None of those 3 have given me any pleasure unless you count the rectal exam that I got from my Dr and the ass whopping from my lawyer.
Tipping?
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Tipping....huh. So, there was a time when the 'tip' was just paying the mp for more than giving the massage. Those days are LONG gone. Most mp are very upfront with the costs of anything more than a massage, and rightfully so. In regards to sp's? You spend your money how you think best. That being said, if you have that kind of money lying around you can send it my way, I'm as close to a charity as you can get. I ASSUME most of the women I sleep with have deep karma debts to pay and are working off their sins from their past lives by getting under me. I mean, sure, I 'pay' them, but I see myself naked daily and there's not enough money in the world to justify it. The International Criminal Court has condemned my physique as a war crime. I've had providers ask about a tip. Every time, they are ex-strippers who reckon they're still in the Champagne Room. There is this mindset of pay me, pay me, pay me, that runs hand in hand with that part of the industry. It doesn't sit well with me. Fortunately, I have the uncanny ability to produce flatulence upon command, so making a quick exit isn't always that hard.
I tip people who are making close to minimum wage. Why should I tip someone who it getting more per hour than me?It's hard for me to tip given that I'm on the poor side and they all make more money than me
Also the dentist, lawyer, doctor comparison is often used and they also don't receive any gratuities.
Though I will tip an MA/SP if she provided exceptional service.
Personally, I don't see MAs but I can see it's perhaps a bit of different setup/expectation.
The SPs i see i never tip, the donation is set, and aside from few small gifts, like for a birthday, I haven't tipped.
I'm in the same boat as @tastingyou above, I tend to see regulars, the relationship is appreciated, and the few k a year should be satisfactory....
Also from a safety standpoint, I don't bring my valet, just phone, donation in envelope, and car keys... I park few blocks away, in public if possible
Twice in Gatineau: attempting to TOFTT, once I got redirected to a close by address that looked all weird/wrong, there was tinted window SUV that followed me away for a good hundred feet or so, before it got too public, before they f'd off...
The 2nd time walked to a hotel, there was a random tinted suv again, idling, the SP started acting weird, asking where I am, close by (I walked up to a bar by then), gimme 5 min, time went by, texted again, gimme me 5 min... I blocked the number after 30 min and walked away. Could have been nothing, but didn't want to take the chance...
So yeah.... robbing doesn't just happen with a dude coming out of the bathroom...
The SPs i see i never tip, the donation is set, and aside from few small gifts, like for a birthday, I haven't tipped.
I'm in the same boat as @tastingyou above, I tend to see regulars, the relationship is appreciated, and the few k a year should be satisfactory....
Also from a safety standpoint, I don't bring my valet, just phone, donation in envelope, and car keys... I park few blocks away, in public if possible
Twice in Gatineau: attempting to TOFTT, once I got redirected to a close by address that looked all weird/wrong, there was tinted window SUV that followed me away for a good hundred feet or so, before it got too public, before they f'd off...
The 2nd time walked to a hotel, there was a random tinted suv again, idling, the SP started acting weird, asking where I am, close by (I walked up to a bar by then), gimme 5 min, time went by, texted again, gimme me 5 min... I blocked the number after 30 min and walked away. Could have been nothing, but didn't want to take the chance...
So yeah.... robbing doesn't just happen with a dude coming out of the bathroom...
Been doing this hobby for a very long time, and along the way I have learnt some lessons.
During the first few years, I was always tipping very generously with the hopes that I would get better treatment next time.
And then I stopped tipping for a while. Across all the providers that I was seeing.
And the result was still the same: the great providers always gave an excellent experience and tried to enjoy every minute… while the bad providers were always greedy, constantly complaining, never happy and always putting minimal effort (even when you tip them generously).
So, in the end, it is still the same shit… if you tip or don’t. Just being honest.
This does not mean that I do not tip anymore. I do. But only when I really want to. Not because of an obligation, but because of free will. When I feel like a girl deserves it, and is going over and beyond to provide an excellent service.
During the first few years, I was always tipping very generously with the hopes that I would get better treatment next time.
And then I stopped tipping for a while. Across all the providers that I was seeing.
And the result was still the same: the great providers always gave an excellent experience and tried to enjoy every minute… while the bad providers were always greedy, constantly complaining, never happy and always putting minimal effort (even when you tip them generously).
So, in the end, it is still the same shit… if you tip or don’t. Just being honest.
This does not mean that I do not tip anymore. I do. But only when I really want to. Not because of an obligation, but because of free will. When I feel like a girl deserves it, and is going over and beyond to provide an excellent service.
I was pretty happy when my lawyer got me out of spousal support to my ex so there are moments of pleasure for some!
From what I've been told, you're wrong in many way. It all depends on SPA's. And all extras are set by the ladies because I have been offered extras with differents prices in the same SPA so if it was set by the SPA, all ladies there should set the same price no ?
… I am not wrong. It depends on the spa and in some the cap is higher. They can offer lower than the cap if they choose. Hence the difference in prices being offered. There are ladies that charge above what they’re allowed but would have repercussions if found out by management.
I always thought that "tipping" and "upcharge" were synonymous in this industry. If I didnt work out any "extras" then there was no tip. If I did, then there is a tip. Guess I have been quite naive.
