Love the attitude honestly, I'm on Tiny royal's side in this, and 420 provider is just a huge++++, this guys kinda lost
Tiny Royal - wasn’t bad lol wasn’t good
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Thank you. I am a realist and I've been on both sides of most coins in life, so to speak. If I haven't, I still make an attempt to look at things from multiple perspectives. Combine that with abductive and deductive reasoning, logic, insight, and a healthy dose of reality, you get level-headed lol
no surprise seeing you here.Lord help me. Trying so hard to bite my tongue
Say whatever you want! You’re one of my favs lol always clean and giving amazing serviceI couldn’t let you miss me too much
Very simple solution to all of this bickering back and fourth. Heres something most don't do but wish they did
If you don't like what you see in terms of looks of the lady or the setup/ building etc. Then leave. It's really that simple.
The problem is we men get to the spot after a drive and wait for the call up so when you get in the place you take the attitude " I'm here already might as well stay"
That's a no-no. Get in your car and make another call or go home and watch pornhub
I've walked out of hotels, apts , and parlours etc
It's your hard earned money, be selective on how you want to spend it.
If you don't like what you see in terms of looks of the lady or the setup/ building etc. Then leave. It's really that simple.
The problem is we men get to the spot after a drive and wait for the call up so when you get in the place you take the attitude " I'm here already might as well stay"
That's a no-no. Get in your car and make another call or go home and watch pornhub
I've walked out of hotels, apts , and parlours etc
It's your hard earned money, be selective on how you want to spend it.
Great advice! As with everything easier said than done. Specially if you are TOFFT & seeing SP with limited/no information on the TERB.
I agree with everything you said. Which imo is what LP should've done in that situation. The downside is once money has been handed over, walking out is tough to do. Cause you're not getting it back. But if you can walk out before you hand over the money, then by all means.
Personally, I try not to walk out on an SP if I can. I have walked a few times but I can count on one hand how many times I've done it. The only times I have has been on very obvious bait & switch scenarios before I handed over the money.
Also, I wasn't looking to bicker. That's what it turned into because people didn't read the start of the thread before commenting. I stated my opinion, very clearly mind you, and I stand by it. I didn't say anything offensive or obscene. Nor did I say anything rude or disrespectful.
I simply stated what the term "upscale provider" used to mean and should still mean and what using that term sets the expectations of for the client. More importantly, I pointed out that the experience LP had was not what the vast majority of us would consider to be "upscale' and therefore, in my opinion, she should not be using that term to market herself until she has herself in a better situation that fits that description more accurately.
Would you or most of us, after setting up a session with an "upscale provider" who is charging upscale prices ($200/hh +) to find out upon arrival that it's in a known druggie building in a bad part of town on a fold out couch in a room that wreaks of pot and cigarette smoke with paraphernalia strewn about, consider that to be "upscale"?
I wouldn't. That's all I was saying.
I'm sure TinyRoyal is a lovely young woman and has the right intentions on what kind of provider she wants to be in this industry. However, by the sounds of it, it sounds to me like she needs to get herself in a better situation is all. That's okay. I'm not knocking anyone who has seen her and had a good time or anyone who continues to see her. I'm not even knocking her personally. I don't know her, never met her, so I can't judge. Hell, I'm not someone who should be judging anyways. Hope that clears up the "bickering".
I took this review as a criticism, so I made decisions I am no longer working in Durham. I’m working in North York at spa since my house is crack house now. Everyone is more than welcome to see me at Taboo Massage in north York but this is a notice for everyone. Please don’t harass my phone. Ask me if I’m gonna be in Durham, anymore. I will not be in a city where I’m not wanted,
Sweetheart I understand how upsetting it is when someone criticizes you on a review, its very hard to read hurtful things but it seems you have lots of positives in this negative review and dont let anyone chase you away. not my business and its very hard to write things on terb because there is always someone waiting to push you when you already feel down but dont you give up EVER. Maybe try to change some of the things that you can to improve your business , just some minor details can make a difference. You cannot control some things but in the areas that you can you can fix them up. I have had some bad things written about me and i understand it is hard but You can take this and better the situation in the areas that you can.contol. Keep your chin up. You have made clients happy as I can see on here and with some minor changes you can grow your business. You dont need to go somewhere else unless its your choice. Do not let people bully you away. You can blossom,
we all made mistakes and we can grow through them. If you want you can pm or text me. I am not perfect no one is but I can try to ge helpful where I can be. No one gave me a book on how to be a good escort but I have had a few supportive women whom I can trust. I had to learn the hard way so many times in so many areas. I am still learning .
