What do men look for most when searching for a wife???
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As I've never been married I cannot confirm or deny this but I do know one thing: that ALL my married friends say the same thing: once the honeymoon is over, so is your sex life.....InMyLap said:
re:Why have a wife?
I think Ted said it best. What's a wife? LOL..... First off I honestly believe there is no benefit for a man to get married. Personally, I would never get married. I seen the truth with family, friends and they are so miserable. However, if I was going to get married, she would have the following qualities. She would not be a nag, not try and change me, she would admit to her own mistakes, sex 7 times a week would be a must, not constantly talking when I come home from work, not taking her PMS problems with me etc. I could go on and on forever but those are some of the things which are important to me.
I think Ted said it best. What's a wife? LOL..... First off I honestly believe there is no benefit for a man to get married. Personally, I would never get married. I seen the truth with family, friends and they are so miserable. However, if I was going to get married, she would have the following qualities. She would not be a nag, not try and change me, she would admit to her own mistakes, sex 7 times a week would be a must, not constantly talking when I come home from work, not taking her PMS problems with me etc. I could go on and on forever but those are some of the things which are important to me.
bkspoiler11 said:
LOL dude, so I guess you're going to be single forever? Unless she is so hot you forget your criteria cuz man, EVERY woman does those things.....
All men want an all around 10 woman. All qualities mentioned in the posts. With that said, it usually ends in just a few combinations:
1. The man is top shelf, so he gets want he wants.
2. The man is average and so he settles with what he can get.
3. The man is average but he is fighting to beat the odds. He is probably a regular to brothels because he is not getting much dates with good looking woman. He could save a lot of maney by not visiting hookers anymore only if he is willing to accept an average woman. So, maybe her butt is too wide or her legs are too thick, so does majority of the sps....
4. The man is ugly and you probably guessed whats the end of it.
1. The man is top shelf, so he gets want he wants.
2. The man is average and so he settles with what he can get.
3. The man is average but he is fighting to beat the odds. He is probably a regular to brothels because he is not getting much dates with good looking woman. He could save a lot of maney by not visiting hookers anymore only if he is willing to accept an average woman. So, maybe her butt is too wide or her legs are too thick, so does majority of the sps....
4. The man is ugly and you probably guessed whats the end of it.
Funny, I was thinking mentally stable also. I have dated stunning women who were fucked up upstairs. Let me tell you, after 2 weeks, the beautiful part doesn't even matter anymore. What matters is a "normal" attitude.Svend said:
Looks can have a wide range, you can put up with a lot outside the standard.
She definitely can not weigh more than me though.
I won't date anyone who smokes, regardless of how hot they are.
Good in bed, yes, that is a requirement.
Intelligent is good.
Kind
Good hygene (takes a shower every day (you'd be surprised), no smelly pussy)
Decent
Laid back / not a ball buster
Good sense of humour
A good cook is a bonus, - it definitely carries points with me.
Not a shop a holic hence has a control over her finances, hence has a reasonable job (note, I don't care if she has a "career")
"Searching, searching, searching....for a wife?"
If they consider the question seriously at all, it is usually too late for them to correct their foolishness. As Sir Francis Bacon observed several hundred years ago, at that point the male may well ask "What is it then to have or have no wife, / But single thraldom, or a double strife?"
If a marriage works it usually has nothing or little to do with choice or intelligent planning. It just happens. ee Cummings grasped this very well in "Anyone Lived in a Pretty How Town":
when by now and tree by leaf
she laughed his joy she cried his grief
bird by snow and stir by still
anyone's any was all to her
The question, thoughtful as it appears, is at variance with the pschology of most males. Men do not generally "search" "for a wife". On the whole they tend more simply to look for fun and satisfaction. If at all, they, for the most part only consider marriage and wifery much later, and only then when, in their frailty of reasoning, they consider it absolutely necessary.stacey4u2luv said:
If they consider the question seriously at all, it is usually too late for them to correct their foolishness. As Sir Francis Bacon observed several hundred years ago, at that point the male may well ask "What is it then to have or have no wife, / But single thraldom, or a double strife?"
If a marriage works it usually has nothing or little to do with choice or intelligent planning. It just happens. ee Cummings grasped this very well in "Anyone Lived in a Pretty How Town":
when by now and tree by leaf
she laughed his joy she cried his grief
bird by snow and stir by still
anyone's any was all to her
as much as we men think we do the searching,it actually does not happen that way.We are picked,for the most part,as a guy has no care for anything other then the moment.Just try and place yourself in an area where your odds are higher,lol,and let the mating selection begin!
But if I had a choice I would pick money,age,and then looks,although when I was younger all that was reversed,lol.
But if I had a choice I would pick money,age,and then looks,although when I was younger all that was reversed,lol.
A wife, a wife, my kingdom for a wife!
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A wonderful answer from common-sense!lickrolaine said:
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