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On a bit of a darker side, I have a bit of an interest in some aspects of bondage. Nothing to do with pain or anything like that. What particularly interests me is a girl restrained and me with a vibrator or big feather or other toy (or all of those things or more) totally in control of the situation and driving the young lady crazy. I'm not really much into porn, but when I do watch it I love those kinds of scenes.
I think this is the closest I could get to really enjoying a BDSM scenario. I can't get past the idea of inflicting pain or humiliation (or receiving either), but this sounds hot, or perhaps me being blindfolded with a partner, or what the hell, both of us blindfolded. (I look better that way)
Problem is that the bi-curious streak is focused completely on the genitals and otherwise I am not and never have been in the least bit attracted to men, although I have on occasion thought about finding a trans sp. That one probably stays in the pile of things that intrigue me but will almost certainly never happen.
I think it helps to get out of our head (at least the head on our shoulders) and just allow experiences to happen, assuming reasonable safety precautions of course. I played around as a teen and realized that mutual pleasure without romantic attachment is okay. I had a MFM threesome with my best friend and his GF and it was amazing. The next time I had a threesome was as a young adult. While she was un my face, I felt a mouth on my cock followed by a couple of lubed fingers. The sensations were amazing so I returned the favour while fucking her. The next time we met , he rubbed his dick between my cheeks and asked if it was okay to go further and I said "fuck it" (not literally). His dick was (is) slender and he warmed me up with a lot of lube and fingers. I have to confess that the sensations were amazing and I was dripping precum like crazy. On went the condom, and he slowly made it happen. I was surprised that it wasn't painful. For the record, receiving a blowjob from a hot woman while getting your ass plowed is incredible. You could always try it with two woman and a strap-on .
