd throw it out there for some different discussion.