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Guy7

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These days there are some known SP's who offer very restrictive services, they are very pally till the time full tributes/donations exchange hands, once the tranaction is completed to the entire satisfaction of the concerned SP's her attitude towards her client suddenly changes, & she starts making fuses with lots "I dont do this, & I don't do that type of things" which really spoils the mood of the client. The general services which i mean is LFK, DFK, & Daty etc, nothing more than that:)
To safe guard the intrest of male clients, is it possible that first we handover 50% of tribute/donation prior to her offerings, and then clear the remaining 50% as agreed upon.
I it would not be out of place to state, that there are some very beautiful and good service offering SP's who do not even bother asking for tributes/donations prior to their confirmed date is over, one known SP who is getting very popular these days, does not even aks for the envelope, when the client is leaving after his delighful date leaves his envelope on her side table and she just gives a snesual smile with a hot DFK.
Some SP's visiting from other smaller town of West Ontario does not offer good services, and just want to take their clients with a surprise with their tantrums, Guy's its high time we should also safe-guard our hard-earned moeny from such SP's who are there just to make fool out of you by not offering few basic services, which i mentioned above
Everyone should think about it! or the SP should spell out prior what she can offer for the donation she is charging in hard-cash.
 
That's what this place is all about dude... I'm sure you'd be able to find all the info on a particular SP before giving her a call, go in prepared y'know?
 
Gawd said:
That`s what this place is all about dude... I`m sure you`d be able to find all the info on a particular SP before giving her a call, go in prepared y`know?
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you have to remember this guy pretty much posts asking sp to give discounts :rolleyes:

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=101678
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=101277
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=100024
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=99747
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=96687
 
It depends on the calibre of escort your working with. Some escorts accept payment at the completion of the session -- but an escort like that is probably going to check you out pretty well in advance too.

Other might be concerned about getting paid -- especially if they're not enormously selective, and take clients on a "no questions asked" basis. But that's reasonable. It's a trade-off.

But what's to prevent you from saying to an escort who has already accepted your money that you're not happy with the terms she's laid out, and that you'd just prefer to forget it? Why not ask her for the money back, possibly even offering to pay a small cancelation fee. (Not that it should be necessary in these circumstances, but some escorts have to pay drivers, etc.)

Why aren't escort clients better consumers? If someone takes your money and THEN drops a bunch of unreasonable restrictions on you, why not ask for your money back and leave?

A good escort is going to make her money on repeat business -- so there really isn't any point in taking a guy's money if, for whatever reason, you're not compatible with him. If an escort is taking your money, knowing full well that you're dissatisfied, then you know she isn't counting on your repeat business. What does that say about her?

In the end, though, it's up to customers to be good consumers. Just like in any other service transaction. Don't be a doormat.

..c..
 
Guy7 said:
These days there are some known SP's who offer very restrictive services, they are very pally till the time full tributes/donations exchange hands, once the tranaction is completed to the entire satisfaction of the concerned SP's her attitude towards her client suddenly changes, & she starts making fuses with lots "I dont do this, & I don't do that type of things" which really spoils the mood of the client. The general services which i mean is LFK, DFK, & Daty etc, nothing more than that:)
To safe guard the intrest of male clients, is it possible that first we handover 50% of tribute/donation prior to her offerings, and then clear the remaining 50% as agreed upon.
I it would not be out of place to state, that there are some very beautiful and good service offering SP's who do not even bother asking for tributes/donations prior to their confirmed date is over, one known SP who is getting very popular these days, does not even aks for the envelope, when the client is leaving after his delighful date leaves his envelope on her side table and she just gives a snesual smile with a hot DFK.
Some SP's visiting from other smaller town of West Ontario does not offer good services, and just want to take their clients with a surprise with their tantrums, Guy's its high time we should also safe-guard our hard-earned moeny from such SP's who are there just to make fool out of you by not offering few basic services, which i mentioned above
Everyone should think about it! or the SP should spell out prior what she can offer for the donation she is charging in hard-cash.
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I don't seem to have this problem.......hmmmm......hehe
 
If you spend a full session with her, you owe her for that time, whether the service is good or bad. Do your homework first if you're unsure of her menu or reviews.
 
Maybe I missed something, but it seemed to me that the customer recognized a problem as soon as he handed over the cash.

