I was with my favorite Indy today and was having a hard time with seconds. She was very insistant that she wouldnt leave until I finished again. She was very insistant {and sexy}and I finally had a second SOG. I was a bit thrown when she asked me what I was thinking about when I came. Nobody had ever posed this question to me. I have a scenario from my youth that I can relive in my mind and always get myself off. I only go there when whatever I am going doesnt get me off. It was like 30 years ago but it was like yesterday. Are there others able to focus on something in particular to get themselves off?