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jmckegg49

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She sounded genuinely irritated when I messaged her to inquire about her last night. Glad I dodged the bullet.
 
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AlexisPeterboro

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I'm not rude at all! Text messages can make people look like they're being mean but I am actually really nice lol. Sorry if I come off rude or not interested, I will admit I can get annoyed but I usually have good reasons. I'm not quite sure what golforge means but I don't think I meant to blow you off, what might have happened is you scheduled an appointment and maybe you didn't make it seem like it was a garentee so I didn't take you seriously and then when the time came I was actually busy. As for being "aggressive" and "irritated" you have never met me you are only going off a text which seems a little Ludacris to me haha I've had many clients tell me I am really nice and cool so it's weird to me that you are all thinking I'm something I'm not lol... sorry! Not trying to come off that way :p
 
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WildPartyForTwo

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Alexis. I think you might mean "a little ludicrous" instead of "a little Ludacris" unless you're somehow referring to the hip-hop artist / actor.

If there is feedback from 3 members that you're coming across as rude when texting and the health of your business is based on communicating through text messages with clients, you may want to get some more specific feedback so that you can act on it for the sole purpose of improving the perception potential clients have of you while interacting through text messages.
 
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AlexisPeterboro

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I'm well aware of what I do.
But I can't help it if people are going to take what I say over text message the wrong way.
Unless someone has met me they really don't know if I am rude.
And me spelling Ludacris the wrong way has nothing to do with this thread especially when spellcheck is in full effect lol.. I can't impress everyone so I will make things right at my best capabilities but I can't help what people want to say or post about me. I'm actually a really good person and I have no problem finding clients and I have lots of regulars, Me putting myself out there will get negative feedback and I understand not everyone is going to like me so all I can do is apologize but unless a client has met me I really can't get much feedback either than how I act over text message which I can't say I'm rude or anything. I guess maybe I will start being a little more humble or bubbly in my text messages so people don't get the wrong impression. Anyways sorry guys.... Have a good day :)
 
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Jeffrey93

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Some guys are just sensitive souls....I blame their mothers
 
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Alyosha

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I think I would take that as a sincere sorry. If I get a chance to go to Peterborough, I'll toftt and report back.
 
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AlexisPeterboro

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golforge said:
There's a great example..... is that a sincere sorry, or does the smiley emoticon mean you're being sarcastic? Could go either way.
BTW, I couldn't care less, so I'm not sure why you're apologizing. I just moved on to other women who aren't bitchy. I don't need the drama when I'm paying you for sex.
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If I was being sarcastic I would have made a peddy comment from the beginning.
In no way am I bitchy and I'm sorry you feel the need to think that,Like I have stated I can't do much else when someone has not met me either than apologize. There's no reason to be getting so upset here if you have moved on :p I'm trying to keep peace here.. I realize you're sensitive but you haven't met me so I don't really know what to say.. my text messages just aren't that bubbly I am straight forward it's a job which I love but doesn't mean I deserve to be told I'm something I'm not. You're going to have your opinion which I can't help but I'm just letting you know it shouldn't affect you because I was never trying to be rude to anybody I am just blunt and sometimes people don't understand my personailty especially over text message. Anyways this will be my last comment, it was good that you got that off your chest so sorry again :)
 
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Alexis

Your best course of action is to accept the criticism as being constructive and move on.

Your responses aren't helping with the original perception of this criticism and only does you more harm then good. Lashing out isn't good for business, nor is calling a good standing member of this community sensitive, when he has provided great intel on many ladies in the Peterpatch area.

You either learn from this or you don't.
 
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Jeffrey93

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I might visit her... She sounds kinda feisty
 
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jmckegg49

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Welp, I tried.

Took a week for schedules to align, but finally made an appointment last night. Was heading into town when I get a reply asking if I was still coming, but couldn't answer cause I was driving. Finally got to a stop where I asked for her address. I get a reply back saying if I "was going to cancel on her, at least tell her and not waste her time, nobody respects anybody anymore, take care". This was maybe 5 minutes after the first message. There's the attitude people are talking about. Needless to say, didn't go through with it. Didn't want to pay someone to yell at me for not immediately messaging back while driving.

If someone does actually end up seeing her (haven't seen an actual review of services yet), please let me know. I know she'll probably read/reply to this, but she does seem like she's trying to be nice, though I suspect she's either been cheated or cancelled on numerous times because there's an obvious temper and abruptness when she answers, and for a guy who's still very new to this hobby, it's kind of a turn off. Maybe that's just me.
 
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Mulva

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dirkd101 said:
Alexis

Your best course of action is to accept the criticism as being constructive and move on.

Your responses aren't helping with the original perception of this criticism and only does you more harm then good. Lashing out isn't good for business, nor is calling a good standing member of this community sensitive, when he has provided great intel on many ladies in the Peterpatch area.

You either learn from this or you don't.
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I don't see anywhere where she lashed out. He's obviously a little sensitive questioning if she was being sincere, simply because she attached a smiley face. Sheesh.

The most recent post here though, from someone attempting to see her, does suggests she should indeed take a breath before flipping off certain texts.
 
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Aceman123

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Tried to give this girl another chance but can't seem to get a hold of her. Doesn't respond to my texts. Maybe I'm blocked lol
 
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AlexisPeterboro

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Sorry just seen all this.
To start with jmckegg, you messaged me a specific time and you weren't punctual, I told you to message me before you were leaving and you never did, after not hearing from you for about a half hour I figured you backed out so I got annoyed because yes us SPS deal with consistent time wasters and you didn't message me until 10 min after we were supposed to meet. If you would have said you were going to be driving from out of town I would have understood but I am not a mind reader and I have other appointments that I have to keep and when someone is late /no show it really messes with my schedule so it was really just a misunderstanding, Could I have sent a more "nice" text absolutely! But it was late I was obviously tired and I apologize but I didn't insult you in anyway I thought it was the other way around but it doesn't bother me stuff happens and miscommunication can mess with plans that's all. So sorry again.
And Aceman123 I didn't know I was ignoring you but I don't have anyone blocked to be honest and I don't know your number so I wouldn't know if it was you texting anyways. If you're texting late at night I could have been sleeping, or if in the day I was most likely busy..Sorry if I am ignoring you it can be hard to keep up with everybody everyday I am new at this lol.I will keep an eye out for your text my suggestion is to text me your name or who it is so then I will know.
 
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