Tips on talking to hotties

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Sam Rothstein

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Hello fellow terbites, I find myself single again and rusty on the dating. I am always comfortable with sps and conversation but for some reason hitting the parties have left me nervous and less confident than I used to be in my younger years.
I have done all sorts of google searches and there are some tips on various sites. Most of these sites are intros to books on the art of speaking to the opposite sex.would anyone have something they would recommend?
I know it's a matter of practicing morebut I have a hard time talking to the hotter women, if I am not interested in them it seems like less of a problem.
 
Confidence.
 
Taking care of yourself and being confident (but not overconfident) will be a nice start. Talk about subjects that women will find interesting. You have a lot of guts and moxy to come on here and ask for advice and I tip my hat to you my friend. All the best.
 
If you "practise" on the "not so hot" women, you'll gain more confidence and may discover that they aren't so bad themselves.

However, if you are totally attracted to someone, it IS difficult to go up and chat regardless of how confident you are. Compliaments always work. If you know something about her (like she's your friend's sister's friend) you can walk up, introduce yourself and explain how you know her.

Example: "Hi, my name is Twinkle, aren't you Bill's sister's friend Rob? I think I may have met you briefly at their bbq last summer" If they say "no, I don't think so, I wasn't at the bbq" then you can add, "well I'm sure we have met before, but that doesn't matter how have you been..." then carry on.

Or the old compliament "Hi, my name is Twinkle. I just wanted to let you know that your hair looks fantastic. How do you get it to hold like that? Is it a pomade or a gel?" you've compliamented, showed interest, and asked a question to which she will reply and you can start a convo.

I'm sure people on here will disagree, but it's just my opinion. Good luck.
 
Take Mr. Draper's Advice

Step 1:
When in doubt, remain absolutely silent.

Step 2:
When asked about your past give vague, open ended answers.

Step 3:
Have a great name.

Step 4:
Look fantastic in a suit
Looks fantastic in casual wear
Look fantastic in anything
Sound good
Smell good
Kiss good
Strut around with supreme confidence
Be uncannily successful at your job
Blow people away everytime you say anything
Take six hour lunches
Disappear for weeks at a time
Lie to everyone about everything
Drink and smoke constantly
…basically be Don Draper

The Ultimate TERBITE!

http://4pdy.com/video/id_c81387f702f1e1a6.html

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But seriously:

Do Look Good

Do Smell Good

Compliment her on something she's wearing or said

Stay away from Religion and Politics as conversation topics (until you know each other better)

Listen more. Speak Less. Be a tad mysterious.

Remember it is YOU who will decide if YOU want to sleep with Her.

If you ain't got confidence, you got NUTHIN!

Now, go out and conquer!!!
 
Dude, I dont claim to be an expert on women but I know this much:

Upon first meeting you a woman has usually within a millisecond made up her mind whether she finds you attractive or not, or whether she'll ever want to sleep with you. She can also tell within a second or 2 on your bodylanguage and the twinkle in your eyes if you're coming on to her or not. Women have a 6th sense for that! Try all the tricks in the book and whatever pickup line you want, but women know exactly what you're after, thats get in their pants


Or something to that effect, fuck it......I need another beer

Cheers!!!!
 
The more attractive a lady the more insecure she is likely to be.

Think back to high school and you will recall the cheerleader type loved being on a pedestal. This is where you learned to be scared of them. Remembering this you need to visualize the fact they still need to wipe their ass and spend more than a reasonable amount of time doing make-up. They are people just like you but they feel best when they think others think they are pretty.

Treat them like thay are normal people. They are not made of glass.
 
Sam Rothstein said:
You mean like dumb and dumber, saw the movie this afternoon and they seem to be much worse around chicks than I.
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Yeah...probably not a good idea to blurt out that you want to make love to a schoolboy, lol.:D
 
Buddy and I were at a club. Talking to a couple of hotties. Buddy asks the girl for a dance, she declines. Buddy says, then a blow job is out of the question, she smacks him. This happens about 4 times this night! I say to him, that approach talking to girls, you must get smacked a lot? He laughed, but I also get blown a lot too! Lol
 
eldoguy said:
Buddy and I were at a club. Talking to a couple of hotties. Buddy asks the girl for a dance, she declines. Buddy says, then a blow job is out of the question, she smacks him. This happens about 4 times this night! I say to him, that approach talking to girls, you must get smacked a lot? He laughed, but I also get blown a lot too! Lol
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Head to the clubs about an hour before closing. Be awake and sober. Those same girls who have been blowing you off are still alone, drunk and needy. One drink and you are in.
 
Sam, your post is ironic because I would have thought that your experience with SPs would have given you all you need to be confident with hotties. They're just girls. If a hottie is hard to get, it's because she knows she's hot and has lots of options. And young hotties... well... you can date them but don't plan on marrying unless you're ok with her cheating, because it's bound to happen. Young hot girls can't help but bounce through life and get all the perks for as long as they're hot.

