Wedding Ring

[AJ1]

I take mine off in a session, mainly because I don’t want a reminder of her when it’s “me” time. However, this thread makes me think that perhaps I should keep it on. OK, today I’ll try that.

Perfect time to try?

 

[greensquare]

I find rocking a wedding ring when not really married and not bringing it up during a session generally leads towards a better BJ at times because she knows she's competing against someone else.

I haven't put this hypothesis to the test or gathered more research. But I might do it in the name of science of course.

 

[AJ1]

Neither my wife nor I wear our rings.

I’m honest when the SP asks… I just tell them that it’s a sexless marriage and they seem to completely understand.

I would bet my left testicle if none of us here goes thru that. It is not just because relationship became cold but other reason like health, partner’s age, long distance relationship, etc. I said the same thing to my regular SP and she said “Im glad I could help”.

 

[DanubeDrifter]

Do you remove your wedding ring when you see an SP? Just curious…

From what the ladies say on here, most don't care either way, and a ring can even reassure them you're not going to get clingy. What matters more is leaving the wife out of the conversation.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Do you remove your wedding ring when you see an SP? Just curious…

No. Are you more worried about offending her or your wife ? because if you forget it that’s trouble

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Neither my wife nor I wear our rings.

I’m honest when the SP asks… I just tell them that it’s a sexless marriage and they seem to completely understand.

They shouldn’t be asking really and you could say nothing at all

 

[AJ1]

No. Are you more worried about offending her or your wife ? because if you forget it that’s trouble

I kept mine on all the time, SPs they don’t care

 

[Fred Flinstone]

I didn't start seeing mpa's and sp's until a few years after my wife passed away, so the mark on my finger was never an issue, but if I did, I would have removed it. No reminders during the fun!!

 

[xix]

So no one has forgotten their ring at SP location?

OR even lost it on their way there or outside of the location.

I think one person posted once, he removed it in the car, left in the same spot the glove compartment.

 

[A_Footlong]

From what the ladies say on here, most don't care either way, and a ring can even reassure them you're not going to get clingy. What matters more is leaving the wife out of the conversation.

i cant even imagine what you have to be thinking to bring up your wife while in the middle of the act with an SP

 

[Mandalorian]

The only time my wedding ring came up was years ago when I was seeing this Asian MPA. I didn’t have my ring on, but she purposely felt my ring finger and noticed it was narrower due to years of wearing my band and she smiled and said “trying to hide something?” . It was a rare moment of mutual acknowledgment of both our roles.