Verification

[Asiatico99]

Looked at the profile of one lovely lady on here. However she requires a copy of my ID or passport for a first appointment.

I understand why she would want to see it but I am not getting her passport details either. Just curious who here is comfortable sharing that kind of information ? I know Im not so will pass on this and others who request similar.

 

[Mr Deeds]

There is a limit to how much verification someone should ask for. I understand there are safety concerns and I respect that, however asking for passport is much. Id pass too

 

[farquhar]

Looked at the profile of one lovely lady on here. However she requires a copy of my ID or passport for a first appointment.

I understand why she would want to see it but I am not getting her passport details either. Just curious who here is comfortable sharing that kind of information ? I know Im not so will pass on this and others who request similar.

Here we go again!! opcorn:

 

[blueray]

Just curious who here is comfortable sharing that kind of information?

Far too many apparently.

 

[Grimnul]

Am I too late for the circlejerk?

 

[Ben19]

Some guys are and some (perhaps majority) aren’t comfortable . Lots of ladies to choose from so just find that has policies your comfortable with and move on. That’s it end of conversation. There are no rules for everyone to follow thats just silly its a free market pick what you want.

 

[squeezer]

Looked at the profile of one lovely lady on here. However she requires a copy of my ID or passport for a first appointment.

I understand why she would want to see it but I am not getting her passport details either. Just curious who here is comfortable sharing that kind of information ? I know Im not so will pass on this and others who request similar.

Don't do it and avoid at all cost. Lot's a better choices!

No deposits, NO PERSONAL INFO and be respectful when you do find the provider so it doesn't get ruined for the rest of us!

 

[luvyeah]

Send her a copy of your transcript to verify your GPA and ensure you are compatible.

 

[chodge]

Send her a copy of your transcript to verify your GPA and ensure you are compatible.

Verification that you have added her to your estate plan

 

[kbiii2]

This has been discussed many times. But when you meet someone anywhere in life and they want your name and other personal information, whether it ba a neighbor or someone in official capacity you have every right to expect and should demand the same in return. It's really just a matter of respect for another human being.

Sex workers want to be respected for their work, be decriminalized and so forth. I agree that all of society would be much better off if that was the norm. But to get there SW's have to be willing to put themselves on the line as well and provide the same information that they ask for. If you want to be accepted you can't hide behind a mask. No pain, no gain. If they won't provide their info., why provide yours?

 

[Jasmina]

False equivalency. You are not at risk of getting raped/assaulted/robbed if you do your homework. She is. Asking for screening IS her homework. You have the board and others websites to screen her.

This has been discussed many times. But when you meet someone anywhere in life and they want your name and other personal information, whether it ba a neighbor or someone in official capacity you have every right to expect and should demand the same in return. It's really just a matter of respect for another human being.

Sex workers want to be respected for their work, be decriminalized and so forth. I agree that all of society would be much better off if that was the norm. But to get there SW's have to be willing to put themselves on the line as well and provide the same information that they ask for. If you want to be accepted you can't hide behind a mask. No pain, no gain. If they won't provide their info., why provide yours?

 

[kbiii2]

False equivalency. You are not at risk of getting raped/assaulted/robbed if you do your homework. She is. Asking for screening IS her homework. You have the board and others websites to screen her.

Not about equivalency or screening. If I meet a stranger anywhere and they ask my name, I should expect the same from them. Just a matter of common respect between two people regardless of relationship basis.

As to screening the provider. If the provider is a new independent or works in the US the client may want personal information as well since screening information may not be available. The way I see it, the SW's only want it their way. The client may be at just as much risk from a pimp, boyfriend, provider herself or LE enforcement, etc. without screening information.

 

[doggystyle99]

2-11-2020 4:38 PM

Am I too late for the circlejerk?

No "Team Ben19" is always on time for their circlejerk, you always cum in minutes of one another. :applouse:


2-11-2020 4:52 PM

Some guys are and some (perhaps majority) aren’t comfortable . Lots of ladies to choose from so just find that has policies your comfortable with and move on. That’s it end of conversation. There are no rules for everyone to follow thats just silly its a free market pick what you want.

Ben19 up to your "Team Ben19" post above you everything about the discussion was civil and no member mentioned what other members should follow. Once again you and your "Team Ben19" is trying to hijack these threads by turning it into arguments and once again you'rer telling others what they should and should not have discussions on.

You and your "Team Ben19" are still trying to control the narrative of what people can or can't post on or discuss on this subject.
You and "Team Ben19" still haven't understood or learned what the MODS have told you in another thread about civil discussions, gang up mentality or telling others what they should or should not have discussions on.

 

[squeezer]

False equivalency. You are not at risk of getting raped/assaulted/robbed if you do your homework. She is. Asking for screening IS her homework. You have the board and others websites to screen her.

If one reads the venom spewed out by a provider on Twitter who other ladies cheer on it is obvious why we should never give our personal information. If a provider is now even insulted with a statement it seems to be grounds to out them to their family.

Some examples of the vitriol-

"Don't fuck with me. I will make you pay dearly. It's that simple."

"Let this serve as a further reminder to my ladies out there:

Slobbyists and trash clients are not scared to screen because of their "privacy", they just know they're pieces of shit and want to be able to get away with saying/doing whatever they want without consequences."

