Turning away outcall cont'd

[hoeman]

Thanks to everyone who have responded to my previous posting. I think the problem with many of the Internet sites is that the facial portion of the SP is usually obscurred which makes making an informed choice all but impossible.

My first experience with an outcall from EC was a disaster. The pictures on the website for the "Playboy material" SP were obviously a misrepresentation. The face was covered up but when she showed she was completely opposite from what I expected. The website said she was 22; she readily admitted she was 25. Worse, when I opened the door a little she was ready to charge in.

Which is why I wanted to know if in the future I can just refuse at a door, pay a $100 or less cancellation fee, shut the door and not have to put up with a public scene. What I am most concerned is not about paying a cancellation fee, but unscruptulous SPs who exploit the awkwardness of the situation making a scene in the hotel premises.

P.S. It would be nice if some of the agencies would start posting full facial shots on the website. Without a facial impression, a picture is not very useful at all.

Thanks again to everyone.

 

[David_peza]

What planet did you came from?
It's very easy; just ask on the phone if the agency has a cancellation fee - that's it.
If they do - pay it.
If they don't - also give something as compensation for the girl & her driver to come all the way to your place (if you are not cheap).
And BTW usually girls won't put there faces in the web sits because the want to keep there privacy!
If "a picture is not very useful at all" than just open a paper and call whoever sounds good to you or from yellow pages.
Of course that I would be happy to see there faces but, you have to be realistic.

David p.

 

[Questor]

I think the problem with many of the Internet sites is that the facial portion of the SP is usually obscurred which makes making an informed choice all but impossible.

I see that this is only your second post. Perhaps you didn't realize that the ladies have family and friends that may not be aware of their activities. Our society still places a heavy stigma on people involved in the buying and selling of sex. Yes, in an ideal world, we could have all the information before making a choice. It would also be nice for the SP if she could get a little more information on the client. How would you feel about posting a full frontal shot up on the web so that your potential date could know beforehand what to expect?

Originally posted by hoeman
My first experience with an outcall from EC was a disaster. The pictures on the website for the "Playboy material" SP were obviously a misrepresentation. The face was covered up but when she showed she was completely opposite from what I expected. The website said she was 22; she readily admitted she was 25. Worse, when I opened the door a little she was ready to charge in.

Sorry to hear that you had a bad experience in what was likely one of your first forays into the hobby. Misrepresentation of age is very common. You're lucky it was only by 3 years. It becomes a little more problematic if when the misrepresentation is 10 or 15 years. As for being ready to charge in, it is a matter of discretion. Would you prefer that she strip in the hall just so that you know what you are getting before you let her in? You invited her, did you not? The least you can do is open the door so that she can enter.

Originally posted by hoeman
Which is why I wanted to know if in the future I can just refuse at a door, pay a $100 or less cancellation fee, shut the door and not have to put up with a public scene.

You want to negotiate a cancellation fee in the hall?? Man, you are the guy that's wanting to make a scene. Get real. Let her in first. Discuss details in the privacy of your hotel room. If you feel that there was misrepresentation, you should be able to work out a cancellation fee. A couple of years ago, EC had a cancellation fee of $40, if I remember correctly. If you are in fact new to the hobby, I am not surprized that you got sucked in by EC's web page. It is very well done and many of their ladies are very beautiful. But many regulars here on terb find them overpriced and very unreliable in terms of the service they provide.

Hopefully your experience will be a better one next time. There are some SPs that do show their face on the web. You might want to try one of them. Alternatively, you can do a little more research here on terb, get to know the tastes and standards of some of the posters. You will then be in a much better position to make an intelligent choice and avoid the embarrassment of negotiating a cancellation fee.

Welcome to terb.
Q.

 

[hoeman]

I'm not interested in a flame war, but as a consumer I demand to know and choose to accept what I am paying for. I'm not cheap; I'm willing to pay $2,000 per session with those fine beauties on sites such as exotica2000.com etc. but unfortunately prefer outcalls which are legal and closer to home in Canada

As for review boards, there is only so much you can describe someone without seeing a picture. There's no point in ranting how pretty or ugly someone is because each have our own taste and preferences.

Frankly, if I don't like the look of the SP I am more than willing to pay a cancellation fee but I'm not about to box myself in by inviting anyone inside for any negotiations. BTW, I did raise the issue of cancellation the first thing I called EC. I asked specifically how much I should pay the SP if things don't work out. Their response was "it has never happened at EC".

 

[Holden MacNeil]

There's no point in ranting how pretty or ugly someone is because each have our own taste and preferences.

Very true. I happen to find Gillian Anderson to be the sexiest woman alive. Others seem to find her not attractive. To each there own.

 

[drlove]

What I am most concerned is not about paying a cancellation fee, but unscruptulous SPs who exploit the awkwardness of the situation making a scene in the hotel premises.

Better than her making a scene in your building! LOL

I like to rent hotel rooms so I can check the ladies out first before having a session at my residence. That way, awkward and/or embarrassing situations (if they occur) are confined to a space where you are virtually anonymous.

 

[bucknaked2k2]

Who cares about the face

Who cares what her face really looks like. If the body is hot, that is all I need. I can look at pretty faces all day long, what I enjoy is watching her body, and a nice set of mammories bouncing up and down. That's all I need. She can have one eye and be buck toothed. As long as her body is perfect, I could care less.

 

[rdhaired_vixen]

honey

What your not understanding for one reason or another we as sp's also have friends and family and a life outside of what you consider is your hobby.
we have alot to lose if these people in our lives find out and for that reason alot of sp's blur their faces to give them the discretion and aninimity that you yourself would expect from us.. so pls dont get offended if they are blurred...
and in answer to who cares about the face...hon youd be suprised if shes hot and has the face of a bulldog you cant tel me you wouldnt care and alot of older gents prefer more of a gfe as opposed to just the romp..and thats what your talking about

rd_hrd_vixen@yahoo.com

 

[Snook.fr]

If they don't - also give something as compensation for the girl & her driver to come all the way to your place (if you are not cheap).
David p.

You are so wrong !!!!!
the issue here is not being cheap or not !!!!
If you have been fooled by an agency, then fine, compensate the girl what you think is fair and flame the fuckers at the agency.
but if the girl works independant, do not give her a cent as she lies to her customers (bait & Switch).

David, would you give compensation money if you book this stunning Tall black escort (indie) and this little blonde shows up?
(this is NOT about being Cheap)

Frenchy

 

[travel'nman]

discretion

As a married hobbiest, discretion is very important to me. I have no problem with an SP who does not show her face on the web. Not only do I think that it protects her privacy, it also protects my privacy. The next to the last thing in the world that I want when I hobby is to have some web surfer recognize a provider coming to my hotel room (I also hobby out of town) although I do recognize that someone who personally knows the SP may see her.

Travel'nman