To Threesome or Not to Threesome, that is the question....

[TJ in the 'Peg]

I recently had an encounter with a lady where the topic of girl/girl action came up. She indicated that she preferred the company of a gentleman, but was not adverse to spending time with a woman. This of course lead to a discussion of a potential threesome.

So, here is my quandry, I haven't had a threesome before, and it is an interesting idea, but I have limited time, and funds. I can either

a) Have a threesome, perhaps 1 hour with 2 ladies, and another hour with my favourite, paying a total of 3 hours

b) Just stick with my favourite. I know you will have a great time, so spend the 3 hours just on her.

c) Ask her what she would like to do.... ???

You know, now that I think of it, this would make a good poll. I think I will post it as one, but please, feel free to give me your advise, especially those of you (LADIES TOO) who have partaken of the mysteries of a threesome.

 

[Jamm]

Options

I say go with option "a". You still get 2 hours with your favourite plus she's there to hold you if you get scared (grin).

How much is the price for 3 hrs?

Option (a) looks cool.

 

[TJ in the 'Peg]

Jamm

Price will likely be in the range of $650 - $700, plus room, plus 'treats' (Wine, fruit, flowers....) etc

It is close between option A and C. I am leaning towards option C, especially given Sheik's note....

TJ

 

[syn]

my views

threesomes work best when there some chemistry between the two girls ... there has to be a compatibility ... otherwise it can get awkward.

seriously ... if one girl is simply going thru the motions - it will more than likely be a let down.

if your regular sp agrees to a threesome ... make sure she is involved in the selection process.

syn

 

[TJ in the 'Peg]

Thanks Sheik/Syn - good advise, I will let you know how it all comes together (pun only partially intended...)

TJ

 

[ricflair]

threesome

Search Colette and Diane or see them on most escort adds

 

[Bud Plug]

A "must do" experience, but be prepared to be cured

Everyone needs to try this, but you won't want to do it again. It is a little awkward, despite what the porn films suggest. Without the benefit of a script, there needs to be some communication for everyone to be comfortable and be involved at once. Personally, I prefer not to run a session of sex like I'm a foreman on the loading dock! There's too much manoevering into position and talking in this sort of a session for my liking.

Give it a whirl if you haven't tried it before. Personally, I'd rather do multiple women on the same day than have another threesome.

 

[homonger]

Assuming some girl on girl action is part of what you are looking for, I would 100% agree with syn that having two girls who are compatible and better yet, attracted to each other, is critical to the success of the threesome. I also would say that you need at least 2 hours with both girls there, for it to be worthwhile.

I like the idea of a threesome, but I kind of agree with Bud Plug that although every one should experience it, it is never as great as you think it is going to be, and certainly not as great as in the porno movies.

I have found it distracting and a bit disorienting to have that other person there and wind up spending as much time thinking about getting everyone involved as I do on having a good time myself. I also find the quality of the sex itself is a bit compromised. When you are with one girl, you can give her your full attention and really get into what you are doing. With a threesome, your attention is divided, so the sex itself is just not as good.

What I do heartily recommend that every man try, however, is having two girls give you head at the same time. Two girls who enjoy giving bbbj is obviously best. The feeling of having one girl give you bls while the other sucks your tool is unbelievable. This is really is as good as it looks in the porno movies!

 

[Chivas Regal]

My 2 cents....

I have participated in 3 somes and 4 somes. Both are very cool. I find that the time with the SP'S was more of a porn situation, ie scripted. With good friends it is more relaxed and enjoyable. These sessions generally last hours and everyone, barring any jealousy is more than sated at the end of the night.

And Misty wouldn't you agree that a Bi curious girls first time is more awkward, but once she gets the hang of it......

 

[Kurt]

Shiek

I brought it up recently with a lass I've been seeing regularily and she jumped at the chance. Was treated to the time of my life with true 3 way sex....*sigh*

Shiek you are my Idol....

Can I be your apprentice?
Carry your baggage mop your brow?
Take over when little Shiek is tired...?

Or maybe you should teach us newbies how to hobby?

Again you are the King Long live Shiek!!!

Your Humble Servant Kurt

 

[train]

Since I had never done the 3 some thing before I arranged just such an evening in Montreal recently . My favourite lady was the inspiration as I knew she was turned on by someone that used to be a co-worker but had not had the opportunity . Partially as a favour to her and partially out of curiousity I arranged it . Both are high-end independents now so it was not difficult . I started out by letting them explore each other while I sat on the sidelines . There appeared to be genuine lust on the part of both which I benefited from shortly thereafter . There were moments of passion , affection and yes laughter . Is there anything funnier than a 110 lb girl with a 8'' strap-on ? Overall it was a very fun evening .I would recommend this to everyone to try at least once in your life but I'm a bit ambivalent about repeating ....at least for awhile . And you most certainly have to have the two right girls which I did .

 

[TJ in the 'Peg]

Thanks

Okay, I think I will go with option 3. From what everyone has said, it can be great, but only if things are right, so I should definitely check with my favourite first...

TJ

 

[shepherd]

Not enough options in the poll

A three way is my great fantasy, and my favourite lady (my wife) is well aware of this. For a MAJOR birthday, she agreed!!!

I have no desire for penetrative sex with someone else - just "fooling around", so we were fortunate in finding an accommodating outcall masseuse. My wife is very straight, so I was the center of attention. We were very fortunate with the choice of the masseuse, and it is safe to say that realization was certainly as good as anticipation.

Now I am trying to persaude my wife for a repeat, perhaps with a more glamorous masseuse.

shepherd

 

[TJ in the 'Peg]

I think you were very fortunate in finding such an accomodating wife....

TJ

 

[Harley]

Been there, done that...hehehe... would love to do it again, but the girls must know each other, and get along.
Thumbs up to Misty.

 

[Dorm201]

the heck??...

So... a very short while ago... I'm out with my SP turned good friend. We're out drinking, clubbing and hanging out, when the night turns late. Things get a bit frisky on the dance floor, and with "that look" in her eye (mirrored by mine I'm sure), she suggests we try and find a room somewhere.

Her cell phone has been ringing off the hook constantly all evening (yes, all you guys kept calling her, sorry that I took up her whole evening )... and as we're cruising around trying to find a "fun" hotel, she phones up one of her female friends seeing if she wanted to join us. I'm thinking... "whaaaaat???".

Luckily (or unluckily as some of you guys would see it), her friend wasn't up to going out that night, and just me and her had fun in the hotel for the rest of the night. What is it with the fascination with 3 somes though? I've been told I'm a good lover, but I can't imagine being able to keep two women happy, it takes all my attention to just please one usually.

I gotta admit, I think I'm in way over my head with this SP turned "friend and quite a bit more".