When that's the case -- when you pay someone -- and THEN they tell you what the deal is going to be (and it's not one you like) -- that would be the time to ask for your money back and walk away, in my view.

..c..
 
This Discount Larry sounds like he desperately wants to be a pimp when he grows up. You know...for the discount...and getting to tell sp's how to run their business. And the discount. Yeah. And I think he wants a discount. Did I say that yet?

How about we set up a nice place for um...frugal guys;

MONSTER BLOWOUT SUPER MEGA SALE at Shellfish Sheila's Twat Barn!!!!!!!! Free 52" projector TV with DATY!!!!You don't pay until 2007!!!!
 
Vancouver Femme Fatale said:
You don't pay until 2007!!!!
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And yet you'd still get some moron PMing you to ask if you could extend this to 2008....

SPs will stop feeling it necessary to ask for the donation up front when clients stop 'forgetting' to pay afterwards - or forgetting the quoted price.

I HATE having to ask for the donation. I despise/loathe/detest/insert euphamism here it. I really, really, really just want the client to nicely drop it on a side table so we can both forget it's there and get down to being nasty little lust monkeys.

But, no. It can't ever be that simple.

There will always be some guy who doesn't offer, even when our time is up, then wants to play Mr HagglePants about how much he has on him, making it necesary for me to act like the National Bank of Canada for the next poor schmuck I've never seen before, in case he pulls the same stunt.

So, yeah - I'm sure it sucks to pay an SP and then have her refuse to kiss you, but it also sucks to blow someone and then have them tell you they 'forgot' to go to the bank machine on their way over.

Morgan
 
Strongbeau said:
It is common etiquette to offer the entire donation, in a discreet envelope, before the encounter. No exceptions.

It has been my experience that, going in with this attitude (with no hint of haggling) almost always results in a consistently good attitude from the lady.
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Very true, probably the best thing one can do "other than the obvious", to increase their milage as well.
 
Strongbeau said:
It has been my experience that, going in with this attitude (with no hint of haggling) almost always results in a consistently good attitude from the lady.
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I like to call things like this 'indicators'. Dropping your envelope discreetly, without needing to be prompted? That's an indicator. Volunteering to wash your hands/use mouthwash/take a shower? That's an indicator. Being on time? Another indicator.

Indicators meaning.. they indicate that not only are you a gentleman, but you're considerate of me as an escort and person, of my time, and of my comfort level.

You want to talk about 'YMMV'?

Throw in a few indicators like these, and I can ensure you that any woman out there who can appreciate a decent client is suddenly going to feel comfortable enough to bring her 'A' game to her time with you.
 
Donation timing

With an incall, as soon as I have removed my shoes and coat (I like when the lady has a coat hanger ready and hangs it, as opposed to her telling you to put your clothes on a chair; but that's another story), I hand her an unsealed envelope containing the requested amount.

Some ladies just put the envelope on a table or desk, and do not open it until after I have left. That is confidence in her part, but perhaps generated by a trust she has gained in talking to me on the phone, or by my appearances. I like that scenario.

Some open the envelope right away to check the content. That's OK with me because they probably have been "burnt" in the past.

Some put the envelope somewhere, and while I am undressing or washing, or whatever, they find an excuse to disappear to, for what I know is the purpose of checking the content. I understand their reasons.

With an outcall, (hotel/motel) I usually have the envelope in evidence on the table, along with glasses (which I bring, not the hotel plastic cups) and with a selection of refreshments. I like to give the escort a feeling of welcome and of being treated with respect. I said "usually” because I remember one time when I forgot, and the escort left without asking for it. I realized it and called her on her cell phone. We laughed about it.

I believe that giving the donation at the beginning eases the atmosphere, and avoids the possible tension exerted on the lady who will be wondering whether she will get paid or not. After all, it is a business transaction. What is she to do if after the session, the client refuses to pay and bolts out?

I try to research the background of the lady beforehand (Thanks to TERB), so I have not had too many occasions to regret my donation.

If I have previously seen the lady, then we are more comfortable with each other. I give her a little token of appreciation, chocolates or candies for example. I may give her the envelope at the same time, or put it on the table, or give to her later. She knows she does not need to worry about it.

