Understand Women, Is it possible??

[ontariomalelook]

I have been a lurker and have only posted a few times, but I am hoping that the terb membership will still help me out with this "problem"


I have been dumped recently, by a girl I went out with for about 8 months, after we broke up she started dating a guy about 3 weeks later. No big deal. She calls me and wants to get together because she still wants to be friends. I say fine, we get together and end up sleeping together, this happens for about 2 weeks, approx. 10 times I slept with her. So....she broke up with me and is now cheating on her new boyfriend with me. Fine, once in a life time thing, never happen again.

About a week ago I get an invitation from another ex girlfriend of mine, to come and say "goodbye" because she is moving to another part of the province to live with her new boyfriend. Well I just got home and that was the best sex I have had in a long time. LOL So again I helped an ex girlfriend cheat.


So, my question is, are all women like this?? Willing to cheat at the drop of a hat?? I know I know, I helped and am just as responsible, but I am not going out with anyone, I am single at the moment. So.... They were cheating, and I was just along for the ride. Are all women like this?? Just wondering. Has this every happened to anyone else??

Thanks for your help.

 

[papasmerf]

You thought maybe men cheat and women were faithful??????????????? Who do you think men are cheating with?

 

[Paul Waters]

So, my question is, are all women like this?? Willing to cheat at the drop of a hat??

Welcome to the "Booty Call"

Now that the girls have given it a name, it is legitimate. It is just a sex call, nothing more, so it is ok.

LOL

 

[Quirt]

As my dear father used to advise me:

"Son, you'll never understand women. Just enjoy them"

 

[rdhaired_vixen]

its also a safe conection with somebody they once had feelings for most women need that sense of intimacy .. so an ex is the best lover ... belive that
its intimacy and sex... ad enjoy it wont last becuase as soon as she kicks buddy to the curb he will be getting what you are

 

[Goober Mcfly]

*is glad he broke up with rdhaired_vixen*

 

[Back Burner]

My advice.............

Enjoy the ride, it won't last forever.

Back Burner

 

[DenWa]

Have the guys who claim that their wives have no interest in sex stopped to think that maybe their wives have no interest in sex with them...what do you think they're doing when you're at the TERB parties?

DW

 

[ontariomalelook]

I guess I didn't make myself clear enough....what I am wondering is.....say i get a girlfriend in the next little while, is she going to do this too? Is this something that most, some, a few women do?? Is it normal??

Believe me, I am enjoying the ride while it lasts, but my problem is like I said before, is this somethat that is normal??

 

[DenWa]

I think more women cheat than they would ever let on...funny thing about women - they can pass lie detector tests about infideltity because they always have an explanation as to why she fucked someone, and it's usually as a result of being pissed off with the guy she's with. At least when men cheat they know what the fuck they're doing...it doesn't stop them from doing it, but at least they know.

 

[CyberGoth]

women are overly complex, tho sometimes thats part of the fun!

besides, it makes me all warm and fuzzy inside when some lovely creature fones me up with a friendly...

"hey there tall dark and cyberpunk, wanna scream?"

 

[Fortunato]

I'm not sure if most women cheat, but I do know many more women who have cheated than men (more than a 3:1 ratio, I would say).

Not a conclusion or judgement, just an observation.

 

[Quirt]

Who what where when

I'm not sure if most women cheat, but I do know many more women who have cheated than men (more than a 3:1 ratio, I would say).

That must be quite a circle of friends that you hang with.

 

[Fortunato]

Re: Who what where when

That must be quite a circle of friends that you hang with.

Sadly, only one did it with me... and yes, she was an ex.

 

[banker9]

As my dear father used to advise me:

"Son, you'll never understand women. Just enjoy them"

No kidding, I don't think that they really understand us men either. They just tolerate us!

 

[banker9]

I don't think women cheat as much as us men do. Seriously, I think women are more prone to want to stay in and maintain a relationship rather than mess around. Us men, well me anyway can't stop myself from fantasizing and pursueing a sexy babe. Man slut?

 

[ford]

Us men can be ruthless in the hunt for new adventures! My wife doesn't even look at other men EVER. I'm always seeking out the ladies. I know I need a spanking! heheh Miranda?

 

[Quirt]

Re: IMHO

.perhaps it is not matter of "sex" per se; but, the astrological whatever it is......characteristics?

Hey there, you with the stars in your eyes...

 

[The Baroness]

Us men can be ruthless in the hunt for new adventures! My wife doesn't even look at other men EVER. I'm always seeking out the ladies. I know I need a spanking! heheh Miranda?

BEND OVER YOU BAD BOY!
lol

 

[Quirt]

On the other hand...

As far as this hobby goes, we're a fairly base lot.
Looking for/providing sex. One of the three world currencies, and one of the first two (some say the oldest...I think it's tied with power)

Not so much to understand really.