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We were told this wouldn’t happen: Perv exposes himself to a little girl in a....
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1) The story has absolutely nothing to do with "third" bathrooms. It took place when a very drunk guy entered a woman's washroom.
2) Most malls already have 3rd bathrooms described as "family" washrooms. Should they get rid of those too?
3) A great many small businesses already gender neutral facilities. They are a single stall with a locking door and a non-gendered sign saying "washroom".
So when the 250 lb, pre-op with a beard and tattoos has to use the women's washroom......
The problem has absolutely nothing to do with gender identity; the issue is pedophiles.
I certainly agree the thread's an entire misinterpretation of an event unrelated to non-issue. Any version of Wienie Police for washrooms would indeed be equally stupid and useless.
Actually they would be objective, biological realities, although rare. Aberration or not, those folks would still have to widdle somewhere, and if we don't want them doing on the street, it'd be for us to figure out where. Much the same for folks with mental issues.
Not that this learned discussion of sexual characteristics has even the slightest relation to the incident as the OP seems to imagine.
I doubt anyone has ever done any actual studies but I would be willing to make a guess there are far more transgender people than there are people with chromosome issues
As to where to go, again to follow the mental illness thread, most people will not be comfortable with a "crazy" person being alone in a washroom with them
And trust me a pre-op trans looks pretty crazy to most normal people
As to OP yes the debate on sexual identity has NOTHING to do with the debate as to whether non-standard are normal or not
I'm sure the Mom in this story was as uncomfortable as anyone can imagine when the drunk — an ordinary factory-issue genetic and mental male as far as anyone knows — forced himself into the Women's Washroom in desperation, and started peeing in her daughter's stall. Like 'drunk', 'crazy' has no connection to trans, gender, sex or washrooms.
Please don't be offended, but I don't trust you as any sort of expert on what pre-op trans look like, not until you tell us why we should. My sweetie's had to explain more than once in washrooms, how born-women adjust their pantyhose, and she doesn't think they're crazy, just unpracticed. My own experience, from work and social interaction has been in single digits, but the guys in dresses haven't been crazy-looking, nor have the butch girls in men's pants. They dress differently, and maybe aren't what I call conventionally attractive. But I'm not gonna be first to throw that stone.
And if the polite skirt-wearing carpenter doing the house down the way thinks I should know which direction that transition's headed, then I'm sure I'll be told. Until then, it's no business of mine. "Good morning" is unisex.
Of course, there's not the slightest evidence in this whole stupid thread that this guy had anything more perverted in mind than a drunk's genuine need to pee NOW.
Those crazy people will have to use one washroom. And as I said, would you be comfortable with a big, bearded, pre-op man being forced to use the women's washroom because he still has a snatch or having a crazy looking pre-op woman in the men's when your taking a piss?
And just a reminder, the OP is about a MAN in the women's washroom, not a trans-person.
It's another example of the OP reading only the misleading headline, not his actual story.
As to who uses the washroom when I'm in there, as long as they're just quietly doing their thing by themselves it's no business or concern of mine. Everybody mind their own business, and who cares who uses what washroom, as long as there's enough toilets and sinks for the demand.
That said, since you made it a question: Yes, I would be, (and have been, they used a stall). Why wouldn't every reasonable person? People are different, get over it.