I am in full agreement with Morgan Ellis comments. Even so I always shower, use mouthwash and chew dentine prior to meeting a lady, I always ask to use her facilities to wash my hands, and use mouthwash if available. I also dress properly, in other words prepare myself as if I was going on a date. Is that not part of the fantasy for which we are paying?
In return, I expect the lady to be presentable, made up and well dressed (or undressed) as we may have agreed.
A little effort from both parties can lead to a more relaxed and pleasant encounter.
 
ronzodd said:
Likewise if the client is not clean, sober and as described otherwise the SP would be free to leave the money and go about her business.
And I am sure that you are also aware how difficult it would be to pry the money back from someone who is of such lacking scruples that they would take it in the first place if they did not intend to deliver on it (the real offer) and in other words that would be a thief or a contract breaker.. but being that the contract is not A STRICTLY LEGAL one there is no recourse for the client but to give bad reviews and lament as the prior writers in this thread have.
Such as SO's do about BAD clients too!!
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This sounds like a cut&paste from my last offer to buy a house.:p
 
Svend said:
If you spend a full session with her, you owe her for that time, whether the service is good or bad. Do your homework first if you're unsure of her menu or reviews.
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In SOME cases this is the reason I once had to argue with a man who ruined the whole session because he wanted those exact services dfk and daty and I told him I never decieved him that it clearly states on my web page and in my questions and I always make sure that men are aware of my services before giving out my contact info but this one man was pushy kept saying how he came to have fun. lol In the end with about 20 mins to go he finally got into it on my terms. :rolleyes: I guess he realy wanted ot get his rocks off after all. But in all honesty I think he did his homework but wanted to just be that way to see if he could get more.
 
I would agree with Alexa on all points, especially concerning the need for us to do some research on TERB.
If we check the reviews carefully we have a pretty good idea of what services to expect. Although it is true that YMMV, our attitude can make the services quite predictable with a well reviewed SP.
When we chose to TOFTT or see an unknown SP we should be sensible enough to know we are taking a chance and may not receive all of the services we had hoped. Live with the suspense that you created with your choice.
Paying a "deposit" of 50% is just tasteless and counterproductive. That and any other haggling are just a guaranty of an awkward session. How could anyone think that such an approach would be acceptable?
 
If someone actually pulled the "Here's 50% now, and the other half at the end of the session" on me, he would in fact, save some money.

All of it. I'd tell him he was an ingrate and leave.
 
Having read the posts here, I suspect I'm luckier (more blessed) than most SPs. I can't remember the last time someone tried to rip me off. People tend to be very fair with me (... and I with them!).

..c..
 
neverwas said:
I would agree with Alexa on all points, especially concerning the need for us to do some research on TERB.
If we check the reviews carefully we have a pretty good idea of what services to expect. Although it is true that YMMV, our attitude can make the services quite predictable with a well reviewed SP.
When we chose to TOFTT or see an unknown SP we should be sensible enough to know we are taking a chance and may not receive all of the services we had hoped. Live with the suspense that you created with your choice.
Paying a "deposit" of 50% is just tasteless and counterproductive. That and any other haggling are just a guaranty of an awkward session. How could anyone think that such an approach would be acceptable?
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Brainstorm:


Request a free-trial for 5 minutes. You can show her that you have the money and flash it infront of her, but put it back in your wallet and say you want to see if there is chemistry first and want the first five minutes free. Then you can ask what she is offering or not offering during that time.

Will this work?

I mean imagine this: knock, knock. She opens.

Hypothetical imaginary conversation:
"Hi, how are you?"

"Where is the money?"

"Now, hold the horses here a minute, I need to get to know you a bit first.
Let me come in, and let's have a chat for five minutes, where you can tell me about
yourself and what type of services you offer, and then I'll pay you. See (show the cash), I have the money, so relax. If this is not agreeable to you, then I'll have to go".

Any resistance, start leaving, she'll probably call you back anyway.

Need a reality test --- is this scenerio likely.
 
luv4lust said:
you have to remember this guy pretty much posts asking sp to give discounts :rolleyes:

https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=101678
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=101277
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=100024
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=99747
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=96687
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Smart guy, we should all learn to be good negotiators - guess nobody will go down to 25 cents. What about free love? Freebies for birthdays?
(just kidding)

Has anyone here given a freebie to anyone? Under what circumstances?
 
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