Tone of Adverts on BP

[morisato]

Anyone else notice the General tone of BP Ads has been changing from Come get my hot body to Fuck off scammers? I mean the things girls are posting now and pictures Turn me right off for example

A Particular favourite i have been seeing on BP its turn off even if its true, and The ladies now Posting things That are common sense like Don't Negotiate, Don;t ask for more pics, etc.. then the Title of the ad is Open Minded Hottie! or something rofl. Anyone else Notice this Gradual change from, Selling us to More Like Policing Customers expecting to get them even with what amounts to a rude ad?

 

[bolt.upright]

I hear you, but there's probably a good reason they feel they have to do that. Put the blame on some guys, I guess. It sucks for them, and for us (honest, upstanding guys) too.

 

[foxxxy lady]

Anyone else notice the General tone of BP Ads has been changing from Come get my hot body to Fuck off scammers? I mean the things girls are posting now and pictures Turn me right off for example

A Particular favourite i have been seeing on BP its turn off even if its true, and The ladies now Posting things That are common sense like Don't Negotiate, Don;t ask for more pics, etc.. then the Title of the ad is Open Minded Hottie! or something rofl. Anyone else Notice this Gradual change from, Selling us to More Like Policing Customers expecting to get them even with what amounts to a rude ad?

I agree it isn't very warm and friendly, but I get it

sincerely amber

 

[jen99]

Anyone else notice the General tone of BP Ads has been changing from Come get my hot body to Fuck off scammers? I mean the things girls are posting now and pictures Turn me right off for example

A Particular favourite i have been seeing on BP its turn off even if its true, and The ladies now Posting things That are common sense like Don't Negotiate, Don;t ask for more pics, etc.. then the Title of the ad is Open Minded Hottie! or something rofl. Anyone else Notice this Gradual change from, Selling us to More Like Policing Customers expecting to get them even with what amounts to a rude ad?[/

It's common sense for you but unfortunately not for everyone. If most guys had common sense she wouldn't have to " state the obvious" Her ad is blunt and straight to the point probably because she is tired of guys endless calls/ texts asking to negotiate her rates, for pics, face pics, more pics.... A lot guys want good service but want it for cheap. This ad helps her weed out the undesirables wasting her time. I don't find it rude probably cause I understand where shes coming from. To potential clients some will find it a turn but some will also get it.


A lot of guys do ask for more pics, face pics, bbfs, try to negotiate everything and anything, endless endless texts o


It is actually quite common. I totally get why her ad is written the way it is.I don't find it rude just very blunt.

 

[jen99]

Anyone else notice the General tone of BP Ads has been changing from Come get my hot body to Fuck off scammers? I mean the things girls are posting now and pictures Turn me right off for example

A Particular favourite i have been seeing on BP its turn off even if its true, and The ladies now Posting things That are common sense like Don't Negotiate, Don;t ask for more pics, etc.. then the Title of the ad is Open Minded Hottie! or something rofl. Anyone else Notice this Gradual change from, Selling us to More Like Policing Customers expecting to get them even with what amounts to a rude

Please don't assume every guy has common sense like you do. A lot
of guys ask for more pics, face pics, try to barter, want everything done to them under the sun for peanuts. The ad isn't rude in my opinion it is just blunt and straight to the point. Could she have written it differently? Maybe. She can weed out the undesirables from the get go. Any sp would understand where she's coming from. From a potential clients perspective you may find it a turn off but not every guy will.

 

[raspberries]

Does the body in the clipart picture match the sp's body? If not, isn't that false advertising?

 

[morisato]

I just feel it sets the wrong tone to start an appointment by I feel Like before i have even called her she expects me to be a Jerk, And that i am going to get the experience a jerk deserves. Regardless how sexy the gal is when i see that Picture and the Advertising that usually goes with it, I lose interest in the idea even. if she has Such low expectations of men, and her customers in general then, its going to be alot of effort for me to have a good time. The advertising while Sensible Is A Complete turnoff and Ruins the experience for me before it even starts.