Xo
Amber aka Jessica Rabbit
The Redhead nymph
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I think the issue that some have is a debate/discussion about what is or isn’t “upscale” should maybe have been left for an actual discussion thread and not personally in someone's review, especially when you were not the one to have seen her. If the OP wanted to put in his review what he felt about her advertising methods, that would have been a different story.
I hope you understand what I'm saying. There is a place for debate/discussion about an overall general topic and a review may just not have been the place.
@Tiny_royal3
There is always room to learn and grow and while I know this review that moved on to a discussion was hard for you, as it would be for anyone, take the feedback you can change, that you want to change and let it make you an even better, stronger and more resilient provider.
I think the issue that some have is a debate/discussion about what is or isn’t “upscale” should maybe have been left for an actual discussion thread and not personally in someone's review, especially when you were not the one to have seen her. If the OP wanted to put in his review what he felt about her advertising methods, that would have been a different story.
I hope you understand what I'm saying. There is a place for debate/discussion about an overall general topic and a review may just not have been the place.
@Tiny_royal3
There is always room to learn and grow and while I know this review that moved on to a discussion was hard for you, as it would be for anyone, take the feedback you can change, that you want to change and let it make you an even better, stronger and more resilient provider.
Sweetheart I understand how upsetting it is when someone criticizes you on a review, its very hard to read hurtful things but it seems you have lots of positives in this negative review and dont let anyone chase you away. not my business and its very hard to write things on terb because there is always someone waiting to push you when you already feel down but dont you give up EVER. Maybe try to change some of the things that you can to improve your business , just some minor details can make a difference. You cannot control some things but in the areas that you can you can fix them up. I have had some bad things written about me and i understand it is hard but You can take this and better the situation in the areas that you can.contol. Keep your chin up. You have made clients happy as I can see on here and with some minor changes you can grow your business. You dont need to go somewhere else unless its your choice. Do not let people bully you away. You can blossom,
Xo
Amber aka Jessica Rabbit
The Redhead nymph
I wasn't looking to bully anyone. As the latter half of Amber's comment here says, it was meant to be taken as constructive criticism. Constructive criticism that was based on what the OP said in his review It wasn't meant to turn into a discussion/debate either.
So, to @Tiny_royal3 I do apologize for the conversation and the things I said making you feel that way. That was not my intention.
In this industry, people will have positive feedback, negative feedback, and constructive criticism. It is not personal, that is just the nature of this industry. As a musician, I know what it's like to have to swallow those pills when it's about what I love doing. It's tough. But you learn to take them and use them to positively effect what it is you do, whatever that may be.
I hope between me, Amber, and Jenesis that this all helps.
"Go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated"
Reviews are always harsh. There's a grain of truth, but usually it's taken too far.
You might have humble beginnings and people might have some opinions about it but we all had to start somewhere. My first apartment had a grocery store sign for a wall and a dirt floor, and my shower didnt work. Things always get better. I moved up over time and now I live in a beautiful spot I never dreamed at 18 I'd end up living at. I wouldn't let people come here and ruin it for me
it's my peace and my sanctuary and it's a priveledge to let people into my life and my home.
Working out of a spa is better. You get to have more privacy and people are more respectful. You don't make as much money, but it's worth it to keep your private space private. Money is great but those clients can be crazy. The longer you do it, the more crazies you pick up. I had a few show up unnanounced, leave weird notes in my mailbox talking about god and stalk me by parking outside of my house and driving past me when i was outside all slow. Its creepy. Most people are great... but then you get a couple weirdos and it's enough. What i got was tame compared to some women. We all know someone with horror stories. Like the lady back home that had her face cut open with a box cutter by a guy who was obsessed with her.
Spas are safer
I wish you the best in your new endeavor. I think you'll like it a lot more there.
