Total newb...few tips for a beginner?

[techcomm]

Hello,

This may seem like a weird request - Ive read through the forums and havent come across anything that would answer what Im looking for.

Im new to the area, interested in meeting a SP. Ive never seen one before, and..am not sure about the smart way to go about it. I think there are too many what ifs or something, hah. For some reason all I can imagine is meeting one and then all of sudden COPS burst in from the next room with the tv cameras and everything. Or what if, you get together, and the SP would act as if you are just meeting for a drink?

I dunno. Seems weird to ask, but hey - willing to learn from the pros. Help a guy out, I guess everyone has to start somewhere.

Backpage any good?

 

[STASH]

Hi
Welcome. Those are valid questions. You need to read these threads as they appear and pick a trusted lady. One who is reviewed and the majority opinion is she is reliable and knows how to please all customers.
There are a number of local ladies who fit this bill. I will let some others here suggest who.
These reliable tried and true SP's can be trusted and rarely are the cops ever involved.
NEVER get any girls off the street....there you will find cops.
Careful the good ladies are addictive LOL

 

[techcomm]

Hey Stash, thanks for the advice! (From one Stern fan to another, haha)

Yeah, I believe that...ideally Id want to meet one on the regular. As I said, its just a bit of hesitation because I havent ever seen one before. *shrugs*

Hm, from the way you worded that though, even with the reliable tried and true SPs, rarely are the cops involved?

 

[dj1470]

I all my years I have NEVER seen a cop.
That will be the least of your worries.
Getting ripped off by the SP is another matter - many stories of SP's running off with money, or stealing your stuff while you were in a shower or whatever.
My advice is see the lady of your choice - someone whose been vetted here like Sophia, Helena, Kandi, etc.
Never take your wallet or ID with you - just the cash and nothing else.
Good luck

 

[Peter123]

so in this scenario you imagine...the SP isn't really an SP---but just bait and the cops have a sting on, right? some problems with your scenario

-Likely entrapment
-not sure what law you would have broken--prostitution in of itself isn't illegal...you and her weren't in public communicating (that's the issue with street walkers--and why you get busted by cops posing as them), you, of course, weren't found in a bawdy house (since it is a fake one, not real)..you (or her-I assume an undercover cop) are not living off the avails...so not sure what the issue would be
-but biggest problem of all with your scenario is that you think for a moment the cops have the time, resources and inclination to set up such a scenario---advertise a fake SP, then get a couple of rooms, monitor them...etc..etc....really??

Just find a nice looking lady on NOW, Dutts, Backpages...give her a call....try to find one in either her own place or a decent hotel/motel...bring your cash (and I totally agree just cash)....and have some fun....but don't blame any of us when you are "addicted"

 

[CUTTERBUCK]

My advice is see the lady of your choice - someone whose been vetted here like Sophia, Helena, Kandi, etc.

I’d like to add Allisha Myst, KWMish, SexySophia, Kinky Nicole, Sharla and Jolee to that list.

Getting ripped off by the SP is another matter - many stories of SP's running off with money, or stealing your stuff while you were in a shower or whatever.

As dj mentioned, theft has become a nasty trend of late, but stick with the local favourites and theft isn’t an issue.

 

[techcomm]

Hey thats great guys, thanks. A guess a few follow up questions...

So, is that something that you do when theyre there? Have a shower? It would be one of those, 'goes without saying' things to show up clean, or not? Wouldnt that be expected? From both sides, that is..

Peter - yeah, I think Im just not as schooled on the actual law or not. And I agree, it seems like a lot for them to do, but I think it happens, or? So the communicating is fine, as long as its not public? i.e. phone, hotel room etc.? As for the entrapment, isnt that one of those things that doesnt really fly in court? Or a myth? (Like asking an undercover if theyre a cop and they have to tell you - pure hollywood).

The theft issue....at what point though would you never not have the other in your sight? Esp in an outcall? And when they ask what youd like...isnt that sort of a redundant question? Or is that the GFE/PSE, no this or that, is discussed?

Thanks again for the input. Sorry for all the questions, haha.

On a sidenote, Cutter who's in your sig?

 

[kenpachi]

I all my years I have NEVER seen a cop.
That will be the least of your worries.
Getting ripped off by the SP is another matter - many stories of SP's running off with money, or stealing your stuff while you were in a shower or whatever.
My advice is see the lady of your choice - someone whose been vetted here like Sophia, Helena, Kandi, etc.
Never take your wallet or ID with you - just the cash and nothing else.
Good luck

One evening I saw an ad on CL about an asian lady who looked hot and the price was very reasonable. I decided to go to the location and buzzed the number given from the lobby. I got no answer. I called and she said she will come down to open the door. I said ok. Waited 10 minutes and nothing. So I drove away. As I'm driving away from the parking lot, I saw 3 police crusers pulling in. One of the cruser turns around and pulls me over. Next thing I know, I have 3 police vehicle completely covering my car. The cops asks for my ID and phone? I think to myself, WTF? what does my phone have to do with anything? I do exactly what the cop tells me to do. After 15 minutes, the cop gives me all my stuff, and tells me to go.

