Hygiene and personality are pretty big too I'd agree. Some seem out of it or just not in an enjoyable mood the way they greet or talk to the customer. The odd time I'll just go along with it the rare time I just wanna get it over with and leave. I've walked away 2 or 3 times as soon as I got to the door and they opened it especially if it's a bait & switch. I seen a young 20 year old down in Barrie a year or 2 ago and it was just rush to get things over with and changing what was agreed upon. I'm sure the designer stuff she had in the room were just knock offs too. And those big fake nails near my cock isn't a turn on lmao.
What are your red flags?
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As a client, red flags
1. Not answering or only answering some of my very basic questions in my first text (eg rates, location, general availability).
2. Ad with 4-6 TGTBT pics, especially that include full face pics. Or pics concealing body parts. (Other than face)
3. Ad with telegram, OF or WhatsApp as only contact method.
4. no reviews (or bad ones, obviously)
5. Obvious photoshop or stolen pics.
6. Anything remotely suggesting pimped girls/ trafficking. (“Just arrive” multiple “independent” girls using same number. Obvious cut and paste responses from a “handler”. Girls who speak no English at all etc).
Green flags
1. Good reviews by reliable members.
2. See #1
3. See # 1 and 2
4. Representative pics of body type, with no PS
5. Clear rate structure, with no surprise hidden extra charges
6. Prompt professional communication. Email is actually preferred when pre planning a date.
1. Not answering or only answering some of my very basic questions in my first text (eg rates, location, general availability).
2. Ad with 4-6 TGTBT pics, especially that include full face pics. Or pics concealing body parts. (Other than face)
3. Ad with telegram, OF or WhatsApp as only contact method.
4. no reviews (or bad ones, obviously)
5. Obvious photoshop or stolen pics.
6. Anything remotely suggesting pimped girls/ trafficking. (“Just arrive” multiple “independent” girls using same number. Obvious cut and paste responses from a “handler”. Girls who speak no English at all etc).
Green flags
1. Good reviews by reliable members.
2. See #1
3. See # 1 and 2
4. Representative pics of body type, with no PS
5. Clear rate structure, with no surprise hidden extra charges
6. Prompt professional communication. Email is actually preferred when pre planning a date.
Here's me hoping I never said I was a 'fan':
Though I do hope Josephine would just tell me if something I said or did wasn't sitting right with her.
In addition to many of the things mentioned here:
- Anyone who uses luxury brand naming. I'm willing to bet that Mercedes Hilton (fictitious I hope) may be mostly about the money, entirely too aspirationally (possibly delusionally) high end, and not that service oriented.
You did not and if you did it was done in a non creepy manners.Here's me hoping I never said I was a 'fan':
Though I do hope Josephine would just tell me if something I said or did wasn't sitting right with her.
In addition to many of the things mentioned here:
- Anyone who uses luxury brand naming. I'm willing to bet that Mercedes Hilton (fictitious I hope) may be mostly about the money, entirely too aspirationally (possibly delusionally) high end, and not that service oriented.
I will give you my best no matter what. There are no need to finesse, promise or pressure. That's what any providers who wants to stay in business do, unless you are an asshole.
So no you really didn't do that.
Amen.
Thank God.
I was mostly tongue in cheek, but it does very much sound like a thing I could say in a well meaning sort of way, lol. I do shove my foot in my mouth on the regular. I get "nice guy", or "seemed perfectly normal", sending up red flags-- I never really considered that for 'fan'. (Though I understand how someone being a true fan-atic about you would be unsettling.)
From a client perspective:
- Being robotic over text
- Responding later is understandable, but not responding at all however...
- Over abundance of pictures showcasing praise and "reviews" from supposed clients over text messaging. (Could be fine, but also incredibly easy to fake)
- Trashing clients over their social media (I've found this type of attitude towards clients is typically indicative of the type of service you'll get)
- Being incredibly unsocial or just having a shit attitude in general (A great example in my case - One SP who made no conscious effort to talk, and when she did it was to say she wants more money and how she hates the place she's currently working...)
- Asking for a deposit, but without having any reviews or reputation. I'm perfectly fine with sending a deposit if I know the SP in question has a demonstrated history of reliability and trustworthiness.