I'm fucking a sizzling hot 20 year old on and off right now. If you're into hot blonde spinners, she's literally a 10/10. She has a wannabe very minor celeb boyfriend that lives at the other end of the country.
 
Twinklegirl said:
If you "practise" on the "not so hot" women, you'll gain more confidence and may discover that they aren't so bad themselves.
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Sure, like you said here, they are "not so hot"/average Jane type women and some of them are not too bad themselves, while others think they're hot, even though they remind me of pork belly :rolleyes:

Hotties, regardless of their color (maybe blonde in particular) OTOH are simply bullies with attractive faces and boobies!! Knowing that there're no shortages of horny guys drooling on them and having the "gifts" to decipher guys intention in millisecond, they feel they have a "license" to bully the guys by crushing guys balls and getting away with it. "Nice guys" are easy prey cuz for these Hotties since those guys, though sound lack of confidence or "desperate" are honest, while for the bad boys type the hotties usually do not push the limit for fear of getting backfire physically.

Oh yeah, you will get double the fun/hurt if the hottie is an alpha female and totally a "princess".

Twinklegirl said:
However, if you are totally attracted to someone, it IS difficult to go up and chat regardless of how confident you are. Compliaments always work. If you know something about her (like she's your friend's sister's friend) you can walk up, introduce yourself and explain how you know her.

Example: "Hi, my name is Twinkle, aren't you Bill's sister's friend Rob? I think I may have met you briefly at their bbq last summer" If they say "no, I don't think so, I wasn't at the bbq" then you can add, "well I'm sure we have met before, but that doesn't matter how have you been..." then carry on.
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You'll get her attention if the hottie was brought up to be nice. Otherwise, it makes no difference.

Twinklegirl said:
Or the old compliament "Hi, my name is Twinkle. I just wanted to let you know that your hair looks fantastic. How do you get it to hold like that? Is it a pomade or a gel?" you've compliamented, showed interest, and asked a question to which she will reply and you can start a convo.
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I would not be surprised the "hottie" will respond "whatever" in kind before you can start a convo. Be careful though, when she says "whatever" she could really mean "f**k off" in woman speak.

Meanwhile if the "hottie" is a dude and those who initate the talking are gals, many gals will repeat those identical "mistakes" the guys make to hotties. The irony is gals who made those "mistakes" are considered "innocent" and "victims", while guys would be seen as "losers"!!

BTW, for those hotties working as SPs/MPAs, they probably act no different in civilian life, except when the "nice guy" hitting on her is a hobbyist, she will act nice just to make sure his continuous patronage. She probably value QEII more than the guy himself.
 
Lmao

"So now I'm praying for the end of time to hurry up and arrive. Cause if I have to spend another minute with you, I dont think that I can even survive"

-Meatloaf 1978

Just because she's physically attractive doesn't mean that she wont eventually make you yearn for sweet death.

These so-called "hotties" are used to being fawned over and tend to be self-absorbed and excruciatingly boring when engaged in conversation. Don't drool over them, act like you dont give a shit. Your indifference will fire her insecurity and she may end up persuing you.

Personally I don't understand why you would want a hottie? Unless she's all access, you're better off with a woman who's modest and sensible.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2XuEnNiMF4&feature=related
 
hinz said:
Sure, like you said here, they are "not so hot"/average Jane type women and some of them are not too bad themselves, while others think they're hot, even though they remind me of pork belly :rolleyes:

Hotties, regardless of their color (maybe blonde in particular) OTOH are simply bullies with attractive faces and boobies!! Knowing that there're no shortages of horny guys drooling on them and having the "gifts" to decipher guys intention in millisecond, they feel they have a "license" to bully the guys by crushing guys balls and getting away with it. "Nice guys" are easy prey cuz for these Hotties since those guys, though sound lack of confidence or "desperate" are honest, while for the bad boys type the hotties usually do not push the limit for fear of getting backfire physically.

Oh yeah, you will get double the fun/hurt if the hottie is an alpha female and totally a "princess".


You'll get her attention if the hottie was brought up to be nice. Otherwise, it makes no difference.



I would not be surprised the "hottie" will respond "whatever" in kind before you can start a convo. Be careful though, when she says "whatever" she could really mean "f**k off" in woman speak.

Meanwhile if the "hottie" is a dude and those who initate the talking are gals, many gals will repeat those identical "mistakes" the guys make to hotties. The irony is gals who made those "mistakes" are considered "innocent" and "victims", while guys would be seen as "losers"!!

BTW, for those hotties working as SPs/MPAs, they probably act no different in civilian life, except when the "nice guy" hitting on her is a hobbyist, she will act nice just to make sure his continuous patronage. She probably value QEII more than the guy himself.
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If this is how she is, then she's a bi*ch and doesn't deserve you. It's not highschool anymore.
 
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