"Please realize this is about you Dr. Coconut & I intend to make you a live example of what happens to narcissists when they try to abuse SWs. You will never see a SW again. I will make sure of it. Let it serve as a lesson to anyone out there who thinks it okay to abuse others." This FOOL paid over $7000 in fees and a very expensive purse as a gift and no, I do not feel sorry for him one bit.

"You don't get to see SWs and negate something as simple as respect. If you can not behave like a decent human, you do not deserve to see a SW. It is as simple as that."

"I screen not only keep myself safe, but to hold people responsible for their actions. Keeping my community safe is #1. I am not one to be pushed around or be bought out with money. If you misbehave with me, I will make it my goal to make sure you NEVER see a sex worker again."

"LMAO all I'm reading is youre taking advantage of a poor provider for 3 or 4 years

I know ALL the real names of my clients like STFU you're no one special but a stupid shitty slobbyist go back to your boards pls stay quarantined there "

Every lady should be treated with respect as it does really improve your session and unfortunately, many clients don't get this simple concept but nevertheless many times a provider can get triggered over the slightest statement due to awkwardness and nerves on the part of the client and now your real-life info is in the hands of someone who believes you have done them wrong and you are square in the middle of the storm.

 

[Asiatico99]

Thanks all for the input. I get both sides, but I will not hand me ID over to a SW, no matter how hot she looks or how good the reviews are. I give my phone number, this already exposes me enough.

But there must be enough guys out there who share their details otherwise those ladies would go hungry.

Stay safe and enjoy y'all.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

If one reads the venom spewed out by a provider on Twitter who other ladies cheer on it is obvious why we should never give our personal information. If a provider is now even insulted with a statement it seems to be grounds to out them to their family.

Some examples of the vitriol-

"Don't fuck with me. I will make you pay dearly. It's that simple."

"Let this serve as a further reminder to my ladies out there:

Slobbyists and trash clients are not scared to screen because of their "privacy", they just know they're pieces of shit and want to be able to get away with saying/doing whatever they want without consequences."

"Please realize this is about you Dr. Coconut & I intend to make you a live example of what happens to narcissists when they try to abuse SWs. You will never see a SW again. I will make sure of it. Let it serve as a lesson to anyone out there who thinks it okay to abuse others." This FOOL paid over $7000 in fees and a very expensive purse as a gift and no, I do not feel sorry for him one bit.

"You don't get to see SWs and negate something as simple as respect. If you can not behave like a decent human, you do not deserve to see a SW. It is as simple as that."

"I screen not only keep myself safe, but to hold people responsible for their actions. Keeping my community safe is #1. I am not one to be pushed around or be bought out with money. If you misbehave with me, I will make it my goal to make sure you NEVER see a sex worker again."

"LMAO all I'm reading is youre taking advantage of a poor provider for 3 or 4 years

I know ALL the real names of my clients like STFU you're no one special but a stupid shitty slobbyist go back to your boards pls stay quarantined there "

Every lady should be treated with respect as it does really improve your session and unfortunately, many clients don't get this simple concept but nevertheless many times a provider can get triggered over the slightest statement due to awkwardness and nerves on the part of the client and now your real-life info is in the hands of someone who believes you have done them wrong and you are square in the middle of the storm.

I don't think I know any of the women you seem to follow. I also don't know the context in which these tweets are pulled form. There is a lot of talk of misbehaving which usually means pushing boundaries and talk of abuse. Without knowing the whole side, I can't comment.

For me personally, I prefer name, real phone number (which is exchanged for my real address for those who keep tit for tat count) Active SM account, SP reference. These are things equal to the client as well when screening me and my SM accounts and reviews.

I don't begrudge ladies and their screening, I don't begrudge men and their right to choose said screening or moving on to the next.

 

[Mr610]

I think the original question was a simple yes or no answer.....Mine is a big fat NO WAY
I understand why its being asked for I am just not comfortable in doing so "in this world"
Move on, see someone else

 

[Don Draper]

There is a limit to how much verification someone should ask for. I understand there are safety concerns and I respect that, however asking for passport is much. Id pass too

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[curr3n_c1000]

One of the reasons why I never see SPs.

You have to be really desperate to leave yourself that open for identity theft.

 

[Grimnul]

2-11-2020 4:38 PM


No "Team Ben19" is always on time for their circlejerk, you always cum in minutes of one another. :applouse:


2-11-2020 4:52 PM


Ben19 up to your "Team Ben19" post above you everything about the discussion was civil and no member mentioned what other members should follow. Once again you and your "Team Ben19" is trying to hijack these threads by turning it into arguments and once again you'rer telling others what they should and should not have discussions on.

You and your "Team Ben19" are still trying to control the narrative of what people can or can't post on or discuss on this subject.
You and "Team Ben19" still haven't understood or learned what the MODS have told you in another thread about civil discussions, gang up mentality or telling others what they should or should not have discussions on.

I’mma have to give this one a “cool story bro”.

There are no teams. I specifically told you when you messaged me repeatedly trying to convince me that Ben is literally Hitler or whatever the fuck you were on about that I wasn’t interested in picking sides. I told you if you were gonna force me to choose, I’d go with Ben simply because he isn’t trying to make me pick sides. I have no interest in this drama, if you’re gonna insist on trying to drag me into it, we’re gonna have a problem. I thought I was clear before, but evidently not. I don’t agree with you, you’re entitled to your opinion, but don’t put words in my mouth and don’t try to drag me into your bullshit. We can respectfully agree to disagree, or I can just put you on ignore and that’ll be the end of it. Up to you.