Now looking at the other end, I continue to be flabbergasted by the gripes that SPs have and endure with a concerningly large amount of their clients. I think a majority of dudes just think they can throw etiquette and subtlety out the window because they're buying their way into an SP's graces. But like, it doesn't work that way and I find it fucking ridiculous how many different stories I hear about clients acting like total fucking morons when working with an SP. How hard is it to read basic information off the ads you look at, or to be cordial with the women that you're trying to bang? In fact, why would you NOT try to be coridal and polite with them? Finding a cool, personable SP and building rapport and connection with them is like half the fun for me.
Current society sucks major ass at communicating and it shows.
- Being robotic over text
- Responding later is understandable, but not responding at all however...
- Over abundance of pictures showcasing praise and "reviews" from supposed clients over text messaging. (Could be fine, but also incredibly easy to fake)
- Trashing clients over their social media (I've found this type of attitude towards clients is typically indicative of the type of service you'll get)
- Being incredibly unsocial or just having a shit attitude in general (A great example in my case - One SP who made no conscious effort to talk, and when she did it was to say she wants more money and how she hates the place she's currently working...)
- Asking for a deposit, but without having any reviews or reputation. I'm perfectly fine with sending a deposit if I know the SP in question has a demonstrated history of reliability and trustworthiness.
Now looking at the other end, I continue to be flabbergasted by the gripes that SPs have and endure with a concerningly large amount of their clients. I think a majority of dudes just think they can throw etiquette and subtlety out the window because they're buying their way into an SP's graces. But like, it doesn't work that way and I find it fucking ridiculous how many different stories I hear about clients acting like total fucking morons when working with an SP. How hard is it to read basic information off the ads you look at, or to be cordial with the women that you're trying to bang? In fact, why would you NOT try to be coridal and polite with them? Finding a cool, personable SP and building rapport and connection with them is like half the fun for me.
Current society sucks major ass at communicating and it shows.
A lot of guys don't really like us and their action comes from a place of direspect BUT lots of guys lack basic social skills and this is were you have to make the difference as a provider. And it's very difficult. Not all socially awkward people are bad clients. You cannot shame someone who seeks service because they cannot get away with their awkwardness irl nor automatically blame it on incompetence. People don't realize what a difficult profession sex workers is.
I worry a lot more about the guys who think they are smarter than us than the guy who is just lost. But that's just me.
I am far from perfect either. Lots of things I say I will probably regret later. I'm trying to work on this...but sometimes lol both of my feet are deep in
This is more what you should be working onI am far from perfect either. Lots of things I say I will probably regret later. I'm trying to work on this...but sometimes lol both of my feet are deep in
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I think its one reason the ladies like us older blokes because we learned about interacting with women in a face to face world hence had to develop at least some rudimentary social skills.
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I love an old gentlemen that romance you a bit. 🤌 chef's kiss.
It's really lacking nowadays but some younger ones still impress me sometimes.
Showing your face is considered a red flag?
Can I ask why?
I show my face in most of my photos.
-Asking questions over text that are very clearly answered in my ads and my website
-Improper introduction such as Hi, Hey, U avail, Rates and restrictions, etc...(my ads and website have a simple intro blueprint)
-Carrot dangling (ex. If you give me a discounted rate I will become a regular)
-Bragging about their appearance over text
-Endless questions over a long period of time with no first booking in sight (questions such as "What do you want me to do to you once I'm there?")
-Attempts at pushing boundaries and bbfs requests
-Improper introduction such as Hi, Hey, U avail, Rates and restrictions, etc...(my ads and website have a simple intro blueprint)
-Carrot dangling (ex. If you give me a discounted rate I will become a regular)
-Bragging about their appearance over text
-Endless questions over a long period of time with no first booking in sight (questions such as "What do you want me to do to you once I'm there?")
-Attempts at pushing boundaries and bbfs requests
Yeah / I forgot about those two. The last one especially. If you start with shit like that, I just block. I'm not here to sext with you.
I'm guessing a number of the b&s factories do that w the Asian ladies, plus the ladies who steal other ladies Instagram pics, will show faces - because they're not afraid of getting outed cuz it's not their face.
I'd worry more about the advances in face recognition being used these days.
But yer pretty as a peach kitty!
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