Neylan advertises on LL as being a Latina from Toronto and in town for a few days. It was my first time with a TS and I said so beforehand, and I also said I was nervous. I have very little experience with SPs. I'm getting older, have lost some confidence with women and I wanted this experience. I can do myself at home without any difficulty and I thought having a professional help me work through my in-person difficulty seemed like a reasonable idea. So I booked an hour. Her photos are high quality and she looks just like her photos, but in contrast to her ad, was quite distant. The room was quite dark, with only the light from the TV, which was loudly playing gangster rap, and she wouldn't turn on a lamp or lower the volume. Once we got going, however, it was great, or at least definitely going good. She started with a BJ and I was digging it, started thinking this had been a good idea, and was really looking forward to the rest of the session. But after I was there only 15 minutes her phone started going off. It was amplified loudly through the TV. I found it quite distracting and when she then stopped to look at her phone, well I lost my mojo. She started up again but then the phone kept going off continuously and loudly. After I lost it a second time she abandoned me and completely focused on her phone. This eventuality was why I had retained her services. Someone who could bring the effort, help me work through the problem and boost my confidence. So I asked her if she could put the phone down and help me out. She flat out refused. Since only 25 minutes had gone by I felt entitled to a better effort on her part. I told her I was happy to be there, that she was very attrative, which is true. I said I was sure I could get it back if she could only put the phone away. She wouldn't look at me and said it was my fault. I was shocked, though I didn't say as much. But maybe I shouldn't have been? Anyway, I told her I was paying for service and that I went to see her to help me regain my confidence. I said I thought she could help me and asked her to please give it a try. I don't know, maybe I'm way out of line here but I am 100% sure if she had put the phone away and made the effort, and she did tell me in advance it was VIP service, that I could have left more than happy. But no. She actually started watching YouTube videos and completely ignored me with a half hour left. She wouldn't look at me or acknowledge me. I asked her if I should leave and she nodded vigorously without looking up. I was completely respectful the whole time, just like I always am, up to and including walking out the door. All in all, a tough lesson to learn at VIP prices. My idea of finding a therapeutic encounter with an SP in the cold light of day now seems unrealistic, as does my feeling that there should have been more effort on her part. I'm not looking for validation, I just wanted to get my thoughts out. I'm disappointed of course, but not bitter. I wanted the experience and I got it. To the extent it is helping me deal with my feelings and curiosity at this stage of my life, it was worth it. But as an encounter goes, it was a total fiasco. I have to conclude that my disappointment is my fault, because my expectations from a service provider were too high. Way too high. Lesson learned...
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That’s too bad she was like that. What did you pay? You can DM me if you want?
Four hundred. Blew the budget. So to speak.
No, it's cool, thanks, I appreciate it. Is there really empathy out there?
Don't give up! There is a good quality SP out there that will boost your confidence and respect you for the person you are.
My advice is to do a bit more research while you regain the funds to try again. Everyone has gone through similar experiences. You are not alone.
My advice is to do a bit more research while you regain the funds to try again. Everyone has gone through similar experiences. You are not alone.
Payment up-front is usually required. A long-time regular of mine still wants to get the cash before play. I had an agency (back when there were a few) send a young woman over one evening, and she did not ask for cash up-front. She said that this was her first experience as an escort. We started making out, and then she blurted out "I have a boyfriend". I said I don't mind. She said that she just couldn't continue and left without asking for a cent. I never saw an ad for her after that.
Trinity in Trenton won't take the donation until the end. She is confident that she will satisfy. It was always in her ad. Veteran confidence!
I dont really see SP's anymore. Only AMP's and Alpha. I've actually never been asked for a donation upfront at Alpha. My comment was more tongue in cheek but if providers always demand money from you upfront you probably just come across as sketchy.Sure. Please share their names
I have to disagree. Pretty much all sps here want the cash upfront.
I read the original post completely. It sounds like you were respectful, tactful. Not your problem. I have preconceived ideas of what this person must be like when you said dark room and gangster rap. Didn't sound vip to me.
Is this the same Neylan in the LL ad above?