Your private space should be your private space. We all need our space to get comfortable and messy and fall apart in without it being critiqued and put all over the internet.
I think it's stupid to go to a prostitute and expect everything to be perfect. Real people are messy and have flaws. No one is perfect.
When I meet a person I want to know the nitty gritty, i don't want some filtered fake customer service version of them and a perfectly manicured place no one clearly enjoys. I don't know.I just think it's weird.
I walk into a lot of places where everything is perfectly in its place and I feel sad for them. Like they have never really lived if they're main concerns are a few things being out of place. I also walk into places that are the complete opposite. maybe those people are living a bit too much
Reviews are always harsh. There's a grain of truth, but usually it's taken too far.
You might have humble beginnings and people might have some opinions about it but we all had to start somewhere. My first apartment had a grocery store sign for a wall and a dirt floor, and my shower didnt work. Things always get better. I moved up over time and now I live in a beautiful spot I never dreamed at 18 I'd end up living at. I wouldn't let people come here and ruin it for me
it's my peace and my sanctuary and it's a priveledge to let people into my life and my home.Working out of a spa is better. You get to have more privacy and people are more respectful. You don't make as much money, but it's worth it to keep your private space private. Money is great but those clients can be crazy. The longer you do it, the more crazies you pick up. I had a few show up unnanounced, leave weird notes in my mailbox talking about god and stalk me by parking outside of my house and driving past me when i was outside all slow. Its creepy. Most people are great... but then you get a couple weirdos and it's enough. What i got was tame compared to some women. We all know someone with horror stories. Like the lady back home that had her face cut open with a box cutter by a guy who was obsessed with her.
Spas are safer
I wish you the best in your new endeavor. I think you'll like it a lot more there.Your private space should be your private space. We all need our space to get comfortable and messy and fall apart in without it being critiqued and put all over the internet.
I think it's stupid to go to a prostitute and expect everything to be perfect. Real people are messy and have flaws. No one is perfect.
When I meet a person I want to know the nitty gritty, i don't want some filtered fake customer service version of them and a perfectly manicured place no one clearly enjoys. I don't know.I just think it's weird.
I walk into a lot of places where everything is perfectly in its place and I feel sad for them. Like they have never really lived if they're main concerns are a few things being out of place. I also walk into places that are the complete opposite. maybe those people are living a bit too much
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I’m not paying money for flaws and bullshit, I’m paying money to have great service and fake it as much as you can. If I wanted raw and real with all the flaws then that’s what dating apps and relationships are for.
Why are keeping a conversation going under a review .which out the four, I have
so I find it very funny. You’re still going on when everything have been dis credited considering a next review member seen me just a few days after this review, but like I said, I no longer work in Durham so you can keep fighting with yourselves you guys been commenting on this review for last few week . Notice I stop responding to everyone is because I’m no longer in Durham. Meaning it’s not my problem whatever happens out there ,
I don’t wanna hear crying about being scammed.
I don’t wanna hear crying about some next bullshit because I’m just gonna remind you guys you have zero respect for me as you choose to have a whole conversation and discussion under my review,
so I find it very funny. You’re still going on when everything have been dis credited considering a next review member seen me just a few days after this review, but like I said, I no longer work in Durham so you can keep fighting with yourselves you guys been commenting on this review for last few week . Notice I stop responding to everyone is because I’m no longer in Durham. Meaning it’s not my problem whatever happens out there ,
I don’t wanna hear crying about being scammed.
I don’t wanna hear crying about some next bullshit because I’m just gonna remind you guys you have zero respect for me as you choose to have a whole conversation and discussion under my review,
You were not bullying anyone, man , just stating facts..
Lots of SP`s out there , that are reasonable, clean etc.. I actually drive to another city to see an SP if she is not working in Durham.. whats 20 buck is gas for good service
I don’t think he was “bullying” and I hope my post didn’t come across as calling him that. I just think this went from a review to what should have maybe been a topic of discussion in a separate more generic thread. So @RebelinBed I hope I didn’t offend with my post. I certainly wasn’t meaning to.
I'm not so easily offended by these conversations lol You're good hun. I was just referencing what Amber had said in her response "Don't let people bully you away", that's all.
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