WARNING TO ALL S/m SERVICE PROVIDERS
I would like to inform any and all Toronto area professional BDSM service providers that offer "SUBMISSION SCENES" about a recent encounter.
We had incident, which we take very seriously and absolutely WILL NOT tolerate at our dungeon with a very regular client who is a switch, but usually books scenes with our submissive girls, and usually after 10pm.
He usually books with subs between 1-2 hours and attends our facility 3-4 times per month.
The incident was on Sat. Oct. 22/05 early afternoon, downtown Toronto. The client arrived for his pre-booked scene with one of our subs for his typical session which involves:
heavy physical and emotional humiliation
foot worship & nipple torture.
The scene was prebooked for 7PM for 1 hour with a submissive who is somewhat new to the professional scene of BDSM.
Approximately halfway during the session the client brought our pro-sub out of the chamber crawling on her hands and knees and leashed into the main area of the dungeon display humiliation to myself, Lord Max, Miss Tiffany and Switch Ava who were present in the facility while the scene was taking place. Our sub was also asked to perform boot worship on Ava in our presence, and there was no indication of any problem that were occurring inside the chamber. (THIS WAS FINE)
After the client's public display of humiliation he and our sub returned to the chamber where he repeatedly attempted to PHYSICALLY FORCE our sub into providing him with extra SEXUAL SERVICES - THAT WE DO NOT OFFER!
The client DID NOT respect the SAFE WORDS, although the submissive repeatedly called "RED" although the UNCONSENSUAL DEMANDS were not provided, our team member is now recovering from this emotional damage that resulted from this session.
This client has been banned from returning to our facility, and this message is to make other professionals aware of the situation. This was the first encounter between the client and that particular sub, and during previous scenes with our other subs, the FORCED SEXUAL DEMANDS had never even been requested.
The client left after his scene indicating that he was pleased with our sub and gave no indication of any problem. The staff member did not leave the chamber until after the client left the facility.
ALSO - MOST IMPORTANTLY -
I would like to remind clients that our Professional DOMINANTS always respect YOUR limitations during play, and HIGHLY RESPECT THE SAFE WORDS!
We play SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUALLY.
WE EXPECT DOMINANT CLIENTS WHO BOOK WITH SUBMISSIVE GIRLS TO HAVE THE SAME REGARD FOR OUR BOTTOMS, AND RESPECT THEIR INDIVIDUAL LIMITATIONS.
ALSO OUR FACILITY DOES NOT PROVIDE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
DO NOT ASK FOR IT - AND DO NOT OFFER EXTRA COMPENSATION!!
if any provider would like additional information - please PM me. I did not post a description or name, out of respect for his privacy although he had no respect for our sub.
PLEASE REMEMBER TO DISCUSS AND ESTABLISH SAFE WORDS AS WELL AS THE EXPECTATIONS BEFORE PLAYING!
Goddess Vanessa Payne
Head Mistress
I would like to inform any and all Toronto area professional BDSM service providers that offer "SUBMISSION SCENES" about a recent encounter.
We had incident, which we take very seriously and absolutely WILL NOT tolerate at our dungeon with a very regular client who is a switch, but usually books scenes with our submissive girls, and usually after 10pm.
He usually books with subs between 1-2 hours and attends our facility 3-4 times per month.
The incident was on Sat. Oct. 22/05 early afternoon, downtown Toronto. The client arrived for his pre-booked scene with one of our subs for his typical session which involves:
heavy physical and emotional humiliation
foot worship & nipple torture.
The scene was prebooked for 7PM for 1 hour with a submissive who is somewhat new to the professional scene of BDSM.
Approximately halfway during the session the client brought our pro-sub out of the chamber crawling on her hands and knees and leashed into the main area of the dungeon display humiliation to myself, Lord Max, Miss Tiffany and Switch Ava who were present in the facility while the scene was taking place. Our sub was also asked to perform boot worship on Ava in our presence, and there was no indication of any problem that were occurring inside the chamber. (THIS WAS FINE)
After the client's public display of humiliation he and our sub returned to the chamber where he repeatedly attempted to PHYSICALLY FORCE our sub into providing him with extra SEXUAL SERVICES - THAT WE DO NOT OFFER!
The client DID NOT respect the SAFE WORDS, although the submissive repeatedly called "RED" although the UNCONSENSUAL DEMANDS were not provided, our team member is now recovering from this emotional damage that resulted from this session.
This client has been banned from returning to our facility, and this message is to make other professionals aware of the situation. This was the first encounter between the client and that particular sub, and during previous scenes with our other subs, the FORCED SEXUAL DEMANDS had never even been requested.
The client left after his scene indicating that he was pleased with our sub and gave no indication of any problem. The staff member did not leave the chamber until after the client left the facility.
ALSO - MOST IMPORTANTLY -
I would like to remind clients that our Professional DOMINANTS always respect YOUR limitations during play, and HIGHLY RESPECT THE SAFE WORDS!
We play SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUALLY.
WE EXPECT DOMINANT CLIENTS WHO BOOK WITH SUBMISSIVE GIRLS TO HAVE THE SAME REGARD FOR OUR BOTTOMS, AND RESPECT THEIR INDIVIDUAL LIMITATIONS.
ALSO OUR FACILITY DOES NOT PROVIDE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
DO NOT ASK FOR IT - AND DO NOT OFFER EXTRA COMPENSATION!!
if any provider would like additional information - please PM me. I did not post a description or name, out of respect for his privacy although he had no respect for our sub.
PLEASE REMEMBER TO DISCUSS AND ESTABLISH SAFE WORDS AS WELL AS THE EXPECTATIONS BEFORE PLAYING!
Goddess Vanessa Payne
Head Mistress