If I truly enjoyed myself, then I would repeat with the lady. With some, this means I pay them a lot of money over time as I hobby rather frequently and prefer to see ladies with whom I know we click. I once visited Lacey from AT/PS 6x in 5 weeks. Isnt that better than a tip? I certainly wouldnt be able to play as much if I had to pay more each time.
If I truly enjoyed myself, then I would repeat with the lady. With some, this means I pay them a lot of money over time as I hobby rather frequently and prefer to see ladies with whom I know we click. I once visited Lacey from AT/PS 6x in 5 weeks. Isnt that better than a tip? I certainly wouldnt be able to play as much if I had to pay more each time.
Repeats tend to be better than tipping most lady enjoy that more because they get to know you and they can let their guards down
Just an update a couple of years later. I now see only one indy SP and visit several spa girls on a 2 to 3 week regular rotation , by appointment. . Most of them I have been seeing for a year or more - so 15- 20 visits a year allowing for time away. The spa girls are all in 1-2 lady f/s Asian spas mostly in central Toronto or Scarborough . All my regulars are 45 years old or more and I prefer spinners.. None say they are very busy , so they are not high volume. . They are all very reliable, have terrific hygiene , have reasonably broad menus , are friendly , and always are very happy to see me. None of them ever seems to have a bad day and they are never in a rush and are patient . Of course I am the perfect client , lol, and not because of my sexual talents , although I do have a pretty good tongue. My sweet spot is 45 minutes , all in is $160 max. I DO NOT TIP. But I do remember Christmas or Chinese New Years with gifts.
If you are an Asian MILF SPINNER I might have an opening.
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Often developing a regular relationship results in a more balance cost per session.
If you want to dollar cost average down, you become a regular.
Many don't require or focus on tipping. They prefer seeing a familiar face and being able to just relax knowing that you're not a random nut job with some weird violence kink. That counts for something, and it's more valuable than a tip.
I'll tip, but not much and not as a regular thing. Basically, $20 or less. Just a little goodwill token, so to speak. Buys her a few coffees at Starbucks.
I tip the MAs I see regularly an extra 100-200. The rest I don’t tip.
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I can understand why AN EXPECTATION to tip would leave a bad taste in a client’s mouth 
. Even at a restaurant where tipping is the norm and I like to be generous, I don’t appreciate AN ATTITUDE—it inclines me to tip less than I would 
That being said when your lady allows you to run overtime, you arrive late, she makes some exceptions to policies, goes above and beyond to organize, reschedule or accommodate, delivers unexpected treats, rocks your world or is just always consistently awesome and it’s her birthday—it’s a nice gesture that will only bring more good energy back to you. IT’S NOT EXPECTED but does show YOU APPRECIATE these extras and keeps you on her VIP list which is where I think we want to be with someone we click with. And there are other ways to tip! I have clients who watch my cats, drive me to the airport and fix broken crap for me! Thank you!!
I think we are in essence trying to add value to one another’s lives and so it makes sense that we each become more generous with ourselves when we build trust, feel fulfilled and respected.
For myself, I appreciate a tip to SEX WORKER PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT FUND which I’m currently offering some perks back as a thank you in complimentary time. I know some other ladies offering the same. This Fund supports SWs in need of a small bridge in their PD towards building a new capacity or exiting the industry to spread their wings:
pdfund.ca
And another way to help and tip the industry is to give to CORA run by the delightful Daisy Mae:
sswork.org
Tips AREN’T EXPECTED but absolutely NOTICED and APPRECIATED whether monetary, dates with spa treatments, foot rubs or candy bars
Girls loved to be spoiled for sure, are honoured by your generosity and I’ve noticed you guys love to be spoiled right back! 
. Even at a restaurant where tipping is the norm and I like to be generous, I don’t appreciate AN ATTITUDE—it inclines me to tip less than I would That being said when your lady allows you to run overtime, you arrive late, she makes some exceptions to policies, goes above and beyond to organize, reschedule or accommodate, delivers unexpected treats, rocks your world or is just always consistently awesome and it’s her birthday—it’s a nice gesture that will only bring more good energy back to you. IT’S NOT EXPECTED but does show YOU APPRECIATE these extras and keeps you on her VIP list which is where I think we want to be with someone we click with. And there are other ways to tip! I have clients who watch my cats, drive me to the airport and fix broken crap for me! Thank you!!
I think we are in essence trying to add value to one another’s lives and so it makes sense that we each become more generous with ourselves when we build trust, feel fulfilled and respected.
For myself, I appreciate a tip to SEX WORKER PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT FUND which I’m currently offering some perks back as a thank you in complimentary time. I know some other ladies offering the same. This Fund supports SWs in need of a small bridge in their PD towards building a new capacity or exiting the industry to spread their wings:
SWPDF – For Canadian Sex Workers
pdfund.ca
And another way to help and tip the industry is to give to CORA run by the delightful Daisy Mae:
CORA'S Community, Outreach, Resources, Advocacy for Sex Workers
Reducing Stigma and Empowering the Community
sswork.org
Tips AREN’T EXPECTED but absolutely NOTICED and APPRECIATED whether monetary, dates with spa treatments, foot rubs or candy bars
Girls loved to be spoiled for sure, are honoured by your generosity and I’ve noticed you guys love to be spoiled right back! 
