I have to agree with this, but at the same time, they have to understand that your not just going say "can I book on this date and time confirm this right now"? They're getting absorbents amount of money once the date is booked, so I mean they have to exercise some patience and customer service skills. If it's this endless back and forth shit, I get it but especially when their ads are clear or they don't mention certain things.
Ok but at the same time you have to understand that many guys ( I mean soooo many) book like that. They are ready to book right away. They don’t need questions answered. So you come across a time waster and I can see why. I get that you are not but I can see why some think you are.
Also Telling a girl you want a regular doesn’t matter. We hear that enough, we don’t bother listening anymore because a lot of times it is a bullshit poly to get cheaper rates. The whole “not looking for full service” smells like a rate lowering tactic as well. I’m not trying to piss you off but if you contacted me with those things, I wouldn’t bother either. I would tell you politely - not interested and have a nice day. I get you say you will pay the full amount and for you, knowing you here, I believe you but I wouldn’t if I didn’t know you and we were just texting each other, I wouldn’t believe it and would think you will show up with a different rate in hand to try and haggle on the spot.
Say “no bare IF your not comfortable”. I would say no right there. That to me reads as - I will do unsafe things” which leads to either pressure for me once you arrive to go bare or it means you have been unsafe with other escorts and I’m not willing to take the chance.
From your other post, boasting about review boards and reputation would get you a no from me as well. I get I just said it helped me trust you here but we have naturally developed this relationship online. Coming from a new guy just texting me, I would just move on. Sounds too much like boasting which comes across as arrogant to me and feels like bullying. Like “you better listen to me or I will post a bad review”. It comes across as a threat even if not said that way. Again text has no context so we can make our own and we will make a context that we hear more often. Talking about review boards like that usually comes with threats.
Lastly - I am immediately excited and attracted to the guy that reads my stuff. My site, my ads, etc. I have guys contact me and say a date and time they want but I will always confirm the rate and I do it by asking if they know the rate. 9/10 he does and I love it. This is my preferred way to book and will get a booking over another guy any time of day
So yeah / you know you’re a good guy but based on your communication - I can see how these girls reacted. I don’t get the 2-3 days of texting. I never text back if it has been longer then an hour since I received the text.
Raising the rate $200 / I bet was a “I don’t want to deal with this guy” type. Raise it so high that he says no or if he says yes - then at least it is worth it. That is just a guess though.
So there are a lot of thing you say that would just make me say no thanks. Again, it is others guys who have made it harder for you by the way they act. Then you come in - innocent and really trying, yet you are read like you are possibly one of the other types. Who would you take? An unsure possible undesirable client or a guy who knows when he wants to book, already know the info and is ready with cash in hand right now?
just some thoughts on the matter
Had that happen once with a highly reviewed Indy, I stopped trying to book her, there are just too many options out there. SP's try to psyche us out by conveying a seller's market. I believe it's a buyer's market. . .
I don’t want to piss of BBL again but it is not a buyers market. If it was you guys would not have so much trouble with communication. Women would want to book as many as possible. We don’t have to worry about that because the phone always ringings. If we don’t answer, it is because we have answered someone else.
I move on and pass on so many potential clients. If it was a buyers market / I wouldn’t be able to do that. There are some escorts who have to take every call but that is usually a pimped/drug addict/insert other none choice thing here. It is not because it is a buyers market.
