Ok, so I have a stupid question...or comment, which ever-
I am downtown, this elderly woman who looked like she'd break in half if the wind blew the wrong way... is LOADING her own groceries into an awaiting taxi, while the guy sat inside the car, twiddling his thumbs... for all I know.
So, I of course... offer a hand.
Now, sure I could have been like everyone else and minded my own business but COULDN'T believe for a second someone or ANYONE didn't help, especially the driver.
So now, here I am- offering an hand and this bugger gets out of the car and STANDS there and watches us, then offers... like I over stepped a boundry, but by that point we had all the bags, half of which she already did herself- in the trunk. And says to her... "I could have helped, why didn't you ask???"
So... my question is, is it a no brainer being a taxi driver, especially with the elderly to OFFER instead of being asked OR does someone have to TIP before or is it expected as a common courtesy without anything being given???
Now, not being the elderly woman or knowing if she WOULD have tipped... does that decifer his actions... or conclude perhaps maybe money talks???
Do you think 'tips' dictate service.... or should the service dictate the tip.
I myself, think he should have helped her in any case... especially when she had the majority done and struggled long before I even came into the picture, which re affirms he had no intention until I did, to offer at any rate.
So, I gave him a twenty- winked at her... and walked away, keeping my own thoughts to myself, when I would have ran up one side of him; and down the other-had I not been in her presence.
What would have done?
Why even up until now, has this even crossed my mind???
Perhaps this is ONE situation, or many factors including a dumbass who has no thought or comprehension of the situation, which would be a waste of breath to even bother with in the first place.... and yes, I've come into many taxi drivers who aren't fighting over who's in line first, honking-cursing or driving like a maniac....and tip, regardless
But I also think about ANY time I've taken a taxi and ALWAYS tip and think just once, all that I've paid for no reason other then feeling it's well mannered, court and polite would be returned in one way or another... like with this woman. The karma thing...do onto others as you'd wish yourself. But it doesn't happen and if it does, not often enough.
Your thoughts?