Tipping an Independent Escort

[jazzpig]

Is it expected to tip an independent SP?
I'm a pretty generous tipper across the board but I don't tip business owners
because they get full pop.
I've only used an independent SP once before, and I didn't tip her afterwards.
She didn't act funny or anything, but she was pretty cool, we had a good time, and I've always wondered if I handled it properly.
Looking at booking another independent and don't want to feel awkward.

 

[Mr. Lucky]

All goes down to service and experience! Many can live in upscale condos those you can tip! But if you're going to some cheap apartment for a quicky which only cost $60 then maybe no! and please watch out if you even consider going to creepy places

 

[MindJohn]

Is it expected to tip an independent SP?
I'm a pretty generous tipper across the board but I don't tip business owners
because they get full pop.
I've only used an independent SP once before, and I didn't tip her afterwards.
She didn't act funny or anything, but she was pretty cool, we had a good time, and I've always wondered if I handled it properly.
Looking at booking another independent and don't want to feel awkward.

I fully agree with your instincts. Tipping is done mainly to workers whose superiors are raking in the bulk of the fees charged.

Of course this all flies directly in the face of the old custom of just handing money or gifts to beautiful women just because they are attractive. If suddenly you are overcome by that urge, then it supercedes the idea of not tipping someone who effectively runs their own business and should charge what she wants in order to earn her targeted income.

A working girl can alter her rates fairly quickly to suit supply and financial needs as well, where it is something of an undertaking for somebody to change the menu at Denny's or the like.

Finally, where tipping or, rather, not tipping has evolved to be a blatant slap in the face relating to poor service, it just isn't a fair interpretation by an attractive woman with whom the customer, minutes earlier, seemed to want to have sex.

 

[freespirit]

I don't believe tipping is expected, but of course always appreciated. I never go into an appointment expecting a tip. The times I HAVE received a tip, I was pleasantly surprised and very appreciative. I do not take NOT receiving a tip as a comment on poor service because well.....................

 

[domino1]

I usually do if they come outcall service and provide a good service

 

[massman]

Good escorts never actually expect tips but rather, are very thankful when people show their appreciation in that way. Aside from the monetary "thanks for a wonderful time", a pleasant text message or email after the fact is also a wonderful way to show that you walked away happy! The same can be said for a review, a gift of flowers, chocolate, wine, a nice gift card, kiss goodbye with a compliment, etc. If you run into a girl who demands a tip or shows that she's unhappy that she didn't get one (assuming you didn't ask for additional time and services), you can safely say that she isn't a very nice SP. Re: tipping agency vs indy girls, I don't see why it should matter (unless you think the "boss" will be taking the tip away from the girl).

Jazzpig, don't sweat it! I'm sure she was flattered that you chose to book her in the first place and didn't even think twice about you not tipping! If you are compelled to tip after an awesome time, just go for it - nothing bad comes from doing so!

Alona. You are one cool chick.

 

[massman]

Is it expected to tip an independent SP?
I'm a pretty generous tipper across the board but I don't tip business owners
because they get full pop.
I've only used an independent SP once before, and I didn't tip her afterwards.
She didn't act funny or anything, but she was pretty cool, we had a good time, and I've always wondered if I handled it properly.
Looking at booking another independent and don't want to feel awkward.

Do what feels right and you will be fine.

But a agree with the others. In an Indy situation, they get 100% (tho need to cover overhead) so its not like some minimum wage waitress at the keg. At the keg, you pay for the meal, and a minimal amount for the "service" with an escort you are paying for the service. quite a bit.
This is a situation in which i feel a tip is needed if truly you want to because you had a great time. Not like in restaurants where out of obligation because the employer, in an effort to keep their prices down, pay people an unliiveable wage and guilt the customer into paying the balance.

 

[massman]

No need to blush (to I'd love to see that) just you have a great attitude to sex, escorting and life in general. Love to meet you someday.

 

[d_jedi]

a pleasant text message or email after the fact is also a wonderful way to show that you walked away happy!

I like to do this. I'm glad to know it's appreciated

 

[rex_baner]

Tip the next time you see them. Once you give the envelope, you dont see it again. If you get a mind blowing experience, you will likely see her again and this time you give more than expected because of how great the service was last time. I really doubt they will remember, but at least you are letting them know they did a great job.

 

[mickmasterson]

(For clarity - by "tip" I mean a completely discretionary sum, above her agreed rate, given as a show of appreciation.)

Related question . . .

If the client tips on the first visit, does the lady expect the same tip on repeat visits? Will she feel slighted if the tip is not paid on repeat visits?

 

[great bear]

The Bear generally has a five hour outcall. Some times I will tip an agency girl but rarely tip an independent.

 

[Bobzilla]

Good escorts never actually expect tips but rather, are very thankful when people show their appreciation in that way. Aside from the monetary "thanks for a wonderful time", a pleasant text message or email after the fact is also a wonderful way to show that you walked away happy! The same can be said for a review, a gift of flowers, chocolate, wine, a nice gift card, kiss goodbye with a compliment, etc. If you run into a girl who demands a tip or shows that she's unhappy that she didn't get one (assuming you didn't ask for additional time and services), you can safely say that she isn't a very nice SP. Re: tipping agency vs indy girls, I don't see why it should matter (unless you think the "boss" will be taking the tip away from the girl).

Jazzpig, don't sweat it! I'm sure she was flattered that you chose to book her in the first place and didn't even think twice about you not tipping! If you are compelled to tip after an awesome time, just go for it - nothing bad comes from doing so!

Gawdamn!! Alona, you have such a great attitude! I normally prefer to book bustier girls, but I'm thinking I have to see you one of these days. Refreshing to meet someone who seems so sincere.

 

[Rockslinger]

Keep the tip under $2,000 per session. Anything more might make the lady uncomfortable. And no stunning $2,000 leather jacket, please.

 

[krazyplayer]

It's the agency girls who do not make as much who I like to tip. That is the part the agency can't touch. The high-end girls already make a lot. Of course I would tip them too if the service warrants it.

 

[thumper18474]

I think it all depends on the situation...sure agency girls don't get the full wad...but they don't have the overhead Indy would have ...six one/ half dozen of the other...
regardless I'm a 20-50% tipper.
With who I see...I know I'm not gonna be disappointed with the visit..so deciding on whether to tip is moot!

 

[jazzpig]

Thanks for the feedback everyone.
I think the verdict is just rely on gut feeling rather than a set rule.
The reason I feel different about this than any paying for any other service, is that it's not just any other service.
Maybe it is to some, and maybe the majority of SPs are pure mercenaries, but my sessions, as infrequent as they are, are always fantasic on every level,
and for that I always feel grateful.

 

[Kailani]

Tips

I truly believe, with any service industry, any generosity of the consumers/customers/clients are always greatly appreciated. However, just like any other business, biggest tip you can receive is the "repeat" businesses

 

[Kailani]

A tip is expected in industries like food / beverage service because the wage is lower than mainstream. Our wage is not. I recently was told a story by a client who went to an agency incall to see a young lady, at the end of the appointment as he was leaving she held her hand out and said "tip?" ... he said his jaw dropped. Soooo not cool. Not sure if she's still employed. Tips are never expected, but always appreciated.

Oh no, that's not right at all..

 

[Curious36]

If the session was amazing and you intend on seeing her again, I think tipping is a great idea. My reasoning behind this is due to the fact that all women have amazing memory (If you have ever been married or in a long term relationship you will know this) and the next visit will probably reflect your generosity regarding the first......and so it goes....