Valentine's Let Down

[Mrs_Stiffler]

Tonight I received a message asking if I was available tonight. Seeing as I didn't have any valentine plans, we chatted for a while and agreed to meet for a drink followed by some fun. I got dressed up in the black stockings, garters, short skirt and heels that he had requested and drove the 45 minutes to meet at the bar he had selected, for 11:30. The bar was no longer in business. I had his cell phone number and he had mine. I phoned 3 times between 11:30 and 12:30 and the call went directly to his voice mail each time as if he was either on the phone or had turned it off. So I gave up and took my frozen feet back home.

Now what would possess someone to do something like that? I mean, plans do change and I certainly understand. And if he had changed his mind, I understand that too. But what I don't understand is leaving someone sitting in a cold parking lot in February.

 

[tboy]

Sorry to hear that stiffy, that does suck when that happens. It has happened to me numerous times and it does make you feel like a POS.

As to why? I'd say its just someone being stupid. Not that this is about me or anything but if you thought that was bad, try flying to Florida and having that happen......

Not that it will make you feel any better but (((((HUGS)))))

Take Care!

 

[Mrs_Stiffler]

I'm feeling alright with it. I figure it was someone's idea of a joke. Not a particularly funny one either. Hopefully he will call to make his apologies tomorrow, but I'm not holding my breath.

 

[joebear]

Most people would be pissed. Your feeling alright with it ? You are in control of your emotions than most people.

 

[LeatherDoll]

Funny about Florida

Mrs_S:

So sorry that happened to you. You are one cool lady. I'd be fuming and likely crying. Assholes never cease to amaze me. The truly cruel who go out of their way to make a stranger miserable are beyond my comprehension. F*ker probably laughed himself silly while jerking off on this power trip. Make sure you add him to the Bad Client List.

Funny Tboy, I went to Florida to visit a university friend. Was supposed to stay with him for a week.

We went on an overnight trip to the ocean on the second night (a 1/2 day drive from his place).

He snuck out of the hotel room in the middle of the night. Foolish me, I woke up when he was leaving and asked him what he was doing. He said he was getting a drink. Never seen or heard from him again.

Another expensive error of judgment.

LD

 

[tboy]

LD: I think that might be what bothers us most, that we actually fell for their line(s). For me, it makes me start to question my judgement as I made a poor decision and didn't read the warning signs.

Mrs Stiffler, just think, it was his loss. Hell, if a woman ever dressed up in stockings, cfms and a mini for me, I'd just about bounce outta my skin.......

 

[hamermill]

Never get mad - get even. If you still have his cell number there are a number of faxback services you can call that will call his cell phone --- at all hours...

Hell hath no fury as a woman's scorn...

 

[tboy]

And if you have his email address sign him up for some spam!

Put that email on one porn site and he'll get 2000 emails a day

 

[mrpolarbear]

What a moron . who in there right mind passes up black stockings, garter belt and short skirt with no panties i presume. I would have drove from the Windy city for that one . I'ts always fun to party with a cheesehead fan.

 

[LeatherDoll]

Not the best approach

Now Now boys.

As tempting as revenge seems, if we change our focus to deal with the assholes, we step off our own path and on to theirs. Then they have truly triumphed by stopping us dead in our tracks, and gaining full attention for themselves.

I have come to realize that usually these folks interfere in order to divert and disrupt us because we threaten them by being different or making change.

I cannot think of anyone less deserving of my time and attention. I give it up to my faith that there just better be a "Karmic Debt Collector."

The best thing we can do is take comfort in the fact that this person has validated us through the recognition and exertion of energy to stop us. I must be doing something right.

KNOW that they are the ones that are losing out by depriving themselves of the opportunity to have shared our time and spirit.

Just keep on doing what you do best, being honest with yourself and living your life with personal integrity. It makes them nuts when you let them know their opinion isn't the one that matters to influence your decision making.

Just continue on being "More Than They Want Us To Be."

 

[xarir]

What an as*hole! I can't even see what the fun is in this stunt, unless he wanted to get even for some past wrong. Even so, there are more mature ways to deal with situations and this is clearly no one of them!

At least there is a bright side to this Mrs S - other than some wasted time you're otherwise OK. There are darker sides to this world after all.

LeatherDoll - that guy was a coward sneaking out like that! But at least you got a half day with him. I can't even get half a minute with my (former?) lady friend.