 

[maxwellsmart]

I agree that there are many BP ads with terribly worded copy that turns me off. The particular one you site here, Morisato, is not one that particularly bugs me especially if the rest of the ad was worded more appropriately. I also don't expect much from independents, especially younger independents, who advertise on BP and if there is any hint of negativity in a BP ad I'll move on right away. Unfortunately, not all providers are as savvy, gorgeous and truly open-minded as Durham's Amber. (Damn, I have not been able to see her for a couple of years and I'm aching to but hopefully I'll rectify that soon.)

 

[Lily Divine]

I can tell you why the tone of the ads is changing. It is a large part of why I rarely (if ever) consider posting back page ads.

How about the guy who offers up 50$ to give him a quick "Brains" (and has bad, rotted out teeth i.e. crack user style - maybe a wide mouthed grin on your bbm pic is a fail?) and tries to sweeten the deal by offering to "hook you up with his neighbour from another floor" in his apartment building. When you politely decline he get's pissy that he stopped "texting with the next girl" to make time for you.

Combine them with the ones who will barter, haggle, etc... Because we all know I must need another game system, etc. that is "New in an unopened box", etc. Some special kinds of men at times!

I am so fortunate that the men I have the pleasure of seeing show me more respect than this, but I certainly have learned to be wary of certain types of communication and may seem a bit bitchy at times because of it. Then again most of them are not "citing" my ads on terb picking them apart either.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

I don't see anything wrong with the picture to be honest. It says plainly that the provider does not do these types of specials. The last line may not be needed, but I don't see the offence at all. Nothing about asking for more pics, etc. Simply put, No deals, specials, etc. Many guys don't seem to read the No Negotiation part of the ad {which to the OP, you say you have issue with as well} so stick it in a jpg and through it up like a pic. Cause we all know guys will look at the pics! Open minded in titles pertaining to service doesn't diminish the need to address the ever growing issue.

OP,

Can I ask why it is wrong to sell and state that rates are rates and they are not to be negotiated? How would you suggest handing the growing negative behaviors of first time contacts? I wouldn't call these men clients of these ladies for obvious reason.

 

[freespirit]

I do post on BP (something I thought I'd never do, but it's more economical for me than advertising on a board). My ads do not lead with this kind of wording but I DO post my rates and I DO say right afterward that my rates are NON-NEGOTIABLE. I also post my approximate location. I still get texts asking my location and rates constantly. Do guys not know how to read?? And yes, after several texts inquiring about my services, a guy WILL try to negotiate! It's very frustrating to waste time texting back and forth, answering questions that have already been answered in the ad only to have him try to get a lower rate. If my rate is too expensive for you, do not contact me, plain and simple.

That being said, I do see many lovely gentlemen who do not question my rate and get the service they deserve as a result.

I think I can speak for all providers when I say we are tired of time wasters and cheapskates.

 

[AndyQuest]

I don't get what the big deal is. I don't see the ad as being negative or have any specific bad tone. It provides information that says the girl doesn't offer $50 specials. That's all I read into it.

I'm not sure why we'd call the guys that look for discounts or $50 specials "scammers" or "cheepskates" like some have said. The main point is, some girls do offer $50 specials. Maybe instead of getting frustrated and resorting to name calling, the simpler solution is to point the callers to the girl that does the $50 special.

 

[freespirit]

I don't get what the big deal is. I don't see the ad as being negative or have any specific bad tone. It provides information that says the girl doesn't offer $50 specials. That's all I read into it.

I'm not sure why we'd call the guys that look for discounts or $50 specials "scammers" or "cheepskates" like some have said. The main point is, some girls do offer $50 specials. Maybe instead of getting frustrated and resorting to name calling, the simpler solution is to point the callers to the girl that does the $50 special.

OR ........If a guy is looking for a $50 special, then maybe he should only respond to the ads that offer this instead of wasting everyone's time. It's not my job to give guys links/numbers to girls who offer cheap services. They should be doing their own research.

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

OR ........If a guy is looking for a $50 special, then maybe he should only respond to the ads that offer this instead of wasting everyone's time. It's not my job to give guys links/numbers to girls who offer cheap services. They should be doing their own research.

That is very true. There are ladies that offer $50 rates/special. They clearly advertise. Guys who want those rates should seek those girls.