To all the wonderful gents that indulge in the company of a beautiful companion, what draws you to inquiring?
What do you look for in a companion?
- Thread starter LovelyEnvy
- Start date
In my situation, I would need to know if they are couple friendly and experienced.
For me, obviously an ebony with a booty, but open minded and non judgmental.
Physically - love legs and hygiene, mentally for me its how they make me feel (sex is gonna be there no matter what - fck that' s why we are all here) if they can make me feel like I'm the only one there for the allocated transactional time - you will have a repeat customer.
Someone who doesn't charge more than 300 an hour
Accurate/recent photos
Punctuality
Lean body
Convincing DFK
No baby damage on the body
Ability to orgasm from Daty
Gratitude
Punctuality
Lean body
Convincing DFK
No baby damage on the body
Ability to orgasm from Daty
Gratitude
Ditto. Obviously the girl has to be attractive (petite spinner types do it for me) but the personality and how she makes me feel before we even get undressed is the key.
Hygiene - self explanatory.
Safety - discreet, reliable, punctual, good communication giving me confidence it is the provider I am speaking to.
Services - DFK, DATY, DATO, BBBJ, BLS, Rimming, CFS. And of course a warm, non-judgmental and friendly personality.
Safety - discreet, reliable, punctual, good communication giving me confidence it is the provider I am speaking to.
Services - DFK, DATY, DATO, BBBJ, BLS, Rimming, CFS. And of course a warm, non-judgmental and friendly personality.
A blend of many things.
Physically: Body type. Don’t care about how gorgeous they are or aren’t.
Services: a good all rounder. More on the gfe than pse porn hub side. The type that’s GFE with hints or slight cross over to pse. Doesn’t mean I want to go there everyday, but if I do. She’s not going to get uncomfortable. Kind of like bbjcim. Don’t feel like that makes a session, or SP. but if I’m in the moment and that’s how I want to finish…
Sub/dom/switch. A true switch.
Are they genuine. right at the top.
will there be a connection on some level.
personalties are key, as are communication, things in common, etc. rapport.
Chemistry.
See above and a little more.
Physically: Body type. Don’t care about how gorgeous they are or aren’t.
Services: a good all rounder. More on the gfe than pse porn hub side. The type that’s GFE with hints or slight cross over to pse. Doesn’t mean I want to go there everyday, but if I do. She’s not going to get uncomfortable. Kind of like bbjcim. Don’t feel like that makes a session, or SP. but if I’m in the moment and that’s how I want to finish…
Sub/dom/switch. A true switch.
Are they genuine. right at the top.
will there be a connection on some level.
personalties are key, as are communication, things in common, etc. rapport.
Chemistry.
See above and a little more.
FACTORS THAT CAN BE PARTIALLY PLANNED AHEAD:
1) Physical:
2) Services:
3) Reputation/Business Practices:
FACTORS THAT CANNOT BE PLANNED AHEAD:
1) Personality, Chemistry and Work Style:
1) Physical:
- Youthful look
- Intentional proportions/designed look (e.g. can be thick, can be spinner, can be enhanced, can be gnd look - as long as it's intentional & goes with their look)
- no bbws
2) Services:
- bbbj, dfk,
- greek preferred
3) Reputation/Business Practices:
- many positive reviews across established TERB members over a long period of time
- an established Twitter presence with everyday/non glamour photos
FACTORS THAT CANNOT BE PLANNED AHEAD:
1) Personality, Chemistry and Work Style:
- relaxed down to earth vibe
- non-clock watcher - gfe vibe
- does outcalls
- reliable and respectable of our designated time
- intentionally attentative
- open to longer dates
- a communication style that matches mine - do we match? is there chemistry?
- open to activities beyond fs during time
This + drug free, non smoker and tattoo free(huge bonus points) . And yes I do ask when I contact them.
I've been thinking about this a fair bit, especially since reading @LexiLeyla 's post (https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/let-me-pick-your-brain.813468/). It could probably argued, since it is my super-power, that I've been OVERthinking it. 
For me I think it's roughly as follows:
One thing that often surprises me is how few ladies initiate. I've had a couple initiate and for me that's almost a guarantee (assuming the geography and finances don't preclude it). It could also be a simple follow-up to a visit a week or two later. I can't imagine I'm unique in this. I think most of us respond positively to attention from ladies. Still, it seems to be very rare in the industry.
Just my 2 cents worth.