 

[CUTTERBUCK]

Have a shower? It would be one of those, 'goes without saying' things to show up clean, or not? Wouldnt that be expected?

One would think that cleanliness would be a no brainer, unfortunately, from what I hear from the ladies, some clients would appear to disagree. I’m sure there are some lower end ladies out there who consider hygeine not a top priority. You can be 100% certain that any of the ladies that dj or myself recommended, hygeine is perfect.

On a sidenote, Cutter who's in your sig?

Hmm, an oft asked question, maybe it’s time to change the picture. The one on the left is current and on my recommended list, the one on the right is now unfortunately retired. God, they were HOT together :thumb:

 

[danzer26]

lol, reading your questions makes me feel I was so brave when I started this hobby a couple years ago. I just looked up online and called that girl to my hotel room...I have to say I was very lucky at the first time. After a few lessons, I have learned to think with my brain instead of my little head.

 

[CUTTERBUCK]

lol, reading your questions makes me feel I was so brave when I started this hobby a couple years ago. I just looked up online and called that girl to my hotel room...I have to say I was very lucky at the first time. After a few lessons, I have learned to think with my brain instead of my little head.

I’m sure many hobbiests had some “disapointments” before figuring out this hobby. Most figure it out, unfortunately, one or two are still having trouble in that area :wink:

 

[tk272]

my advice...turn back now.. this hobby will eat you up and make you poor...sooo many beautifull women out there and not enough money...lol

 

[ChaosTheory]

my advice...turn back now.. this hobby will eat you up and make you poor...sooo many beautifull women out there and not enough money...lol

I agree. There are also more disadvantages besides the addiction.

 

[Art Mann]

my advice...turn back now.. this hobby will eat you up and make you poor...sooo many beautifull women out there and not enough money...lol

That's just one part of the equation.

I agree. There are also more disadvantages besides the addiction.

The worst addiction of all is .... escort review boards like this one!

When I consider all the hours I've spent checking out guys bullshitting each other, with an occasional interruption by a lovely lady, I start thinking how much I could have been raking in had I only been focussing on billable hours instead.

Maybe this escort review board ain't heroin . . . but watch yourself there, techcomm.

Welcome to Hotel California.

 

[techcomm]

Interesting! - I can see how itd get pricey at times - but, youre not serious about the addiction, or? Yeah, I dunno, Im a young guy, single, cash to blow. I figure nows a good time to experience new things before wife and kids get in the way. I guess its a lot easier with a full wallet, no wife, own place.

I guess Im just trying to learn from experience, rather than go through the bad things on my own!! So I appreciate the advice. Im not down with the aforementioned disappointments!

I guess my next question is, how was your first time? (I'm sure there are other threads dedicated to this, but in the context of my original questions, and things to look out for, it could fit here?).

Also, has anyone met a SP through terb?

 

[Plain_Jane]

Welcome Techcomm,

Cutter and dj are offering sound advice regarding the ladies. Backpage can be hit and miss I am sure - hit when you select one of the more known/tried/true names and miss when you don't think with the head on your shoulders.

Enjoy and play safe and be sure to come back and pay us a visit and/or a post on this little board/community we all spend time with.

xo Jane

 

[peter4025]

Welcome on board. I would suggest you call well established agencies like cupids Mirage, Dream Makers.
I prefer to do outcalls, however it adds to your cost.
Now that you are a member remember you'll never be able to quit, is addictive

 

[dj1470]

Welcome on board. I would suggest you call well established agencies like cupids Mirage, Dream Makers.
I prefer to do outcalls, however it adds to your cost.
Now that you are a member remember you'll never be able to quit, is addictive

To get one of those major agencies you suggest to do an outcall to the KW area gets very pricey.
Upwards of 2 hour minimums and costing $400-500 per session
Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaany better local options out there

 

[trinbal]

Interesting! - I can see how itd get pricey at times - but, youre not serious about the addiction, or? Yeah, I dunno, Im a young guy, single, cash to blow. I figure nows a good time to experience new things before wife and kids get in the way. I guess its a lot easier with a full wallet, no wife, own place.

I guess Im just trying to learn from experience, rather than go through the bad things on my own!! So I appreciate the advice. Im not down with the aforementioned disappointments!

I guess my next question is, how was your first time? (I'm sure there are other threads dedicated to this, but in the context of my original questions, and things to look out for, it could fit here?).

Also, has anyone met a SP through terb?

my 2 cents.... i started this hobby prob 14-16yrs ago, like u i was single and with cash... now im married to a beautiful woman that i love and enjoy(8yrs), we are now trying to make a family.... but i still now and again venture out. this hobby is truely a addiction that has many pitfalls.... money, time, relationship destroyer are the major ones... but like any drug, moderation and balance is the key.... i have tried to quit but new pussy is hard to quit when its a phone call away... truthfully i have no regrets, i have met many beautiful women, a few skanks, and some crackheads, but all in all i had a great time, and prob continue in this hobby until my boy can not stand to attention anymore... i figure i have spent about 50k in this hobby over the years, which is not alot in comparison to others, but just remember once u start it is very hard to truly quit or retire from... btw welcome to the team

 

[CUTTERBUCK]

Also, has anyone met a SP through terb?

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