For me I think it's roughly as follows:
- Attitude - 40%: Is she friendly? Is she nice? Is she kind? Is she respectful? What general feeling do I get from her social media presence or any interactions I may have?
- Rate - 30%: Sadly I'm on a fairly limited budget. Sure, I'd love to see some of the $500+ ladies. I'd love to drive a Ferrari, too, but that's not my reality.
- Physical attractiveness - 20%: Yes, looks matter, but attitude makes up for a LOT!
- Brand - 10%: I'll always be more drawn to sensual than to PSE or kinky, but on at least two occasions I've been proven very wrong by ladies that advertise as PSE or kinky, so this gets a gigantic pinch of salt.
One thing that often surprises me is how few ladies initiate. I've had a couple initiate and for me that's almost a guarantee (assuming the geography and finances don't preclude it). It could also be a simple follow-up to a visit a week or two later. I can't imagine I'm unique in this. I think most of us respond positively to attention from ladies. Still, it seems to be very rare in the industry.
Just my 2 cents worth.
To give me what I need, while we both respect our boundaries.
Hygienic, reliable, good smart conversation but not overly chatty. Lots of energy and a shower together.
I’m insatiable.
Hygienic, reliable, good smart conversation but not overly chatty. Lots of energy and a shower together.
I’m insatiable.
FACTORS THAT CANNOT BE PLANNED AHEAD:
1) Personality, Chemistry and Work Style:
Disagree.
For reasons I won’t get into ( work related) personality and a connection are at the top of my list. Being genuine is right there too. Physical gratification we can get with the majority. Commute time, there and back, also extremely high. I value my time, as such, don’t like wasting it. I am very picky, and patient. I don’t roll the dice much. My signal to noise is over 80%, maybe close to 90%.
While there aren’t all that many that participate here, there are a number. I will follow those that catch my eye. Gauge how they interact, read what they say, for hints that reveal their personalities. Can get an idea about their sense of humor too, when they laugh at comments…maybe there’s a comment about a favourite musician, or food, or A to Z. What words do they use, etc etc.
I do the same on twitter. Look for the same and more. Sometimes it helps say pass, sometimes “we have stuff in common”…or how often do they announce they cancel shifts….there are other things I look for that give away bits of themselves. That help me, decide yay or nay.
I booked an appointment with Amari-Lee at secrets, sight unseen. I had her put a blind fold on me, before I could see her. I was that confident I had read her right. Based off some interactions here, and her presence on twitter alone. The blind fold didn’t come off until close to the end.The connection, unlike any I’ve found in others.
Chemistry, is a bit more challenging and that you don’t really know for sure. There are other things I look for and test for. Never know who might read so…………
my time, my money, my “enjoyment” are important to me. So, I do my due diligence.
Point being I guess. There are things any of us can do. Twitter, is one of them.
1) Personality, Chemistry and Work Style:
- relaxed down to earth vibe
- non-clock watcher - gfe vibe
- does outcalls
- reliable and respectable of our designated time
- intentionally attentative
- open to longer dates
- a communication style that matches mine - do we match? is there chemistry?
- open to activities beyond fs during time
Disagree.
For reasons I won’t get into ( work related) personality and a connection are at the top of my list. Being genuine is right there too. Physical gratification we can get with the majority. Commute time, there and back, also extremely high. I value my time, as such, don’t like wasting it. I am very picky, and patient. I don’t roll the dice much. My signal to noise is over 80%, maybe close to 90%.
While there aren’t all that many that participate here, there are a number. I will follow those that catch my eye. Gauge how they interact, read what they say, for hints that reveal their personalities. Can get an idea about their sense of humor too, when they laugh at comments…maybe there’s a comment about a favourite musician, or food, or A to Z. What words do they use, etc etc.
I do the same on twitter. Look for the same and more. Sometimes it helps say pass, sometimes “we have stuff in common”…or how often do they announce they cancel shifts….there are other things I look for that give away bits of themselves. That help me, decide yay or nay.
I booked an appointment with Amari-Lee at secrets, sight unseen. I had her put a blind fold on me, before I could see her. I was that confident I had read her right. Based off some interactions here, and her presence on twitter alone. The blind fold didn’t come off until close to the end.The connection, unlike any I’ve found in others.
Chemistry, is a bit more challenging and that you don’t really know for sure. There are other things I look for and test for. Never know who might read so…………
my time, my money, my “enjoyment” are important to me. So, I do my due diligence.
Point being I guess. There are things any of us can do. Twitter, is one of them.
Last edited:
